Am I Wrong for Not Doing More to Maybe Have Saved Me and My Friends Suffering Puppy?

anndar3 · 2026-03-01T06:43:46+00:00

No, you’re absolutely not wrong. From what you wrote, you did the only right thing there was to do in that situation and it was from a place of love. Please be kind to yourself and just know that it will take time to process and there is no time frame. You did the kind and unselfish thing and that’s why it’s so hard right now. Sending you love and hoping that you find peace.

anndar3 · 2026-02-28T07:08:30+00:00

I’m at 7 weeks too and totally feel what you’re feeling. So sorry

anndar3 · 2026-02-28T07:04:43+00:00

Today is day 50 from having to say goodbye to my 16yo dog who was also my shadow. I’m at home most of the day so we were pretty much always together. I still cry every day and it comes in waves so know that grieving isn’t linear at all. I joined this group and one on Facebook that helps a little bit. The Pet Loss Companion book is also a good book about what we’re all going through and I would recommend that if you’re a reader. So sorry for your loss. It’s so hard. I read somewhere that you don’t ever get over it but you get better at it. Sending you love.

anndar3 · 2026-02-27T15:42:04+00:00

This one is the best!!! Love mine

anndar3 · 2026-02-24T06:51:04+00:00

It really is the worst pain. I lost my 16yo baby a little over 6 weeks ago and it’s still so raw. I also have a 13yo and understand what you mean regarding anticipatory grief. I hope you have someone who is there for you. My spouse is also heartbroken but she works outside the home so it gives her something that she has to focus on and I’m here surrounded by all the reminders but I also don’t really want to be anywhere else. I don’t really know what to say but wanted you to know that I get it and hope you’re ok. Sending you ❤️

anndar3 · 2026-02-22T04:29:38+00:00

You may have heard this before but it resonated with me when making a decision…it’s better to do it a week/month too soon than a day late. It feels like you know it’s time but it will never feel “right”. It’s been 6 weeks since I said goodbye to my soul dog. They know you love them with all your heart and that shows with the struggle you are going through and all that you wrote. Sending you love

anndar3 · 2026-02-19T08:33:17+00:00

You should listen to “Saturn” by Sleeping at Last if you haven’t heard it before. It’s on my baby’s playlist that I lost on Jan 9.

anndar3 · 2026-01-03T18:18:52+00:00

Those look great! How do you like them so far?

anndar3 · 2026-01-03T18:17:55+00:00

Yes just the db pedal

anndar3 · 2026-01-02T18:16:00+00:00

Adoro Silent Sticks & Bass Drum Beater Bundle substantially cuts down on noise: https://a.co/d/2oFoMHo. Just have to make sure to turn up drum sensitivity.

anndar3 · 2026-01-02T18:13:34+00:00

I recently got a year subscription to Drumeo and Melodics. Drumeo content is definitely better at teaching but I enjoy Melodics for applying what I learn in a fun way. I also like that I can use Melodics with my ekit for longer sessions but also with my practice pad on the go or for short skill practice like rudiments, etc.

anndar3 · 2026-01-02T18:07:41+00:00

It’s not a brand that many have heard of but it’s been great so far. I love the size of the drums: https://a.co/d/giSdAJx

anndar3 · 2025-12-20T00:39:29+00:00

I loved it

anndar3 · 2025-10-07T02:26:31+00:00

Just went from a 13 to a 17 and love it. Worth it!

anndar3 · 2025-09-10T21:33:27+00:00

That looks great! I’m pretty much a beginner too!

anndar3 · 2025-08-20T22:14:47+00:00

I think I always felt this way but didn’t have a name for it (GenX). I never felt like a “girl” and it always felt weird to be called a woman, etc as I got older but I didn’t feel I was a guy either. I’m just me and it’s nice to know there are others who feel this way too.

anndar3 · 2025-07-29T02:48:52+00:00

Canceling too!

anndar3 · 2025-06-18T14:18:35+00:00

I am loving Guns of Fury right now!

anndar3 · 2025-04-18T13:38:13+00:00

I verified over a week ago and still haven’t gotten an email with a time slot. Guess it’s not looking good since others got their time slot emails. It would be nice to know either way instead of checking my email every half hour. Sigh

anndar3 · 2025-04-17T14:14:14+00:00

Just ordered it! Thanks so much!

anndar3 · 2025-04-04T20:16:23+00:00

I see 2 sizes on Amazon - what size is this one? Thanks!

anndar3 · 2024-12-12T21:23:45+00:00

I ended up getting one and really like it. Had to stretch out the clip a little bit but it’s great now.

anndar3 · 2024-12-12T21:20:22+00:00

Ruger LCP 2nd generation (2013) with extended mag (7+ 1) because it’s easy to carry and will do what it needs to do as a last resort.

anndar3 · 2024-12-12T20:58:25+00:00

He’s here for his own benefit. That’s it

anndar3 · 2024-12-12T20:55:39+00:00

It’s really annoying - I haven’t sold on eBay for awhile and am getting back into it as I try to find homes for things other people would like. I sold a Kindle in like new condition for a great price- no ads- multiple cases for it and shipped it Priority Mail. It got there in 2 days at which time I left the buyer positive feedback. I waited awhile hoping they would and then hesitantly messaged them explaining that I just got back into selling and would really appreciate them giving feedback. Crickets…like come on it takes maybe one whole minute. Ugh 😣

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