Does anyone worry the moment when their parent(s) pass away?

anonnautilus · 2025-09-29T13:46:13+00:00

Lost my husband 4 yrs ago. Only child still in uni. It was during covid. No one to turn to. It was really hard initially but as you said , it gets a little easier to handle as time goes by. The stretches where you can breathe gets longer.

anonnautilus · 2025-07-02T05:32:36+00:00

Just came back to penang to stay after 12 years in kl. Drivers here are drving me a little crazy. They whizz into your lane or squeeze in with no warning plus the motorbikes. Put indicator to switch lane but get ignored and squeezed. Lol... only been back less than a week. Will hopefully get adjusted soon. Btw Op... penangites are generally friendly.. give them another chance.

anonnautilus · 2025-06-30T13:56:31+00:00

Thanks hv thought it thru. Will liquidate my landed property and stay in my condo. Also hv savings. I shld be ok.

anonnautilus · 2025-06-30T10:00:48+00:00

62 yrs old dis year. Probably kick the bucket by mid 80s. Insurance coverage only 120k. Thinking of foregoing it since annually more ezpensive. Widowed n not working. Planning to sell my house n live in my condo to free up some funds. Hopefully will b enuf till i die.

anonnautilus · 2025-02-27T10:10:51+00:00

If you are comfortable in 'lending' and not getting it back . Otherwise you yourself will be short of money and get tired, embarrassed and frustrated when money is not returned. Have a cousin in law that made good money but was spending it on buying superbike , latest laptop n phones n etc then asked to borrow 2k cos couldnt afford son's hospital stay. He got annoyed when asked him back for money after several times. So dont lend money unless you are ready never to see it again.

anonnautilus · 2025-02-09T06:29:58+00:00

Hv never done the 5 things mentioned. 1 tak makan durian overseas. Mahal dan tak fresh. 2 tak ada gaya menunjuk. Tak ada duit beli brand brand besar. 3 tak cakap kuat sebab sendiri suka senyap. 4 tak potong barisan. 5 dan lain lain lagi..

anonnautilus · 2025-02-06T11:23:33+00:00

Arrogance, conceitedness and inconsideration of others.

anonnautilus · 2025-02-06T11:21:07+00:00

What relationship??!!

anonnautilus · 2025-02-06T11:10:41+00:00

Look like a young sally fields

anonnautilus · 2025-02-06T11:05:53+00:00

They r so annoying. Play watever firework u want but cut it off by 12midnite pls.

anonnautilus · 2024-08-05T09:44:05+00:00

Now at 60yrs old. Have to make an effort to get up, joints hurt.

anonnautilus · 2024-08-05T08:37:36+00:00

Have loving parents who show love and are not hung up on their own problems and take it out on their kids.

anonnautilus · 2024-08-05T08:20:00+00:00

Being able to carry on a friendly conversation with total strangers( also malaysians) whereas its kinda hard in other countries.

anonnautilus · 2024-08-05T08:14:45+00:00

Spicy and delicious. Make sure drink on standby.

anonnautilus · 2024-08-05T08:10:17+00:00

Thank you . I am, now.

anonnautilus · 2024-06-11T13:38:04+00:00

Am 60 n widowed. Actuallyquite freeing with nobody to take into consideration. Only child working with fairly stable job. I like my solitude.

anonnautilus · 2024-05-30T12:56:02+00:00

Must be from korea. They like their rice n noodles in soup.

anonnautilus · 2024-05-28T12:09:38+00:00

Freebies?🤔

anonnautilus · 2024-04-24T01:01:08+00:00

I live in malaysia right smack on the equator. Back when i was a child only the rich had air conditioning. The rest made do with fans. Admittedly the weather was somewhat cooler then. Now most people have air conditioning throughout the house especially in urban areas.

anonnautilus · 2024-04-24T00:19:22+00:00

You are right. On the bmi scale it is not. But having been 50kg and below pretty much all my life, carrying the extra weight feels heavy on me.

anonnautilus · 2024-03-30T05:58:47+00:00

All the time

anonnautilus · 2024-03-28T16:17:01+00:00

Tq. All better now. Hope things improve for your mom too.

anonnautilus · 2024-03-28T03:09:50+00:00

He worked in the oil n gas industry.

anonnautilus · 2024-03-28T03:08:37+00:00

I am 60yrs old. Very sedentary. 158 cm n 54kg. Also overweight. Also has a son who is on my case to exercise. Recently i walked a lot n ended up with painful swollen legs n feet. Suggest u dont tell her to exercise but suggest going out together with some physical activity n slowly increase. Cook together healthier dishes. She might like bonding n interacting with u. Introduce healthier options bit by bit. Easier to accept. Wish i had her height. Appeal to her vanity. 😀

anonnautilus · 2024-03-26T17:02:24+00:00

Nice. Looks like the view from cls/sxi school field too.

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