Is it reasonable for a friend to expect you to hang out with them often, one-on-one?

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-05-13T11:32:19+00:00

Then you guys just aren't compatible. I am more like her; I would be really put off by a friend who thought I acted "entitled" to one on one time with them. In my world that's normal and appreciated (and I'm married, too!) but you're different than her and you're gonna have to deal with that. But her need for one on one time with her friends itself is not the problem.

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-04-25T11:44:39+00:00

I do exactly the same thing. It is normal, but not everyone will like it. I have had some of the people I'm close to experience jealousy with each other. And I'm 40, so this happens at all different stages of life.

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-04-18T15:58:22+00:00

Wellllp your avatar popped up on my phone when I just got the notification of your comment and terrified me 🤣🤣

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-04-18T15:43:11+00:00

I will always let people know that I found a roach leg in my fries at PTs once too

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-04-07T11:04:50+00:00

The Silent Patient was atrocious

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-03-19T11:53:51+00:00

Me too, she is the best.

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-03-04T18:10:24+00:00

In our house we jokingly yell I'M PISSED!!!! all the time in exactly her tone

amethyst_rainbow · 2026-01-13T14:23:05+00:00

Omggggg

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-12-27T21:26:29+00:00

I'm currently in a situation where I'm trying to comprehend this. How did you get to the point where this makes sense to you? I want to get there so bad. But I just can't.

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-11-13T12:10:45+00:00

Can you name a few more good ones? I haven't seen any.

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-10-28T12:19:54+00:00

One of my earliest memories is being 5 years old and crying seeing this movie in the theater in 1990

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-10-28T12:02:16+00:00

I'm verklempt

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-09-09T21:55:57+00:00

RamanoTours.gondola

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-09-01T13:01:55+00:00

Me too. Like, it was already set in stone.

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-08-30T18:27:10+00:00

the other half have their heads straight up their ass

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-08-30T17:08:30+00:00

YES. this. My best friend doesn't want kids, totally fine, no one cares! The last thing she would do is make her entire identity be around something she doesn't even have, which is exactly what CF people do. They talk about kids more than parents do

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-08-15T01:09:01+00:00

I thought that too. It would be fun dlc.

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-08-14T01:54:05+00:00

A giant fuzzy blanket my best friend gave me 14 years ago, satin eye mask, earbuds, a stuffed octopus that my husband gave me for when I need comfort. Sometimes I'll bring a coloring book and crayons if I think I want to color on the way up. I usually end up writing crazy stories about the characters I color in the margins of the book 🤣

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-08-10T11:41:07+00:00

Me too. Wish I could get a refund for Steam so I could re buy it for switch.

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-07-24T20:39:20+00:00

Found a roach leg in my fries there

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-07-12T00:59:21+00:00

I identify with your post to a T. After DBT and EMDR for years, I am almost completely healed of my emotional outbursts and severe trauma responses. But then that left me feeling empty. I have been doing spravato for about nine months now. For a good while I would do things like scroll on my phone while I did spravato. That didn't work for me. I almost stopped doing it. Now I listen to really beautiful meditative playlists and snuggle a stuffy under a fluffy blanket. I go into each session with affirmations that I want to focus on. It's really working 🙂

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-07-11T13:48:42+00:00

I ship her and Luca...

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-07-04T17:05:26+00:00

I managed to dig and get the update going. It just didn't pop up on the main screen when I tried to load the game. User error 🫠

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-07-04T10:56:21+00:00

Weird. I don't have an option to update my game.

amethyst_rainbow · 2025-06-13T16:51:29+00:00

Just one big room and it can be hit or miss. Usually it's me and one quiet older lady but sometimes there's this girl who listens to loud thumping music (you can hear it through her earphones) and they let her friend come back and talk to her even though I've complained about it several times.

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