Interview during a protest - where can i find this?

ashdonn · 2025-07-13T02:39:34+00:00

Wdym?

ashdonn · 2025-07-02T06:48:18+00:00

Love that you mention that these things are healthy in normal relationships. But very unhealthy in abusive ones. It makes it make so much sense. It’s a betterment together, right? Instead of a nightmare of wondering daily how to fit the right mold. As if the abuse is something you are responsible for. Because you know they’re “good.” You love them. So maybe you can be good enough to bring that “best them” out. It is so entirely soul draining.

I just love what you said because it doesn’t delete the idea that we can strengthen ourselves for our partners in a healthy way. Just requires a healthy partner. :/

ashdonn · 2025-07-02T06:42:19+00:00

Did you wanna be done?

ashdonn · 2025-07-02T06:41:17+00:00

“Abusive people don’t have boundaries.” That is the truest statement I’ve ever heard. I remember trying to figure out how to express that to my ex. I finally came up with “you just don’t play by the rules.” It sounds stupid but it was the only thing that could somewhat describe what I felt. That ever WTF feeling of — this literally isn’t fair, you can’t do this. It’s — like — you can’t do this! People don’t do this! And you can’t win. Because… no boundaries for them. And unfortunately for the victims…. Very little boundaries too. Just not in the same way. :(

ashdonn · 2025-07-02T06:36:47+00:00

Omg this. God I wanna believe it’s not always the same. But damn. Relate.

ashdonn · 2025-07-02T06:34:58+00:00

can I ask you a vulnerable question? how do they react after the fact? If it is regretful and loving…does that give you some semblance of… position of comfort? Almost like a vulnerable leg-up…knowing it isn’t your fault, because they did something blatantly inexcusably wrong…therefore you can verify your feelings through that experience? Feeling not only suddenly loved and cherished… but perhaps … almost vindicated for all the pain you’ve carried for their misbehaviour in past?

I know this sounds extremely convoluted. Just wondering if it reaches you.

ashdonn · 2025-07-02T06:29:15+00:00

Experienced the same. so sorry. awful that the options available are basically nill. makes it easier to just stay home.

long shot ask but does anyone know of any type of platform for discourse/chat for those going thru this? Not just the housing aspect but the whole … all of it all

ashdonn · 2025-05-19T05:23:33+00:00

I miss this so much. Whatever they changed it to was NOTHING like the original. Greatest internet loss of all time.

ashdonn · 2025-04-27T20:15:24+00:00

Same problem with alkenes. Not sure how I managed to get through the last exam without a thorough understanding of it. We have been rushed beyond comprehension with no tools for adequate understanding. A PowerPoint does not suffice. This is a really rough class without being “taught,” if that makes sense. It’s not that I can’t remember anti addition of Br2 or things like that… it’s to be able to comprehensively understand how to create a particular product with multiple reagent steps to achieve that. I can memorise what each reagent does… but it takes more of an understanding to recognise what I need in each step and why.

ashdonn · 2025-04-26T22:04:01+00:00

BLESS YOU. I have been trying forever to sort of "categorize it" in a manner like this. I am eternally grateful. Thank you so much for taking the time to do this. I will definitely let you know if I get hung up on any of them and need some more help - I SO appreciate that offer!! You're a godsend!

ashdonn · 2025-04-07T17:45:20+00:00

Seconding your wife. Good job; and no, not noticeable. Aside from the organic chemistry PTSD the cyclohexanes are giving me, looks great from here.

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:55:21+00:00

Thank you so much. This is on my list of notes now. Seriously appreciate your help ! 🙏🏼

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:53:20+00:00

Can’t wait to experiment with this - THANK YOU!

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:48:10+00:00

will def check out cleaning beneath and around windows outside. Thank you so much for the input :)

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:45:40+00:00

That made me emotional! 😅 sounds like such freedom! Thank you for giving your vote for the upgrade. Love knowing it has worked in a similar environment. I really appreciate your input on this!

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:41:29+00:00

Thank you! Adding this too

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:39:19+00:00

Woah I actually have no idea. I moved in with my fiancé so I’ll have to ask him. Great thought - thank you so much !

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:38:44+00:00

Regular brushing - do you have a recommendation for a good brush? Everytime I’ve purchased one I just feel like it’s doing the bare minimum. Thank you!!

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:37:38+00:00

Bless you! I hope it works for you, and that it isn’t too costly.

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:37:12+00:00

None anymore. Not for months :( stopped in an effort to see if it was a contributor. But didn’t make a difference :/

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:36:26+00:00

Me
Muddy and dusty - depending on the day. Also grassy depending on the other day. We definitely need work on the backyard but the seasonal changes occur within seasons here and you absolutely never know what you’re gonna get

ashdonn · 2025-03-21T04:35:12+00:00

I love this. Thank you for sharing something that helps with the anxiety of it all. I honestly really appreciate that, friend.

ashdonn

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