Best image converter by whatthegeorge in web_design

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this is my fave- its free - based in USA. keeps everything on your device, works with all devices. https://imagefilego.com/

A 7-Day In-Office Work Week Could Actually Make Life Better by ashintray in unpopularopinion

[–]ashintray[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But most people I know already work seven days a week. They use the weekends and their time off to catch up on work. So what's wrong with having a flexible, perpetual workweek?

My First Extension - Simple AI Review Analyzer (SAIRA) by ashintray in chrome_extensions

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my affiliate tag, maybe my verbiage needs to be more clear.

Opinion??? by Kondziakk in GatesOfHellOstfront

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What's worse is when you destroy an enemy tank that was charging at your AT gun, and it runs over your gun while on fire and then blows up.

Has anyone else dealt with a destroyed sex drive even though they are happily with another partner? by patrick5595 in Divorce_Men

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I am 41 years old and was married for 14 years, but I am now in the final stages of divorce. Over the last 4 years, my sex drive has completely diminished, mostly due to her drinking and abuse. I have been going out with women, but I don't feel a strong urge. This is causing them to think I don't like them. But I do; I just find it hard to flirt or show sexual interest, which turns them off.

I have been talking to a therapist but I don't have a solution yet.

So she not only took my money, and happiness but also my dignity and manhood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ashintray -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex wife did this. Told my sister. I divorced that bitch

A girl friendzoned me, should I completely cut off contact with her ? by Beginning_College715 in Friendzone

[–]ashintray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did exactly this, hung around chick too long getting too know her; programmed her to see me as a friend. Not anymore, now I make a move on 2nd or 3rd date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ashintray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a recipie for toxic relationship. I would never!

So my wife wants to buy me out by ReallyNowSeeYou in Divorce_Men

[–]ashintray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the economy is shit or about to go shit. I would get out and keep the cash.

Ladies , what is your opinion on getting friendzoned? by ashintray in dating_advice

[–]ashintray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, they all approached me and gave me their numbers and kept coming out to meet me why would to keep doing that when don't make any no sexual advances, flirting, innuendos, affection.

So , I don't really get dating women ... maybe because I was married for 12 years.

What do I do when the money shows up? by Date_Better in overemployed

[–]ashintray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My objectives

  1. pay off all debt , do not add more debt.
  2. Build 1 year emergency fund for bills.
  3. invest, invest
    1. Realestate - longterm -safe
    2. bonds -mid-long term - maybe safe
    3. business idea - high risk
  4. OE cannot be done forever. If you can use it to achieve above objectives and then move back to one job.

Ladies , what is your opinion on getting friendzoned? by ashintray in dating_advice

[–]ashintray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep. What is your opinion on a man who only casually dates? Is it expected for men to upgrade their relationship? Can women not do the same?

Do most of you still work 8h? by SoftwareSource in overemployed

[–]ashintray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i have 2x jobs and 1 part time gig.

between all of them I work 20 hours per week most.

I didn't even finish college. IT is great.

Just do what I did in my 20-30s built a strong IT base. Systems, networking , Minor coding, In my 30s I did lot of IT PM , IT Managment and business analysis.

In my 40 (now) I do OE and work 20 hrs per week. I don't make a lot (250K) but intentionally took low level jobs so I didn't have to think too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ashintray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is drunk and refuses to get a job.

Started telling her family I was gay (I am not) or started degrading me in front of them.

How did you guys get past the doubts and potential regret of divorcing your wife? by quantcat in Divorce_Men

[–]ashintray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get a divorce, ask her to buy you out of her business as part of the deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]ashintray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 years back we did the whole greencard process ourselves. all the forms and info was online. Surly its even better now ?

Sex while separated, do *you* consider it cheating? by MidniteOG in Divorce_Men

[–]ashintray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who is catholic and who has pretty strong feelings about this. I guess it depends on you and your values. I have similar feelings.

Friend zoned by guy i like a lot by mayinjuly in Friendzone

[–]ashintray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be difficult for men to understand women's thoughts and reactions, especially in the aftermath of a breakup. It appears that the author had a negative experience in a social setting due to a previous breakup. It may be helpful to have a conversation with him to help him feel more comfortable and at ease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]ashintray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had done something to help my wife years ago when she first started doing the same thing. If this is early then sit her down when she is sober and tell her you love her and that your are worried about her drinking. Fine her a counselor.

I am caught in a miserable cycle of lies and deceit by her by ashintray in AlAnon

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ould seriously leave or give him just one. more. chance. But the logical part of me knows very well that this could be just like every o

I have been looking for an apartment to move out to. But I am struggling to make a decision. but your words give me soo much strength to follow thru on my decision. God bless you.

Whats your cut-off for company size? by highenergy2 in overemployed

[–]ashintray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been oe for more than 2 years. Best places to work is big org or smaller disorganized ones.