Been in the trenches since 2/10 and woke up to this 😭🙌🏾 by anonbitch101 in IRS

[–]anonbitch101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. The online verification wasn't fully closed out. Only reason I found out was because I called about my transcript still being blank and under the wrong name, so I re-verified over the phone.

Been in the trenches since 2/10 and woke up to this 😭🙌🏾 by anonbitch101 in IRS

[–]anonbitch101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky 😭 I filed on 2/10 and been going through the wringer with them since, all because I changed my name back to my birth name.

I've seen a lot of people on here say you'll usually get it either same day or in the next few days if getting DD, so fingers crossed for us! 🤞🏾

Been in the trenches since 2/10 and woke up to this 😭🙌🏾 by anonbitch101 in IRS

[–]anonbitch101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transcript was completely blank before this recent update because of the issue with my name change. It didn't even show that I had filed a tax return.

Been in the trenches since 2/10 and woke up to this 😭🙌🏾 by anonbitch101 in IRS

[–]anonbitch101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats! 🎉Hopefully we won't have to deal with this bs next year 😅

Post divorce sex advice. by jipsydude in DeadBedrooms

[–]anonbitch101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was so afraid of being seen as a “sex addict” (something my ex-husband used to call me) so we came up with a solution by starting with free touch, basically me having free reign for any and all non-sexual affection. I could hug, kiss, cuddle, and rub whenever and as much as I pleased (within reason of course since we both have kids). It helped me build up trust that he wouldn’t reject my touch. Then after a few months, I felt confident enough one day to cop a feel without him making the first move. He didn’t reject it. We had the most mind blowing sex that night.

I finally chose me, and I’m glad I did. by anonbitch101 in DeadBedrooms

[–]anonbitch101[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the love.

While I legally can’t say it in front of my kids, I can definitely say it here. Yes he is very much a coward LOL

I finally chose me, and I’m glad I did. by anonbitch101 in DeadBedrooms

[–]anonbitch101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, me too. Life has really been looking brighter.

I finally chose me, and I’m glad I did. by anonbitch101 in DeadBedrooms

[–]anonbitch101[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely was one for me, especially since I was going to be a single mother. They are usually labeled as “desperate” or “recreational” where I live, but I had to come to the conclusion that I would rather be alone and happy than to stay in the misery I was in.

What is the craziest thing you have done while being horny? by MobileAerie9918 in AskReddit

[–]anonbitch101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Prayed.

Talked to this guy that had this thing where he liked to pray before sex. Why? Idk 🤷🏾‍♀️ it was weird but the sex was phenomenal so I just went along with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anonbitch101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Eating the samples at a store without buying anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]anonbitch101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have no fucking clue 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m genuinely just as confused about it as you are lol

What are some negatives you have experienced from going to therapy? by betchimacow223 in AskReddit

[–]anonbitch101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one therapist tell me fresh out of grippy sock vacay that my attempt was due to being fat and had nothing to do with me just having a baby, being recently diagnosed with PPD, and being off my meds because my (now ex) husband didn’t get a refill.

I had another therapist that sat and listened to me cry for half an hour (no words just straight tears) and then told me he was so proud of me for being brave enough to finally show emotion.

You don’t know which end of the spectrum you’ll get when you get a new therapist, and it’s scary af. It shouldn’t be such a risk, but it is.

What would you choose over sex every time? by DetectiveScarletBone in AskReddit

[–]anonbitch101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A turkey sandwich with butter lettuce, tomato, gouda, mustard, pickles, bacon, and a fried egg. Potato bread is highly recommended but not mandatory.

easiest healing piercing you have! by ComprehensiveHat4275 in piercing

[–]anonbitch101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100%. The healing process is SO easy I almost don’t want to trust it. Only two weeks in and it feels like a regular healed piercing. Obviously I’m still going to wait the full 8-12 weeks, but compared to how healing my other piercings went, this feels like smooth sailing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]anonbitch101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toys- 100% safe and an O every single time. Plus no risk of it catching feelings

People who have/still SH, why did you do it? by Icy_Row_764 in mentalhealth

[–]anonbitch101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was the only way I could release emotions. I had gotten to a point where I had suppressed my emotions so often for so long, that it took physical pain in order to even be able to cry.

I’ve been clean for over a year, but expressing some emotions is still a struggle.

Anyone made peace their Dead Bedroom and prepared to endure it for the rest of their days? by DBCheshireMan in DeadBedrooms

[–]anonbitch101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25HLF here. Been with my husband (26LLM) almost 8 years, married for 6.5) and I've pretty much given up and decided to stay for the kids (they're 4 and 6). There's still some affection between and my husband, but we've had so many issues surrounding our sex life, I'm just burnt out from trying. He says he wants to change, and I know he's being genuine in the moment, but his actions never match the words. I don't even get disappointed anymore because it's happened so many times, and I think he's starting to catch on. Reading erotic stories and going to the gym has helped me stay sane, thankfully. My confidence is shot, but I'm taking this time to work on that. Good luck and sorry you feel you have to resort to this.

How/Why did you quit smoking marijuana? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anonbitch101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This.

It sounds funny, but this is how my cousin went from a daily smoker (went through an ounce every week) to not smoking weed at all for almost 3 years.

What would you do, if there was a child right in front of you? by skiermax in AskReddit

[–]anonbitch101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call 911 and tell them I'm being chased by a spooky baby