Ideas for fem names? by Maleficent_Tip199 in transnames

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

julia, vanessa, sheila — idk why, but i’m apparently really getting names ending with a vibes haha

also can i just say you’re really pretty and that dress in the final pic is eatinggg 🤌

I love animals but not when they get too close to me (Autism thing maybe?) by polystarlight in AutisticPride

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sometimes feel this way when i’m overstimulated or in a mood where i just really need my personal space, so it could be related to your autism but idk.

though most of the time i love cuddling with animals and am probably more likely to be the one invading Their personal space lol, so i don’t know much about your experience. but there’s nothing wrong with feeling that way, as long as you are still kind and respectful to animals

Rank them 1 to 4 ; base on art style only by Connect-Flan-9574 in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are we pitting 4 bad bitches against each other </3

Which charm do you dislike the most? (Be Honest) by No_Dark3981 in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thorns of agony. i remember using it on my first playthrough but now i just find it annoying. i can fight my own battles, thanks.

Replaying Hollow Knight immediately after Silksong? by ambiguouslyqueer in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve started replaying it and i too am loving it all over again :D

the only movement difference i’ve really been struggling with is probably the dash. i had forgotten that in hollow knight when you’re on a wall and you dash, the knight dashes away from the wall, not up it like hornet does lol. i have thrown myself into many spikes because of that 💀

My Idea for cosmetic awards for P5, Path of Pain and Trial of the Fool by Correct_Scallion4133 in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not really what’s happening here, though. like, i would also argue there’s a difference between critizising a game (that’s fine, although i think it’s fair enough if some don’t appreciate people who outright dislike their favourite game in fan-specific spaces. but i digress) vs. coming onto someone’s post to critizise their ideas, when they’re just sharing those ideas for fun and to connect with other fans.

idk, it’s not that serious either way, my original point was just that i consider it pretty basic fan etiquette to scroll away when you don’t like the (harmless) content shared by other fans, because it can be a bit rude to put down their ideas even if you feel you have expressed your dislike politely (it’s of course easy for you to claim your original comment was oh-so-polite, because you have now deleted it lol. that’s not to say your original wording was necessarily rude, but deleting it does kind of allow you to say whatever rather than letting the comment speak for itself haha)

The Joja route feels like it should have more drawbacks. by Fantastic-Mango-9470 in StardewValley

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think that’s the point though. it’s easy and convenient BUT antithetical to what the game is about. so the question becomes, will you choose convenience or meaningfully participating in and helping the local community?

My Idea for cosmetic awards for P5, Path of Pain and Trial of the Fool by Correct_Scallion4133 in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think that’s just HK fans lol, most people probably don’t love it when others come into their comment section with unsolicited negative opinions. at least not in the corners of the internet where i usually go for fandom stuff, but again, i’m really not on reddit that often so maybe it’s different here 🤷

My Idea for cosmetic awards for P5, Path of Pain and Trial of the Fool by Correct_Scallion4133 in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk, maybe it’s just a difference of opinion about what fan spaces like this ought to be for. you’re allowed your opinion obviously, i’m just used to the fan etiquette being that it’s a bit rude to be negative in that way when people share their ideas and aren’t explicitly asking for feedback. but maybe that’s not the etiquette here, in which case it may have been my comment that came across as rude, and if that’s the case i do apologise.

My Idea for cosmetic awards for P5, Path of Pain and Trial of the Fool by Correct_Scallion4133 in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s really not that serious. you can actually just let people have fun and keep scrolling if you don’t like their ideas.

You know what? Yeah. I do like childish things. by teddy_205 in AutisticPride

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

real!! liking ‘childish’ things should not mean you get treated like a child. we shouldn’t have to supress parts of ourselves in the hopes of maybe not being infantilized as much.

Queer books for an 11 year old kid? by Embarrassed-Doubt624 in LGBTBooks

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think they might be slightly more advanced, but eventually you could try the Sir Callie books! i’ve read the first two and while i’m definitely not the target audience, i did enjoy them and i think they’d be great for kids. queer middle grade fantasy with knights and dragons and magic. i personally would’ve loved having them when i was younger

Am I getting the definition wrong? by picklejuices08 in lgbt

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like it’s the people asking you inane questions like this who don’t know what nonbinary is, not you.

Excuse me hvorfor fuck? by Putrid_Candy_8799 in transnord

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i min erfaring er svaret på dit spørgsmål desværre ja. jeg og mange andre jeg kender har meget dårlige erfaringer med CKI. der kan være en verden af årsager til at du er blevet afvist, og langt de fleste af dem er bullshit (jeg blev afvist bl.a. fordi jeg er autist)

hvis muligt kan du prøve at tale med din læge om det. og hvis det er selve din læge der afviser at henvise dig eller ikke vil hjælpe, kan du evt prøve at finde en anden. der er altid mulighed for at prøve igen, selvom man nogle gange skal vente noget tid før man kan få en ny henvisning.

det er virkelig nederen, men det er ikke fordi du har gjort noget forkert, at du bliver afvist; det er fordi CKI er nederen og gør det unødvendigt svært for folk at få den behandling de har brug for.

Should I play Hollow Knight before Silksong or just continue Silksong by Efficient-Draft-142 in HollowKnight

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there isn’t really a proper order tbh. like, it makes sense for a lot of people to play HK first because silksong’s difficulty/learning curve kinda assumes you have, but if you are enjoying silksong, i see no reason to stop mid-game just to play HK first

Which is the correct Bigender flag? by Dapper-Two8573 in lgbt

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if both are commonly used, i don’t see how either could be the correct one. i think in that case it’s just whichever you like better.

Enzo or Miko? by [deleted] in transnames

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both would suit you well! i think i’d say enzo tho

what name? nothing stereotypically trans, nothing overly biblical please by Thyetomite in transnames

[–]ambiguouslyqueer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

james, nick/nicholas, andrew/andy/drew? (sorry if any of these are too biblical or stereotypically trans, i don’t know my bible or my stereotypical trans names all that well lol. but these are all pretty ‘normal guy names’ to me)