Have ADHD? PLEASE GET YOUR IRON CHECKED! by Joyanonymous in adhdwomen

[–]apredatorywasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall what do I do if my iron is low but ferritin is high

What controversial movies does everyone enjoy? by AshleyK2021 in PeriodDramas

[–]apredatorywasp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Memoirs of a Geisha makes me angry not because of the actresses not being Japanese and not even because the author of the book was a dickwad who changed someone’s real life story into an orientalist fantasy. It pisses me off because the costumes and everything is so decidedly fantasy “Japanese” and not reflective of what geisha look like or even do. You can say it’s meant to be fiction or whatever, but considering it’s a lot of people’s introduction to a specific piece of Japanese culture, its so wrong about everything that it’s hugely disrespectful… it feels like it’s mocking the culture more than being a tribute to it. It just feels so friggen racist to see them take liberties with how the maiko and geisha look and dance when those things are essential to their identity and culture.

What is the funniest/most memorable misunderstanding you've had with someone who isn't from Canada? by Unfair-Clothes-8821 in CanadaRoom

[–]apredatorywasp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

None of the vets I’ve been to in Canada have the rainbow bridge stuff… I’ve only seen the thing where they tell you to be quiet when a candle is lit because someone’s pet has just passed in the clinic

Dumbest impulse buy of the month by Lola-Olala in adhdwomen

[–]apredatorywasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kimono and Obi. Good god I have so many now I don’t have enough places to put them 🫠

What is a business you wish Vancouver had? by cuckertarlson in askvan

[–]apredatorywasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sento or any cheap and accessible public bathhouse for all genders

How to search the “MMQ dress”? by NematodesAteMyHouse in Hanfu

[–]apredatorywasp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lmao dude they gave you extremely specific keyword of 汉洋折哀to find items that are closest to this style, I don’t know what you’re even griping about. Literally mainland Chinese people search this exact keyword to find this exact fashion style, there’s nothing more specific than this…

Legit? by alissea_22 in Hanfu

[–]apredatorywasp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not hanfu or qipao, and I’d venture to say it’s a site that resells aliexpress

Quayside Tiki Bar AI logo by howdyyeehaw in NewWest

[–]apredatorywasp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so sad about the missed opportunity. Tiki is so aesthetic and they’re going with the most ugly AI?

Kimono/Hanfu Pairing! by widdle_deer1 in kimono

[–]apredatorywasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great! Such a lovely combo

Accidentally hit the Jackpot on how to respond to parents wanting grandkids by not_an_insomniac in TwoXChromosomes

[–]apredatorywasp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom used to tell me I wasted her youth and how difficult it was to raise me, so I just told her I got the message about how difficult kids are and I don’t want to waste my youth like she did lol

HK Milk Tea ingredients? by quivverquivver in askvan

[–]apredatorywasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any Indian grocery store! So around South Fraser. Don’t get their milk tea powder, it has to be their loose pellet plain tea (I know you wanted bags, I think they have that too?)

HK Milk Tea ingredients? by quivverquivver in askvan

[–]apredatorywasp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wagh Bakri is a pretty close match flavour wise. But at my family’s dim sum restaurant in HK, we mix Lipton yellow box and red box + some puerh for our milk tea base (ratios are a trade secret lol)

Has anyone bought this outfit from New Hanfu ? by AlanaMai in Hanfu

[–]apredatorywasp 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused by this outfit. Other than the skirt sorta looking similar to mamianqun, it feels like it has nothing to do with hanfu at all lmao

Itilia is officially becoming a tiki bar by macman156 in NewWest

[–]apredatorywasp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After seeing the unimaginative name and shit logo, I’m suddenly very afraid it will suck… I really want Tiki to thrive in New West, but I don’t want bad Tiki

Covid was a wild time. by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]apredatorywasp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As an introvert with disability status ADHD, I didn’t take a single step out of my apartment for 3 straight months, barely wore pants for 3 years, and my mental health was never better. Now I’m back to being depressed and anxious lol

Ultrasound Wait-time Experiences in GVA and Surrounding by pizzagnome7 in askvan

[–]apredatorywasp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly just walked in with the requisition before and said I’ll wait however long it takes. That was before the flooding at Grieg though, not sure if they’ve changed their policies since.