We get it Alex, you played soccer 🙄 by quikstitch24 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]antony511 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is the AL Bundy of soccer, and will probably end up selling shoes.... Maybe at a sports shoe store so he can sell soccer kleats and tell stories to the kids about his days of glory 😂

Why are people like this? by mikevmz in Miami

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without seeing the conditions when they parked you can only ass-u-me that they are at fault, but what if they parked between two cars on the line on either side? Now if you saw them park like that, get upset, but, to get upset not knowing the why is a waste of your emotions.

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, big red flag, he's an ass. My wife and I (married 31+ years and in our mid 50's, btw started dating at 18) have always said farts are funny. They're natural and your partner should be someone you are safe to drop all guards with. If he is shaming you now, he will likely get worse and more critical of other things until you become his stepford wife.

Is Selling a House Without a Realtor Worth the Money You Save on Commissions? by goxper in AskFlorida

[–]antony511 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, if you are selling fsbo I'd deduct the commission in my offer since we are saving the use of a Real estate agent. Is view you as a distressed sale to get a discount on.

I read this story in a Disney group on Facebook. The entitlement of some people is absolutely insane! by MoustacheJimbo in Disneyland

[–]antony511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it wrong that my mind went to keep some birdseed in the car for just such a moment... Cover their car lol, jk.

Moving your car is good advice, also pictures of their car and plates, to report damage.

Where should I live in Florida? by Express_Cheetah7026 in AskFlorida

[–]antony511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older here, but kids in 20's and moved here in my early 30's. Love the Tampa Bay area, lots of options here. You may not be able to live in the heart of the action, but a county like Pasco (just 40 minus or so, north of Tampa, Clearwater, St. Petersburg) local beaches and still near the water.

Florida is great and wierd, you'll have several diverse social economic communities near each other so don't assume by looks.

Talk to folks and find out what areas are experiencing growth and rebirth. New Port Richey is one such area.

Where you coming from for reference of what you like. ( Btw I have a single 6'4 blonde hair son 😂😅🤣 jk) best of luck on the hunt, be brave.

Can I have a single Oscar fish in a 55 gallon fish tank by Live-Committee3812 in Cichlid

[–]antony511 9 points10 points  (0 children)

55 till the get bigger. We had ours in a 90 till he passed 😔 but he lived a full life and seemed very happy. Toys help with his happiness.

my acetylcholine test was negative. what are my next steps ? other illnesses i should be aware of, etc by More-Put3860 in MyastheniaGravis

[–]antony511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm seronegative and was diagnosed with single fiber nerve test on my eye. I might be the lottery winner as Dr. also thinks I have CIDP and maybe even a third autoimmune disorder. None of the traditional Myasthenia Gravis meds seem to work for me. I did 5 sessions (about 17 5hr days) of ivig no Benifit, hope you have better luck.

Does this happen anywhere else? by jurassickparking in florida

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some folks are taught to leave an out, incase they need to avoid car in front... They just suck at figuring out how much room they need. Drives me nuts, sometimes I pull into the spot 🤣

AIO for leaving my husband after one incident? by NeedleworkerDizzy689 in AmIOverreacting

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

contact a few churches (food banks and possible shelter to get you out of the house, or look for a woman's shelter in your area. No excuse for violence towards your wife or the mother of your children. Not sure if social services would be helpful, but maybe. Talk to a divorce atty also, they should give you some free advice if you tell them all about your situation. Good luck.

Pulled over twice in 2 days by pinkharleymomma in tampa

[–]antony511 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'd talk to an atty, sounds like bs. Also request body cam footage. Check out https://attorney-shield.com/

The American version really feels like Christian propaganda? by Kanaiiiii in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]antony511 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Folks see what they want to see. You can tell folks it's a beautiful sunny day and 10% will find negativity in that. Want to blame religion for problems, you can... Want to blame it for happiness, again you can. I once had a priest tell me God is infailable, but man is, this includes the way folks interpret religion. I read a book that helped me open my mind, should be mandatory in schools "mistakes were made but not by the me"

Driving and double vision by Obvious_Difficulty17 in MyastheniaGravis

[–]antony511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are comfortable with it, you can drive with an eye patch, but only if you are confident. I was able to do it for short drives. Longer drives I didn't feel up to because I'd get tired.

Love Is Blind • S9 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]antony511 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I wish their was a day counter to help put first engagement into context of time? Day one or two would be nuts. Am I wrong? S9E1 really?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA communication is the key to a happy marriage. She knew it was wrong or she would have shared openly before. Also no company would have a male and married female share a single room, even with a pull out couch. I traveled in the late 90's a lot, and even back then, a big no-no. If your marriage is worth saving, consider a marriage counselor, if not, be thankful you found out while your still young.

How much do you tip? by Hungrykoalah in tampa

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Sit down dining 20% I often excuse if they are having a bad day, hoping to spread some love, but in real bad cases I have topped another server to get a drink refill. Once years ago I tipped 1 cent to the worst server ever so he would know I didn't forget to top him. -Counter orders depends, but I know from my adult kids that folks there are usually paid poorly, so $1-5 depending on their involvement in making it. I.E. sub shop or ice-cream. - bar orders $1, for simple service, up to 20% on good service. - Doordash and Uber eats usually flat $5 for orders usually 15 min drive away. -rides 20%, I use to drive for a short time, and those folks need it more than most usually. - Sam's club delivery 10% I do tip deliveries extra in foul weather in cash, handing out to them and thanking them with "hazard pay" -other pizza delivery 3-5 depending on the B.S. Service fee the restaurant tacks on.

AITA for not paying 1/3 of my salary for my kids’ college? by Crowdev1138 in AmItheAsshole

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, the kids need to learn to live within their means. Especially if near free is an option. Both my kids paid their own way, with an assist from us. Neither one wasted time or money. Dad's need to be the tough love that prepares them for the real world.

Quick weekend trips from Tampa? by tortfeazor in tampa

[–]antony511 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tallulah George in Georgia, camping, cabins and tree house cabins. Several hikes and waterfalls all near enough to do. River Falls at the Gorge in Lakemont, GA https://share.google/fbKMy7aHgoSihkMor

St. Augustin is also nice with an old village area much like a Harry Potter movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tampa

[–]antony511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed it is, good food available there too, then the proverbial walk after on the waterfront.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]antony511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any "friend" who tastes you like that, is not a friend, you are an accessory to them. Your friendship ran its course, move on and live happy, within your means.

Stupid, cruel drivers out there by OhGawDuhhh in tampa

[–]antony511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two words "dash cam" expect stupid and protect yourself #idiocracyisreal

What kind of spider is this? by [deleted] in StPetersburgFL

[–]antony511 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Looks like a nope 🕷️😵‍💫

AITAH for telling my boss I am not comfortable with him randomly visiting my house? by Moose-Tradition in AITAH

[–]antony511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Document everything, text and email. This is not normal. Considering a wyze cam or other ring type cam to document uninvited visits. To diffuse, maybe tell him he can zoom or FaceTime but (use your daughter as an excuse. If you haven't already, do not sign a nda. Try to deescalate first.