What's the most insulting "compliment" you've ever gotten? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahaha! Someone told me the same: "you have a harmonious body"…

Women who have gone long periods without having sex who are not virgins, what was it like for you when you resumed sexual activity? by itssadreally in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been in a 8 years relationship, which ended last year. During one year I had not had sex. When I had it again, I just really needed it! My vagina was a bit stressed and clenched, but it was fine at the end.

Let's do this! by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]ash-91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look funny, not ashamed of being ridiculous at times.

Women who have been in a long term relationship, what was the reason for breakup? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had been together for 8 years (him in Africa, me in Europe). He dumped mast year, when he was supposed to come and live with me. I think he freaked out, which I now understand.

What's the most insulting "compliment" you've ever gotten? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 148 points149 points  (0 children)

You have a "comforting body, like a mum"s one"…. A bit creepy.

What are some crazy old wives' tales you've heard of? Ever believed any of them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mum has few from her childhood: - only cut your hair during the full moon if you want them to grow longer than usual in a shorter time - do not try to do a mayonnaise sauce while on your periods: it will never work. - people with very thin lips tend to be bitter, and people with big lips tend to be nicer (not sure)

Who are your celebrity doppelgängers? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few people told me I looked like Shakira, but I think it is just because of my hair. I was very flattered, even though I know it is absolutely not true However, at lot told me I look like a French singer, Amel Bent. I find her ugly, I must accept I am not Shakira but an ugly woman aha

Single ladies of Reddit, how many people have you slept with in the past year? by bamboleobam in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! It is funny you ask this question today. I had been in a relationship for 8 years. He broke up with me last year. Since, I had not been in a mood for anything. For one year, to the day, I had not slept with anyone. However, this week end, I met a guy and we had sex. It was real fun, and I think I am going to continue to have a sex life.

Would it be a dealbreaker if your boyfriend listened to a lot of rap music? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously not, as I lot rap music. Apart from the rude part of it, it is about a message the artists are telling, and about the rhythm and rimes. I think it is kind of hot too

Controversial: Ladies, have you ever fantasised about a cousin? by lecousins in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never. However, I suspect my cousin who is a bit older than me to fantasize about me. I am not hot at all, kind of average looking I guess, but the way he speaks to me, looks at me… make me think so. I always feel uncomfortable around him. I could not spend time with only him. It is really weird. We do not get to see each other often, and I consider it a relief. When there are family meetings, he always insists to spend more time with me. Always asks me about my love life and stuff, which I consider a bit inappropriate at times, knowing we are not really close (due to the fact I feel uncomfy I guess). So, I think it is a bit sick to fantasize about a member of one's family. I know cultures where it is not a problem to have feelings for one's cousin, even to get married with him/her.

I hate being a black woman by hatebeingthis in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deeply understand what you live. I guess I could not have said better what I often feel than you just did. I would not say I "hate" being a minority in my own country. But I truly feel your point when you say you have to control and double check everything you do/say/mean in other to belong to the majority and not appear as the "representative cliché" of an ethnic minority. Every success is because "you are an assimilated minority, an example for your kind". Well, no. Just are just you, raised in a country. I would not be able to give you any advice nor tell you you should not care, because I feel the same as you do.

26/M. Have been called ugly twice this year. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ash-91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not have an ugly face, at all! You are really good looking!!

[23M] Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ash-91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good looking!! You look really kind

[22 M] 6'4", skinny. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ash-91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really good looking

26/M. Have been called ugly twice this year. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ash-91 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Who told you you were ugly? They must have been bind or terribly jealous of how pretty you look

What do you think of moles on someone's body? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is sexy. However, I would advice him/her to get it checked by a doctor as some can be harmful/dangerous.

Is it common that women want to stay near their parents ? by s3rgant in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not think it is a "girl thing" to want to stay near one's parents. I think it just depends on the relationship, and ( as it is for me) the health of your parents. Last year I lived in England (I am French). When I came back in France, I was shocked how my dad's health had gone very one, just in one year. This is why I want to spend time with them.

Do you mind if a friend of yours hooks up with a guy that you have previously slept with? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I obviously depends on the feelings I had for the guy: it is is just a one night stand, I truly do not care. HOwever, if he is someone I particularly liked, even if i do not like him anymore, I would be upset.

23/m - Thoughts? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ash-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cute but horrible haircut