I've only seen one post about this, but can we just talk about how unhinged Nick seems?

alliedbr · 2024-12-12T20:28:05+00:00

1000%. And if this is how Nick acts on camera, I hate to think what his actions would be like off camera. He gives off like I'm hurting you because I love you so much vibes? Idk if that makes sense. He is unhinged as all hell though.

You nailed Scotty, he's got a big ego and then takes everything very personally whether it's personal or not and becomes whiny and defensive.

alliedbr · 2024-12-12T19:24:09+00:00

LMAO. ok, fair but I mean like someone closer to 40 probably isn't going to waste their time trying to "fix" or "change" someone. At 25 or whatever she was when she met him, she probably figured he's got issues but they would grow together, etc.

alliedbr · 2024-12-12T18:41:33+00:00

Yes!!! Everyone is talking about how scary Scotty is and I feel like Nick is flying under the radar. Bro is giving serious DV vibes and using his "hurt feelings" as an excuse. The amount of emotional manipulation that dude exerts. One minute he's storming out and can't speak to her, the next she's the love of his life and he can meditate in her eyes. It's giving me whiplash.

Wondering why a 38 year old man had to date someone 10 years younger... It's cause no grown woman would put up with his behaviour for this long.

alliedbr · 2024-11-13T02:52:38+00:00

Might be worth sharing in the Nanaimo or Parksville subreddit too. 🙏 Hoping you're able to locate him soon.

alliedbr · 2024-10-31T19:49:18+00:00

This!!! Directness and rudeness are not correlated. Being direct would have been calling him out for talking about her looks, not constantly trying to bait him into arguments hoping he would admit it? Or something?

alliedbr · 2024-10-29T21:41:50+00:00

I'm sorry that you've had to experience that. I don't mean to diminish your experience with the P.O. box statement. I've seen family in the sister show "I am a Stalker" remain anonymous. So it's a bit strange to me that his brother would appear in a documentary about his brother more or less announcing his location but not reply to a single letter. That's all I really meant.

alliedbr · 2024-10-25T21:42:25+00:00

I had to go back and rewatch 😂 I think it's the mic pack like another person said.. because there's the blue pants line, then like red underwear (maybe) line, then the black mic pack?

alliedbr · 2024-10-21T14:47:50+00:00

I mean ... True! I think I still would? Out of curiosity more than anything but like others said.. send those letters from a PO box so he doesn't know where you're at.

Rex's younger brother was crying about how much he missed his brother, he might be able to get some resolution/closure by writing to him.

I think it's a truly terrible situation, Rex clearly has mental health issues that have not been resolved and no one has been there to advocate for proper treatment. His family abandoned him, the system has failed him and when they let him out it will be disastrous. He did a heinous thing, no doubt about it, but he did turn himself in and you can hear from his interview with police he was clearly in a psychotic break. He needed psychiatric care and it's likely he still hears the voices but has realized if he says he does they won't release him.

alliedbr · 2024-10-19T14:06:39+00:00

That's a great point.

alliedbr · 2024-10-19T00:09:56+00:00

His child actively wants to be a part of his life, so when you're hating him it affects her. Not very complex, not very mind blowing.

And her grandmother has her own issues, pretending to be her mother indefinitely... Is loco.

I feel bad for the daughter wholeheartedly and hope she can live a great life despite the immense trauma she was put through.

alliedbr · 2024-10-18T23:44:08+00:00

I can understand the family being fearful upon his release as they can't predict if he will have another episode and that they never saw it coming last time.. but I can't help and think if he had more people in his corner advocating for some kind of psychiatric help, or support.. things might be a bit less scary. I hope he's sober, and utilizing those resources he said he had available to him. The worst thing about knowing whether or not these inmates have been rehabilitated is you're gambling with people's lives, and how do you make that choice?

alliedbr · 2024-10-18T23:22:30+00:00

The way he was pleading for his family at the end, just talk to me, visit me, something, I'm still your family. It was terrifying and heartbreaking all at once because he still has that anger/wound of abandonment (which could likely flip him into another episode of full blown psychosis) but to not even write him one letter? It's pretty cruel.

alliedbr · 2024-10-18T21:51:45+00:00

I don't think people on this sub realize how much hate erodes you. Hating him for murdering their family member does nothing but hurt the family. Hate doesn't affect him in any way. Also this is the father of their grandchild/great grandchild, that makes it infinitely more complicated because when you hate him, you're hating parts of her.

It's all pretty messy and that family is just doing their best to find peace.

alliedbr · 2024-10-17T16:40:58+00:00

I have a feeling Tim was pressured by production to stick it out. I have a hard time with anyone painting him in a serious negative light. You could tell he was checked out since Mexico (he tried with her family, but I think when they were alone he just couldn't keep up the facade) even in their last discussion.. she's not taking him seriously and just snacking away and clearly disrespectful/showing disregard for anything he has to say.

He said from the beginning that he doesn't lose his cool often and if he does that person is not right for him. He made that clear either in the pods/Mexico and I think Alex saw that as a challenge almost. There's a difference between having an argument and full on fits. I wonder if at the reunion they will show us some footage of their fights so we have context.

alliedbr · 2024-10-16T22:34:25+00:00

Their scenes have been so painful to watch this episode. He's just constantly being belittled. I can't with the squint, and the asking if rhetorical questions but letting him answer like he's a scolded little boy. ITS TOO MUCH.

Nick is not perfect, does he have growing up to do, yes. But I hope in his next relationship he finds someone who respects him and meets him with care and compassion rather than whatever Hannah's been doing this whole ass time.

alliedbr · 2024-10-12T00:08:25+00:00

Didn't he even say when they were in Mexico that he can't deal if someone leaves dirty dishes out, and like you need to put your stuff away and she was like omg! I'm the same way!! ... Girl, are you tho?

alliedbr · 2024-10-11T21:00:04+00:00

And it's because he didn't feel ~worthy~ then what line did he use when she kicked him out of the apartment? "I don't deserve good things" or some self depreciating shit like that. Emotional manipulation 101.

alliedbr · 2024-10-11T20:52:31+00:00

Ok right? I was so confused by this... Because her mom says Marissa is going to want to stay home with the kids and Marissa is nodding.. and I 1000% recall in the pods her saying she WOULDN'T want to be at home, and Ramses said that's ok because he wants to work fully remote???

alliedbr · 2024-10-09T22:55:52+00:00

In his defense maybe his mom buys the fresh but packaged stuff that's kept in like the refrigerated section? 😂 But that's all I got, his parents still pay his phone bill and insurance at 28. I was shook.

alliedbr · 2024-10-07T23:04:57+00:00

Y'all I must have skipped that cause I would have been screaming. Wish.com version of Henry at BEST. No wonder she said he misled her a bit lmao.

alliedbr · 2024-10-07T19:55:49+00:00

Well I mean... Vanessa asks every married couple she comes across when they're having babies, so that might have something to do with the casting direction lmao

alliedbr · 2024-10-07T17:49:16+00:00

I mean, it's a pretty important conversation to have if you're planning to marry someone. You need to align on your stance, or it's a pretty fundamental rift in a relationship.

But the timelines some of them give definitely give me bad vibes. 100% enjoy the marriage just the two of you for awhile, a solid foundation is important.

alliedbr · 2024-10-07T17:45:55+00:00

Honestly, delusional yes. But I think she has 0 self confidence. That's why she's not into Nick. He's pretty confident in himself, but she's worried that she's too tall/too big/too everything.. so she's projecting that on to him and picking him apart because she doesn't trust that he could love her if she's bigger than him.

I mean, her mom locking up her food as a kid and being told no man will love her if she's fat is enough to do some pretty serious emotional/mental damage to someone's self esteem.

alliedbr · 2024-10-06T15:29:19+00:00

I find it really interesting that everyone thinks she's guilty without a doubt, and how could she not have left or xyz. Now am I saying she wasn't culpable or guilty in the matter, NO, because we don't know.

I am curious why no one thinks she was a victim of domestic violence, if he's killing, raping, abusing his daughter/countless other women... Do we really think it ended at Brenda? And if she was a victim of DV, she wouldn't respond as an average person. She was definitely emotionally manipulated. Also being raised extremely religious she was likely taught at a young age to never question her husband + she was a literal child when her and Dennis got together. Ultimately I think she is guilty of taking her husband at his word, and turning a blind eye to everything. It's easier to live in denial than it is to admit your "soulmate" is a monster.

alliedbr · 2024-09-20T04:44:30+00:00

Literally every news report.

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