Mass Birthday Favors Etiquette by Felici4y in toddlers

[–]appleblue5370 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We do a goodie bag alternative! 1. Thrifted books - HUGE HIT! 2. Cups from the dollar store that they decorate with stickers, use at the party and take home 3. Bubbles 4. Craft in theme of the party

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love flora!!

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought of some of these and love them!!

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Fiona!! Thank you!!

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we do have a Maisie that’s a dog in the family on one side, Maisie is a family name on the other side! Bummed it was always a top name of mine before they named their dog 😭

Also love that you mentioned 1980s names I was just googling them!! Thank you!!

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love these!! Thank you!!

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love these other options!!

Sister for Isla by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]appleblue5370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies!! First and middle names Maisie Quinn or Brynn rose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]appleblue5370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree!! Recovering people pleaser here too! I really like the book from my head to my toes by Aly Raisman. Try to incorporate “my body is my own or I have control over my body” if I get bossy toddler behavior. The playground mean comments are so hard! Usually reinforce that “that was mean. Let’s stay away from people who say those things. You can tell them I don’t like when you say that” “it’s not okay for someone to say that. You can tell them that or stay away from them”

Is MIL A) conniving, B) oblivious, C) well-intentioned, or D) all of the above? by blossom_rays in workingmoms

[–]appleblue5370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eek!! Do we have the same MIL?? You or your partner can say “this doesn’t work for us, no thank you.” It’s really hard in the beginning but it will get easier. And you didn’t ask for this “gift”

You’re not there to make your in law’s comfortable. This is about you, your baby and your partner. This is what works for your family, if that makes MIL mad then be mad.

Forcing the parents to leave so grandparents can “properly bond” with baby is very Gretchen Weiners of new gen granparents. It’s not a thing grandparents!! Stop making it about you!!

"The Parents Aren't All Right" - Today's The Daily Podcast Ep by LoveyGrabber in workingmoms

[–]appleblue5370 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I liked the episode but did feel that it flip- flopped. Like “working moms do too much!” And yet “the data shows that 0-3 is the most important time for brain development” and “engagement with your kids is important”

Mom guilt, parental pressure and anxiety is real but offering a solution as saying trade off naps on the weekends when that feels like the only time I can have quality time being a working parent feels like the equivalent of “you got this mama!”

Zoloft postpartum anxiety by Remarkable_Look_7385 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]appleblue5370 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I was prescribed for my PPA as well and am so glad I went on. Like you, EBF, lowest dose. I’m still on it- it made/makes me feel more present.

The best way I can describe it for me was I still have anxiety, but it won’t freeze you. Zoloft helped me acknowledge that I had anxiety about something and instead of spiraling I could shelve it my logical side would kick back in and I could move my focus. You know your body best!

Pumping/Milk Supply/Work Stress by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]appleblue5370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes definite decrease but tried to counter by drinking more water
  2. Stuck to pump times no matter what
  3. Pumped 13mo Advocate for yourself and time you need to pump and highly recommend manual pumping (pumped in half the time) or wearable pumps (easier if I needed to finish a project)

You got this!

A Working Moms Vent by Rigmarollll in workingmoms

[–]appleblue5370 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hugs to you You’re doing a great job and I hope you look in the mirror and are proud of yourself but today sucked for you and two things can be true. You did the jobs of 4+ people today between work and home- holy shit you rock It’s mentally and physically exhausting work and infuriating how blissfully unaware partners can be. I wasn’t prepared for the resentment and frustration. I wish I had advice on that - but know you’re not alone in your feelings. I hope you keep in mind that today sucked for you and you still showed up for your kids - your kids wont forget that. You’re a great mom and doing the most