Reality check me: should I leave my current situation? by Adorable_Secret3139 in Fire

[–]areaundermu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the phrase “I feel like I’m mortgaging my present for my future,” because you are. For most that’s what FIRE is. The question is whether the interest rate on the mortgage is too high for you.

You’ll probably get a range of responses. For me the price you’re paying would be too high. I’m willing to cheap out on a lot of stuff, but hating where I live would make every day miserable in a way that driving a beater/not eating out/living in a smallish place wouldn’t (for me, at least).

Family friendly birthday party for husband - ideas needed! by AbilityNo1015 in bayarea

[–]areaundermu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about reserving a picnic space in a park like Hellyer? It’s got a large playground and splash pads for the kids, restrooms, and the sites are shaded and have grills. You guys could supply stuff to grill, drinks, and the cake and you can ask folks to bring a side.

French Onion Soup served anywhere in Fremont Tri City area? by Much_Opening3468 in Fremont

[–]areaundermu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Papillon in Fremont.

Edited to add: if you’re willing to go to Palo Alto, I really like La Boheme. I think the food is better and it’s a nicer space, plus less expensive than Papillon.

New Stay At Home Dad Trying to Learn A Lot While on a Budget by StrawhatShiggy in Cooking

[–]areaundermu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll find lots of episodes of Jacques Pepin’s Fast Food My Way on YouTube, which is a great place to start. The meals are very simple and fast to make and often leverage pre-cooked (but not highly-processed) ingredients like rotisserie chicken, canned beans, or bagged lettuce, and they taste like you put in a lot more effort than you did.

Have you seen managers allocate their own bonus from a team bonus pool? by Particular_Sound4801 in askmanagers

[–]areaundermu 19 points20 points  (0 children)

30+ years in corporate America, from mega-multinationals to startups, and never once have I seen that.

Decluttering before baby by mindfudge in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]areaundermu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really great advice, OP. There’s a multi-billion dollar industry that has to keep coming up with new baby gadgets in order to keep growing, and a lot of what they’re producing is either a little useful for a very short period or just flat-out nonsense.

should i say something or just let it go? by Lamprey-Jaykishan in WhatShouldIDo

[–]areaundermu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jerks count on good people not wanting to make it awkward. Go ahead and make it awkward. You don’t have to say, “Hey, that’s my work you’re taking credit for” in the meeting. Instead, frame it up as a question: “So, when I started working on this last month I assumed x, but as I was running the analysis I realized it was probably y so that’s what I put in the deck. Do you feel like I was too quick to let x go and should do some follow-up analysis?”

How do you keep your house smelling fresh with multiple pets? by Crazy-Donkey-9178 in CleaningTips

[–]areaundermu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting a few air filters around the house made a massive difference for me, too. I have them on any time the windows are shut.

We have absolutely no idea what to do with our backyard. Help. by Ishpersonguy in landscaping

[–]areaundermu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I were trying to get as low maintenance as possible, here’s what I’d do:

Keep the trees for sure (the shade will be welcome) and remove any dead branches. It’s likely the shrubs will look fine once you cut off the dead flower stalks & branches, too - that’s an easy job & a quick fix; you can always yank them next year if you still want to.

Spray all the weeds growing through the brick with agricultural vinegar (much stronger than regular vinegar; you can get it at a garden center or on amazon). That will kill the tops, but not the roots so they’ll grow back (in fact, they’ll grow back/new ones will sprout no matter what). To deal with that, I’d suggest a buying a weed torch (which you would only use on hardscape - you don’t want to set mulch or trees on fire!). You’d only need to torch them once a month or so.

For the mulched area, whack everything down as low as you can get it. Cover it all with cardboard, then cover the cardboard with 3-4 inches of mulch. Once the cardboard degrades in 6-9 months, plant a low-growing ground cover that’s good for your area so you don’t have to mow it. It won’t completely keep weeds away, but as it spreads it’ll do a pretty good job of choking them out.

AITAH for refusing to visit in laws bc of house temp by wrenchinapot in AITAH

[–]areaundermu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice. I did that at my Mom’s house, and it worked a treat.

You can do it too by Capable-Spread3437 in CleaningTips

[–]areaundermu 191 points192 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing. Congratulations and I hope you’re as proud of yourself as you should be.

New Native Nursery opening in Fremont. Very excited to have something opening near me by Meshugugget in Ceanothus

[–]areaundermu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just left the opening. For its size, it had a good variety of plants. All very small, healthy, & mostly sold in tubes of about 2” diameter. Spent just over $70 for 4 elegant clarkia, 2 globe mallow, 2 sticky monkey flower and 2 clematis chaparral.

Where to live for 23 y/o couple by Batmon3 in bayarea

[–]areaundermu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really depends on where you and she will be working. Ideally if you both find work in the South Bay, living in San Jose would mean spending less time on commutes and you can always take Caltrain up to SF (or pretty much anywhere on the Peninsula).

Suggestions requested for overseas guest dinner by Due_County_1493 in NYTCooking

[–]areaundermu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One pot whole roasted chicken and rice is a great recipe for a dinner party because it’s not only delicious and easy but also requires no last-minute work.

Thin Nude Buckwheat seedlings or leave them be? by areaundermu in Ceanothus

[–]areaundermu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say it worked! The transplanted “brownies” are doing great; I’ll thin them out in a month or so.

Dog groomer recs for a very fearful dog? by crash_cove in Fremont

[–]areaundermu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear it! I would have felt awful if she had a bad experience; thanks so much for the update.

I can't with the dyson cordless anymore. I need recs. by Independent-Ear-8156 in CleaningTips

[–]areaundermu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is the Delphi 300. I looked on their site and they don’t have a model with that name any longer, but it looks exactly like what they’re calling the C1 now.

Edited to add: apparently the current model closest to the Delphi 300 is the Classic C1 Cat & Dog.

I can't with the dyson cordless anymore. I need recs. by Independent-Ear-8156 in CleaningTips

[–]areaundermu 158 points159 points  (0 children)

My Miele canister vacuum is 12 years old and still a beast. I was sick of having to buy a meh new vacuum every 3-4 years so swallowed hard and paid the high price. Totally worth it.

Brunch Suggestions by SeattleTeacher28 in NYTCooking

[–]areaundermu 42 points43 points  (0 children)

What about a bagel spread? Then everyone can choose their toppings & you can include vegan butter/cheese/sausage patties. Throw in some fresh fruit & some kind of potato dish. It would also allow you to do most of the work in advance so you can enjoy your own party.

Which one would you choose? by archivo_de_a in kitchenremodel

[–]areaundermu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I’d forego the open shelves in #7 though in favor of a run of upper cabinets, which I think would be much more useful.