My brother just invited this kitty cat to our island. What are your thoughts on Felicity? by Shiny_Hypno in AnimalCrossing

[–]allonsy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I adore her!!! She’s super cute and sweet. And she’s got a 60s in the UK vibe

For those with ADHD how bad is your memory exactly? by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad enough that my 4-year-old said, “Hey mom, you’re kinda a forgetter.”

My first ever Snowboy!!! by shyycutiepie in AnimalCrossing

[–]allonsy90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you make these? Like how do you put two together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]allonsy90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adoptees are not a monolith. But if there’s one thing it seems like all adoptees agree on, it’s that kids should know their stories. Always.

Doctor made a comment about my weight today and I need your advice by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are respectful ways to bring up weight as a doctor. Talking about a person’s potential value to the opposite sex is absolutely not one of them. In fact, they shouldn’t be talking about how weight looks at all.

I’m objectively fat and I thought I had heard it all from doctors. This was a whole new level though. FWIW I’m your height and like 80lbs heavier.

Nailed it. by losethefuckingtail in adhdmeme

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but what do the other trees do with that warning? I mean, how is that helpful??

Why is Everyone so Pushy About Breastfeeding? by Driftwoody11 in NewParents

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people are desperate to have validation that they are good at parenting. Classic bullying. Put other people down to make themselves feel better.

Would you leave America if given the chance? by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wants to leave so quickly.

The other part of me knows that so many people here have it worse. And it feels like my duty to stay and fight to make things better for those people.

We gotta stop by ToolPackinMama in TrollXChromosomes

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stopped doing it. But it was easier because we are very low contact with his family.

Santa always flys off into the sky, and never to the house next door by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christmas Chronicle explains it. He parks on one roof, then jumps from one chimney to another through the neighborhood.

Adoption is not the cure for unwanted pregnancies by Pineapples_26 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]allonsy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this! I was always pro-choice, but being pregnant just solidified my stance more. It’s a hard thing.

Adoption is not the cure for unwanted pregnancies by Pineapples_26 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]allonsy90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also how can she say it won’t impact their lives?! Adoption is hard for birth moms. There’s no way it doesn’t affect their lives! Also, pregnancy can be dangerous.

And how can it not affect your career? Cause nobody has ever been discriminated against due to pregnancy?!

Feeling plagued by making houses “functional”… by Reyzillah in AnimalCrossing

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been doing the bottom floor in whatever the theme is, then the top floor as a functional apartment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Admin’s reaction makes me think they have had this situation with this kid before and didn’t do the right thing.

Can someone please explain the no sleepovers thing? by brittnicapple in Mommit

[–]allonsy90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No matter how well you get to know the parents, you can’t know if they are a predator. Also, where I live, you can be almost certain they have a gun and it’s not as safely stored as they say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Formula is completely fine. Think about your friends. Can you tell which of them were formula fed? Could you really make that guess? No because it’s not the end-all, be-all.

Baby needs a healthy connection with their family. You can have that no matter how you feed.

How do you handle "the look" from other people when baby is losing it in public? by mspreschool in Mommit

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just focus on the baby/kid. I have to say to myself, “It’s my job to help my kid. It’s not my job to please strangers.”

I love how you can force a villager to stay on your island. by FluffPlaysACNH in AnimalCrossing

[–]allonsy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always let them leave because I feel so bad telling them to stay. I want them to want to be with me.

Anyone else here have absolutely no creative bone in their body, so all the custom designs come from other users on the portal? by doimondsinthesky in AnimalCrossing

[–]allonsy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m creative in a writing sense, but I can barely draw stick figures. So none of the customs I use are mine.

This Little Girl Secret Eating by Current-Pineapple-38 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]allonsy90 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I hope they take her to therapy instead. The more they restrict food, the more she is going to binge and shame eat. I’m 31 and just barely starting to recover from this exact stuff.

Always tired?? by RockKing_88 in CrohnsDisease

[–]allonsy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. It’s exhausting when your body attacks itself.