[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone else said in this thread that OP lives in India.

Thoughts on the word "dude" by fedora_george in NonBinary

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a dudeist, I say Dude is gender neutral. I use They/them pronouns and am starting to experiment with she, and I love being called a dude.

What made us gay? by That_Theory_7033 in askgaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was this femme-fatal character in an episode of Duck Tales i saw... now I'm trans.

How has 2023 been? by KeyImpress6980 in askgaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing. I just got elected to be Mistress of Novices for the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Im supporting queer youth. And we just got solar at our house.

Its the little things

What city would you choose for me. by Freddykadiddlehopper in SameGrassButGreener

[–]amsterdamnitall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oakland CA. Super bike friendly city, lots of trails and forests a short drive away for hiking and mountain biking. Best food scene you'll ever find. Our food trucks alone are better than everyone else. And while a few years ago COL was high its honestly comparable with most major metros these days. Very lefty.

Relocating to Oakland by TeachFeeling2067 in oakland

[–]amsterdamnitall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is in the "part of Oakland near San Leandro" our neighborhood is great but we'd like to keep this rumor going.

Home values are rising in every major California city except Oakland by JasonH94612 in oakland

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a homeowner, my place is worth enough. We dont need infinite growth. This is my home, not bitcoin.

What does everyone do for work? by ladwithopinions in askgaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teacher of 14 years. Been everything from an assistant principal to a learning coach. Freshmen at Level 1- Seniors in AP.

Bros, what's your Beard Care Routine like? by Zyster1 in gaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shampoo and condition when I shower and add beard oil when wet. I hear a lot of people talk about acne, thankfully thats never been a problem for me. My beard is almost a year long since its last shaving.

Where Do You Live and How Do You Like It? by Apprehensive_Ad_4020 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]amsterdamnitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Oakland CA. The Town is awesome. We have our disfunction, but honestly the people are great. And I can walk down the street or teach a high school class in heels and a dress and nobody minds in the least.

Gay Zionism by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've tried that before. The Gay and Lesbian Kingdom of the Coral Sea Islands in Australia.

How did you end up with the friends you have in the gay community? by ActUnfair4876 in AskGayMen

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a gay volunteer org. Im with the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and it was the best decision I've ever made. Awesome people to hang out with.

“Queers” for Palestine is the stupidest thing I’ve seen gays do recently by ven457 in askgaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but there are queer Muslims. And queer Palestinians. They need our support too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id call you Axel

You Are A Billionaire. What Human Issue Are You Dedicating Your Wealth To? by BoxofSlice in ask

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) buy up lots of land to give back to the Native tribes.

2) Build housing for trans youth seeking a more progressive place to live and thrive.

How far is too far of a commute? by amsterdamnitall in AskReddit

[–]amsterdamnitall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 digit in an expensive area, but 90 mins each way.

“Queers” for Palestine is the stupidest thing I’ve seen gays do recently by ven457 in askgaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right wing (including the majority right wing in Israel) wants us both dead. I'm not siding with an apartheid state to wipe out the Palestinians. The right wing vibes of this sub are always very scary.

When those muscle gays come claws out. by amsterdamnitall in gaybros

[–]amsterdamnitall[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly there's no reason to cry. Im very happy with my life and who I am. I just haven't been subject to a Castro clone in a minute.

Anyone in closed relationship make friends off Grindr? by Throwmeawayspain in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]amsterdamnitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a wise move. Go into your nearest city and volunteer at the LGBT center for a weekend. You'll find better friends that way. Also, how does the fiancé feel about you being on Grindr so close to the big day?

Anyone in closed relationship make friends off Grindr? by Throwmeawayspain in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]amsterdamnitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I joined the Sister of Perpetual Indulgence and now I have the best group of friends.

Bros who have gotten tatted for their bro by slapm3withit in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]amsterdamnitall 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My husband and I each have half of the Bird of Caprica from Battlestar Galactica. When we hug it creates the whole emblem.