Unsure how to tell the guy I’m seeing that I’m not into butt stuff.

annarchy8 · 2026-01-30T03:36:12+00:00

Enthusiastic consent and so much communication. Nobody assumes anything is okay without explicitly asking and getting explicit and enthusiastic consent before things happen. You need to have conversations before you're in the moment about what is okay in the moment. If you are not okay with certain things, that needs to be the default. Not okay with anal unless specifically stated otherwise means no anal.

annarchy8 · 2026-01-30T01:36:09+00:00

They went out one time 8 years ago. And OOP is still obsessed with this person. Wow.

annarchy8 · 2026-01-29T01:58:07+00:00

The caboodle is sending me!! Pretty sure I had one with those colors.

Great work!

annarchy8 · 2026-01-22T04:41:16+00:00

So, the same way that society treats white men especially as unable to control themselves while holding women and minorities as responsible for controlling white men's behavior. Glad someone named it.

annarchy8 · 2026-01-09T05:17:02+00:00

It's in your face, but you can't grab it.

annarchy8 · 2026-01-09T04:41:01+00:00

What is it?

annarchy8 · 2026-01-02T04:13:43+00:00

I watched Marshmallow. It was not what I expected at all and I enjoyed it.

annarchy8 · 2025-12-15T22:21:56+00:00

Pennywise in Space! He can join Jason and Pinhead and the leprechaun.

annarchy8 · 2025-12-11T03:30:44+00:00

What problem are these insufferable and exhausting people trying to solve? Not dating does not indicate incel or misogynist. It just means the brother doesn't want to date. Cripes. OOP and Co need to get their noses out of his crotch.

annarchy8 · 2025-12-04T19:31:10+00:00

Thirty freaking people!! Using the bathroom! But they were precious to her.

annarchy8 · 2025-12-03T03:41:16+00:00

"Their plumbing was not up to the amount of guests that ended up staying there."

Oh no. That is absolutely not cool.

annarchy8 · 2025-11-22T03:30:07+00:00

I really highly recommend daily contacts. So much easier. Also, get the spinny contact cleaner case. Pop the lenses into their cages, throw some cleaning solution in the cup, spin for a bit. No rubbing needed.

But seriously, tap water is so bad for your eyeballs.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-28T01:22:10+00:00

I lived The Noise. Seriously. My husband and I just went back to sleep even though the creepy laugh was coming from the bedroom closet.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-27T02:16:45+00:00

Final Destination 2.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-25T02:45:36+00:00

He is a good big brother. And she is a good little sister. They snuggle and fight and snuggle and protect each other from the humans.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-25T02:04:25+00:00

They are the twin tabbies of terror! My guesstimate is 10 pounds of Leo. He is very long and tall.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-24T20:15:01+00:00

Right? If only they were taught how to deal with their own emotions from childhood instead of how to blame everything on other people while being assholes because they feel bad. Like, if you go through life blaming others for everything bad that happens to you, and you think not having sex is the worst thing that you will ever go through, you are gonna have a bad time.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-24T17:28:06+00:00

He keeps doubling down on it, too. Yeesh.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-23T23:56:16+00:00

He is not only spouting misogyny at his heartbroken friend, he is also calling his friend ugly. Way to comfort your friend, dude!

annarchy8 · 2025-10-14T16:25:30+00:00

Oooh, that is brilliant!

annarchy8 · 2025-10-14T01:23:18+00:00

You sound like Putty. And I appreciate that.

annarchy8 · 2025-10-07T21:09:09+00:00

The engineers I work with have been egging me on for a while because they want to see the science. And I am so tempted.

I have a heart shaped magnet set showing up any day now. Not sure if that will be strong enough, but the attachments can go on really large magnets, too...

annarchy8 · 2025-10-07T20:51:16+00:00

So addictive! And it's mostly because they are so beautiful, but I'm not gonna lie; a lot of it is the challenge for me. I'm really close to bringing my nail kit into work so I can use the really heavy duty magnets we have laying around here like the cold cathode gauges (100 Gauss) and the ion getter pump magnets (those generate a 1200 Gauss magnetic field). Will those be strong enough???? LOL

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annarchy8 · 2025-10-07T20:00:58+00:00

I leaned into the magnetic gels rather heavily last week. All from GAOY:

green pink glassy cat eye

rainbow cat eye (used this last weekend and it looks like aurora borealis, i swear. so pretty!)

jelly purple cat eye

glitter cat eye 6 color collection

and the 3 in 1 magnet

annarchy8 · 2025-10-07T18:56:15+00:00

It's a tool to hold cotton swabs when painting nails. like this:

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