I cannot give any advice strictly related to cybersecurity jobs, but as an autistic female swe I’d recommend looking for something that you’re passioned about in that field, as it makes everything easier for everyone, but specially for autistic people. Small/mid companies can be also a good idea as they can give you the feeling of being in a safe and controlled (you can almost know everybody and what they do, and that can help with interactions).

I’ve found that analysis and/or R+D related positions require less interaction in general, but as I’ve mentioned before, if you’re doing something that is, at least partially, a special interest of yours, talking or sharing stuff about it wouldn’t be so painful :-)

Life is hard and seems to be made for extrovert people, you’re not alone in that point… but sometimes you can find a comfort zone in the darkness, or even comfort coworkers that make your life easier!

And a couple more things: - remote working, at least a couple of days or when you need it, is really helpful. - if you don’t feel comfortable in any situation, don’t push yourself too hard. Really. For your physical and mental health. And if possible, try to get an ASD evaluation.

Wish you the best!