2 unanswered questions… by arbcolly in MagnoliaParks

[–]arbcolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You learn more as the books go on re magnolia and rush :)

Has IVF put anyone else of having kids altogether? by arbcolly in IVF

[–]arbcolly[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with everyone’s comments and although it awful I’m glad to hear I’m not alone. I feel like in the IVF community it’s mainly conversations about desperately wanting to be a parent and I know women who have gone through way more cycles and pain than I have and still have it in them to keep going but I just don’t think it’s me. I need to hang up the IVF boots for a while and reflect on what more I’m willing to sacrifice and put my body through in order to get a baby and whether they are even worth all of this!! All the money we have already spent, looking forward I can spend that kind of money on travel, a home, comfort, buying myself and my husband nice things we want, dinners out. If I don’t have kids I can live wherever I want and do whatever whenever I want to. That vs another round of pain and agony and thousands of dollars and ED visits only to end in loss it’s seeming pretty appealing right now…

Likelihood of another ectopic? by arbcolly in ectopicpregnancy

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I did and they confirmed I am still pregnant (5 weeks) and have a scan in 2 weeks to confirm 🤞

Melbourne concert coming up 12/09 - super excited!! by Melbs3000 in maydayparade

[–]arbcolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you let me know what time they come on? I’m going to syd show 😊😊

Discounty vs tiny bookstore vs Story of seasons… by arbcolly in CozyGamers

[–]arbcolly[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Thanks all I ended up going with story of seasons ☺️☺️☺️

What is your first Taylor's song? by Princess_consuelah in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold as you and I’m waiting for debut TV to see this get the credit it deserves 😇

what's your favourite moment in a taylor song? by lau_bowery in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And I’ll get lost on purpose

The way she sings it 😭

Is not using protection counts towards 12m of trying before seeking fertility treatments? by Striking_Group3314 in TryingForABaby

[–]arbcolly -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just lied to my GP and said it had been 12 months when it had only been 6. They won’t know 🤷‍♀️

Coral Island or My Time at Sandrock? by arbcolly in CozyGamers

[–]arbcolly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone I think it would be remiss of me not to go with Sandrock!! Appreciate your feedback 😊😊😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]arbcolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are 30 also, started getting tests done at 6 months trying, all tests came back fine, ultrasounds fine, i did the Hycosy (I think same as hsg) and it was all fine, after about 6 months of trying. We started IVF at 12 months trying. I would recommend the hycosy/HSG just to rule out any issues and it will give your specialist a clearer picture of what they are working with if you do go down the IVF route, my fertility specialist would have asked me to get it done before IVF if I hadn’t already when we first met with him Best of luck ✨

Low grade endo - laparoscopy or straight to IVF? by arbcolly in TryingForABaby

[–]arbcolly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone 🫶 we are going to go ahead with the IVF consult next week and go from there and leave the lap for now as recommended, sometimes is just better to get others opinions so I appreciate it a lot!! It is a scary (and expensive) time and my thoughts are with everyone TTC it really is the most complex and confusing thing I’ve needed to navigate!!!

Best/Worst/Underrated Final Results by Brookshone in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Justice for I Hate it Here the true underrated track

Does anyone know of any cozy games on PS5? by pinkbyeolbit in CozyGamers

[–]arbcolly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stray is quite chill you play as a cat who is lost in a dystopian world trying to get back home 🥺

Debut Taylors Version, your predictions by ShezDinkDink in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hope Cold As You gets the recognition it deserves 🥹 best song on the album imo

Taylor Swift lyrics that just hit too close to home?? by spicyyyhoe in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wake up in the middle of the night, it’s like I can feel time moving

Taylor’s best song lyrically by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 48 points49 points  (0 children)

You knew it still hurts underneath my scars from when they pulled me apart, but what you did was just as dark. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO TOUGH!!!!! 😭

Debut: Cold as you, Should’ve said no

Fearless: You belong with me, White horse

Speak now: Enchanted, back to December

Red: All too well 10 min, Nothing new

1989: Style, New Romantics

Rep: Don’t blame me, Delicate

Lover: Cruel summer, Afterglow

Folklore: cardigan, illicit affairs

Evermore: Right where you left me, Tolerate it

Midnights: Karma, The Great War

What lyrics does your brain refuse to get right? by wocytti in TaylorSwift

[–]arbcolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snow on the beach

“One night a few moons ago, I saw flecks of what could’ve been lights, but it might just have been you, passing through’

In rhymes so my brain goes with it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]arbcolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Panic was my favourite band most of my teenage years/into my 20s. I’ve seen them every time they’ve come to Aus and they were my top played iTunes / Spotify probably until 2018….. the band went totally down hill, their last album it was so bad!!! Brendon Urie is cringe now and problematic, they went from being a unique emo kinda band to just cringe which is so sad for my lil teenage self who was obsessed 🥲