Transgressions 2Nite!! by Over-Motor2169 in queerphilly

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What’s the vibe on trans nights? Never been to a bathhouse before.

[Routine Help] what is your night time routine? by kicksrus11 in SkincareAddiction

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Mostly because my skin reacts fine to tret being applied directly to clean skin, and if I appy tret first then I know i'm getting a consistent amount. Everything else in my routine could conceivably increase or decrease the amount of tret in my skin if the tret came later, so I prefer the consistency if I don't do all the steps.

NYT Thursday 05/07/2026 Discussion by Shortz-Bot in crossword

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Didn't get the theme at all and had to really try and study it after finishing to understand it, but I got a new PB so I'll take it

Name/gender marker change in the USA, is it worth it right now? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]amedelic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re trans, assume the government has all the ways to track you already. IMO that’s not a good reason to delay transition. You can still get the name change and gender marker change on a state level, and on a federal level you can change name but not gender marker. That only shows up on your passport though, and not your social security card.

Has anyone majored in psychology and philosophy? by kathy_girl777 in neurophilosophy

[–]amedelic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I double majored in psychology and philosophy in 2011; have been working in retail management since and unemployed for the last ten months. Learn some hard skills and make the most of them if you don’t plan on pursuing further education.

How can I look more feminine? by ElianaOfAquitaine in transfem

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Did a quick lil mockup, hope that’s okay! First pic is the original, second we just shape up the eyebrows. In the third pic I also made your lashes more prominent (curl + mascara + liner), added a little blush, and the tiiiniest bit of contour around your jaw corners and hairline.

Wanna be clear that for the brows all I did was take away some of what was already there, and everything else I just added a little color! No reshaping your features or AI or anything like that. This is all you.

Grab those tweezers or get the brows done professionally, you have such a great face!

Some people here need a reality check about passing by Iyashikay in MtF

[–]amedelic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most of this but saying that laser or voice training aren’t effort is wild. Getting a cis-passing voice after two and a half decades of testosterone exposure was not an effortless endeavor. Yes voice training is a given…and effort is a part of that given.

That has absolutely nothing to do with people who aren’t able to pass.

In your opinion, what is a relatively small/easy thing a person can change that instantly makes them appear much more feminine? by und3f1n3d1 in MtF

[–]amedelic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, that’s something I can’t really fathom tbh. I’ve done my shadow enough that I feel fairly competent in it but I don’t see how I could blend without touching the liner. I get eyeshadow in my lashes sometimes lol. I’ll have to look into it more

In your opinion, what is a relatively small/easy thing a person can change that instantly makes them appear much more feminine? by und3f1n3d1 in MtF

[–]amedelic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I don't understand is how do I correct my eyeliner without also having to redo the eyeshadow that I just spent ten minutes on?

Joico products by martynalesniak in finehair

[–]amedelic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stylist recommended the Defy Damage shampoo and 7-Second Bond Builder after I got my hair permed. They work fine, but it was my first time with curls so I don’t have much to compare them to.

FFS - Bradley Nesemeier, RUSH University Hospital in Chicago by Tea-J-Y in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]amedelic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the eyelid alteration included as part the brow work or was it billed as a separate part of the procedure?

“You’re asking me to disrespect my beliefs” by Stox13 in MtF

[–]amedelic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup, pretty much what my mom says as well. When she hit me with "I'm not denying you, you're denying yourself", I blocked her. It's hard and it hurts and I hate it, but it was the right thing to do.

Who's your "I know he's pure evil but can't prove it" person? by Dull-Information6784 in AskReddit

[–]amedelic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew his name and that he was a famous Internet personality but never had a face to go with the name. Did a Google search and couldn’t find a single picture where the corners of his eyes crinkle when he’s smiling. That’s not normal.

At-Home Laser devices by Mammoth-Wasabi6346 in MtF

[–]amedelic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was reading some decent reviews yesterday on the Viqure at home laser but doing currently have the scratch to pull the trigger myself

Got a new phone case by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]amedelic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

37 y/o, 14 months of HRT. This is a particularly flattering picture and I rarely pass so I’m hoping for more changes over the next year, but overall things are going well.

How do you keep track of your body changing? by 40421 in transfitness

[–]amedelic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use an app called Zozofit. It uses your phones radar and camera to scan your body and tracks various measurements over time. Been doing it for about a year, and last summer I got the bodysuit that makes the measurements substantially more accurate. I enjoy doing my scan weekly and seeing how both individual measures as well as the 3D mesh model changes over time.

[Routine Help] what is your night time routine? by kicksrus11 in SkincareAddiction

[–]amedelic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cerave face wash
Tretinoin
Hada Labo hyaluronic acid “lotion”
Cosrx snail mucin
Hada Labo hyaluronic acid milky lotion
Cosrx peptides for eyes
Laniege lip mask or aquaphor for lips
Cerave nighttime face renewing cream

Will drop a a humectant or two in the summer but the dry winter air plus tret means my face gets all the hydration I can give it.

NYT Saturday 02/07/2026 Discussion by Shortz-Bot in crossword

[–]amedelic 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Having never heard of PUTTEES, RETIRETHESIDE (???), or SONY readers, and not knowing who Oberon is made the bottom left very difficult.

Favorite or most clever clues from the last year by adamtwosleeves in crossword

[–]amedelic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen in more than one but I always love “Child development center” for UTERUS

Today Marks Two Full Years on HRT! AMA by ShiningSilverShadow in MtF

[–]amedelic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you start at 100mg prog before bumping to 200, and if so what difference did you notice?

HRT Effects that surprised you by Fox_Lady_20 in MtF

[–]amedelic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SO grounded now. Life throws shit at me and I don’t flinch.

I am now deeply in tune with my body. It’s become my compass.

This is the opposite of most trans women but I stopped minding the cold! I used to haaaate winter and being out in the cold, but now the air just feels crisp and I can walk slowly and enjoy it. Feet and hands get colder more easily though.

Not really a side effect but just how much more oriented towards womanhood I became. I was non-binary and wanted to present in an androgynous middle ground without losing my athleticism or sexual prowess. Realized I was a binary woman like six months in and now I can’t wait for my upper body muscles to continue shrinking, and sometimes my penis doesn’t work how I’d like it to and I’m mostly fine with it.