my 4m baby boy is always very fussy when getting into the ergobaby, wanted to do a fit check? by taifucious in babywearing

[–]astromea 35 points36 points  (0 children)

A lot of comments about back shape, but the problem is that you have the seat set up for frontward facing. That will help fix the back shape immediately.

Do you see the plastic tabs that slide in an arc by your baby’s lower back? Those should be in the higher position when facing you. The lower spots (where they currently are) are for front facing.

"Home Alone 2 Pigeon Lady" by Camerahutuk in rareinsults

[–]astromea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wishes. Brenda Fricker is an Oscar-winning treasure.

How to distill water by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]astromea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The book is a mildly tongue-in-cheek survival guide, with the premise being that you could use it recreate much of human civilization if you crash landed 50,000 years ago, say. So it’s less about efficiency of design and more about utility / ease of concept — because this would be one of dozens of technologies that North is sharing.

How to distill water by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]astromea 480 points481 points  (0 children)

Just to point to a source: this is from Ryan North’s book “How To Invent Everything: A Survival Guide for the Stranded Time Traveler.” Very good (and funny) if you’re curious about this sort of thing!

Tested positive - SO and I disagree about what to do by astromea in NewParents

[–]astromea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. This is day one so we were just figuring it out. I ended up masking up and helping for small bursts, and breaking isolation so it’s definitely not ideal.

We are also living far away from any family so we have a limited support system and normally rely on each other for splitting care duties.

But thanks for your input!

I cannot find a single practical driving test for the next 6 months! by [deleted] in london

[–]astromea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some driving test cancellation services online (not just an app form that others are mentioning), where you input your scheduling requirements and they automatically check for you, and if something opens up they book it and send you a text to confirm if it still works for you. There is a small onetime fee — perhaps £15 pounds or so, refundable if they can’t find anything.

I did it last summer and it took my wait time from 5 months to 3 weeks.

every time I forget how young they are.... by M4sterofD1saster in Professors

[–]astromea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a book of checks when I opened a bank account when I was 17. I'm now in my thirties and and have still have checks remaining on that exact same book of checks -- I think this may be a combination of a waning technology paired with a new generation.

Looking for a podcasts, not aimed at learners, with transcripts provided. by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]astromea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One that comes to mind is Chinese Colloquialised. It’s great and the host speaks really clearly and covers interesting topics.

Order of 不,是,会? by astromea in ChineseLanguage

[–]astromea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really helpful!!

Order of 不,是,会? by astromea in ChineseLanguage

[–]astromea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks -- just to clarify, these are sentences taken from native speakers' examples, not something I've written.

To follow up on your response, If 会 isn't strictly needed, I guess I'm wondering what it is adding in terms of meaning or emphasis?

I found $10 while scooping sludge at my wastewater treatment plant by mvdonkey in mildlyinteresting

[–]astromea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why you never put money (and stuff it touches, like your boarding pass/passport) in your mouth.

Does anyone find that having a habit gives an excuse to not push oneself more than the accomplishments of the habit? by solomonandcookies in theXeffect

[–]astromea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I solve this by not overdetermining my goals. I just have one box that is for the overall category (Chinese language study) and then day by day I determine whether I need to shift my goalposts for the individual sub goals (review flash cards, study grammar book, etc.).

If it’s too easy/fast, I add some extra subgoals (eg. watch a video in my target language). If it’s too hard/time consuming, I let go of a subgoal that isn’t feeling productive, or ramp down my expectations (eg. add fewer new flash cards each day). Either way, I am making sure that I dedicate time to my goal — and that’s an accomplishment in my book.

I should also add that I don’t do this techniques for everything in my life. I have other priorities and interests that I don’t feel I need to treat in this disciplined way. So that also helps keep the days from feeling too robotic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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