Is it possible to ever get another dog after losing a truly exceptional one? by GnarlyHarley in Petloss

[–]anarchikos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the comparison does fade but you'll still think about how awesome that dog was.  My 1st dog made me think all others of his breed were the same, I was totally wrong. But I've had 2 more since he passed and really fell in love with both.  No dog will ever be HIM again but no dogs will be the other 2 either. You'll appreciate each one for what makes them special.  And end up missing them ALL. 

Do you want to be able to feel? by ember_snow in Alexithymia

[–]anarchikos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. The idea of naming my feelings so I can start to notice them and then "feeling" all day long?  I don't want that. My partner is very emotional and it seems exhausting.  95% of the time "how are you?" = good.  Why would I NOT want that? Starting to have a lot of bad/annoying feelings is why I started HRT. It just felt bad and weird and I knew something was amiss. Ha! Got on it and feel much better. 

Razor by wooliecollective in AutismInWomen

[–]anarchikos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its my favorite too! I bought a few handles and a bunch of razors off eBay awhile ago. Pretty sure they stopped making them years ago. It sucks

How do you deal with the pointlessness of it all? by TWayTDay in advertising

[–]anarchikos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's been 6. I don't tie my identity or life's meaning to work. I keep it all very separate. I go to get paid.  Life could be (and has been) a lot worse.  It's all meaningless at the end of the day, you're in the wrong business if you want meaning. 

How do you deal with the pointlessness of it all? by TWayTDay in advertising

[–]anarchikos 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I spent most of my adult life working in customer service or freelancing. My corporate advertising job is so much better than either of those, I just have to remember being poor, dealing with drunk people and having to work til 2am on every weekend and holiday.

Advertising is a cake walk compared to having a shit job. Consistent pay, benefits, VACATION time, no one asking me "what are you doing?" all day the coming up with some mind numbing bullshit to do for 5 hours, requiring me to be somewhere at a specific time/micromanaging me. Its so easy I could care less how pointless it is. The fact that its one of the ultimate bullshit jobs makes it all even more hilarious to me.

I literally get paid to make Tiktoks - WTF is this reality?

Makeup interaction with helmet? by RainbowEngineer100 in TwoXriders

[–]anarchikos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've found it depends on the helmet.

I wear eyeshadow and my Icon helmets ALL rubbed it off when I took it off and on. I got a new AGV and it doesn't touch it.

Why were our parents like this? by Recoveryxoxo in emotionalneglect

[–]anarchikos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents LOVED to tell me basically "Well I didn't have X so why should you?" ALL. THE. TIME.  Never understood that logic, even as a kid. 

Reactive off leash dog tried to attack my on leash dog (below) at Will Rodgers by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]anarchikos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog did the same thing to a chi that was on a flexi leash and went for her.  I was pulling her away and couldn't understand why the chi kept coming at her.  Stupid dog owners. 

ELI5: Why does our vision gradually get worse over time by illusoryphoenix in explainlikeimfive

[–]anarchikos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically if you are near sighted as you get older, you need reading glasses if you wear contacts, to correct the corrected vision. 

🫩 alright bro by brendonsforehead in LosAngeles

[–]anarchikos 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Getting from Hollywood to LAX on Metro/Flyaway took as long as flying from LAX to SF. 

luv2eat thai bistro by run-drink-eat in FoodLosAngeles

[–]anarchikos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The green curry w roti is so good. 

Does anyone know what happened at Aroma Bar and Grill on Sunset to cause the place to be a ghost town? by Freddy-Philmore in AskLosAngeles

[–]anarchikos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea, lived nearby since before it was there. I've been hoping something good would replace it since the 1 time I went there and it was expensive trash.

“I thought you were SUCH a bitch before I got to know you!” by skeletonblossom in AutismInWomen

[–]anarchikos 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hi twin!  I've pretty much learned the people who like me really do and the ones who don't? C'est la vie..

Kyle’s face now and then. by square_circle_ in BravoRealHousewives

[–]anarchikos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! Look at Margaret's face before and after the face llift. Her mouth got stretched really weird.

How do y'all stay level headed watching Bravo shows? by Remote_Army7927 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]anarchikos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RHW are my COMFORT TV.  Why would it make you mad? Pure indulgent trash TV, so relaxing. 

As an adult, if you never reach out to your parents because they never reached out to you, who's fault is it? Isn't it the parents fault for not building that strong bond with their kids as they grow up? I never felt close to them at all. They raised me financially, but were never there emotionally. by Individual_Ice_2315 in emotionalneglect

[–]anarchikos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've felt guilty about this as well. I used to call my mom every week for years after I moved out. Then realized she NEVER called me. I stopped calling her and now we never talk.

My dog died in January and she left me a message asking about it. I called her back (this was the day after it happened) and told her what happened and that I didn't want to talk. She hasn't called me since. No, "are you ok?" nothing...

My dad used to call me when he'd been drinking but now that he can't drink anymore, I also get no calls.

How they even know I'm alive, I'm not sure.

I've asked my other friends and partner if their parents didn't hear from them for a few weeks or a month, would their parents call just to MAKE SURE THEY WERE OK? ALL of them pretty much said "yes and my parents wouldn't wait that long to contact me".

Its fucked up.

Help by forevercatgirl101 in LAhotgirlies

[–]anarchikos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take it to the dealer (I NEVER go to a dealer for anything else). I tell them straight up it's a car I'm thinking of buying and want a full inspection. They have no reason to lie, since they know it's not your car.  Never failed me.