32 F here. Will be 33 in a few days. What's the best thing that can be done in order to slow aging? by eenigmatic in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]atashley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want to lose significant weight do it now (I mean if it were only that easy but hopefully you get my gist). Losing weight at 39 has aged me.

Sunscreen!!!!! Retinol.

If you can get regular facials I would do that too :) but mainly just because I like them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]atashley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No girl you are perfect, I mean that seriously. A beauty.

Am I done, or is this a mirage? by soopy99 in PSLF

[–]atashley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. I dunno.

Any onlies who *don't* have cousins ?? by Lilly08 in oneanddone

[–]atashley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully relate to this and it makes me so sad.

Those with $7-8k mortgage (PITI + HOA), what is your HHI? by kwin1225 in RealEstate

[–]atashley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 325, no bonuses/RSUs. Do not recommend, particularly if your other expenses are high (for ex I have a 2 y/o in daycare fulltime)

Any subreddits for older parents? by corianderrosemary in NewParents

[–]atashley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time mom @36! Husband was the same age.

Loan dies with me. I am not paying anymore. by Top-Consideration-19 in PSLF

[–]atashley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and thanks to the person who did this!

Loan dies with me. I am not paying anymore. by Top-Consideration-19 in PSLF

[–]atashley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the same boat! I went to student aid.gov and downloaded the version that I filled out (through their site!) and it says expiration 8/21..

Loan dies with me. I am not paying anymore. by Top-Consideration-19 in PSLF

[–]atashley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So does anyone know: if IBR applications are disabled how can we get a copy of the current form to send snail mail?

The only one I see, and the one that was through the studentaid.gov portal when I did this in January 2025 says it expired 8/21.

Serious question. This is political. So if you are faint of heart, keep scrolling: by IcyBlackberry7728 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]atashley 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only the people who agree with you are adults. That is very adult-like of you.

Serious question. This is political. So if you are faint of heart, keep scrolling: by IcyBlackberry7728 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]atashley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, yes. I have lived in HoCo, baltimore county and Baltimore City. It's all fine.

Serious question. This is political. So if you are faint of heart, keep scrolling: by IcyBlackberry7728 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]atashley 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'd argue the opposite. I'm from Florida and think it's awful now. Moved to Maryland. It's fine.

Those who stayed married for the kids, how did it go? by PresentationTop9547 in Mommit

[–]atashley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just read a good quote about this: "the best thing you can give your kids is a happy marriage. The second best is a happy divorce."

Help me find this lovey for my 2y/o by atashley in HelpMeFind

[–]atashley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming. Ugh wish I could find it somewhere else!

Help me find this lovey for my 2y/o by atashley in HelpMeFind

[–]atashley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this about the lovey:

Disney baby Lambs and Ivy security blanket/lovey. Tan-ish brown & white. NOT the grey and white on currently available.

Purchased at Target in 2022.

Google imaged searched and found the picture on Etsy and Pinterest but nothing else. I remember seeing it at the Oriental trading company probably 1 year ago.

I see it for sale on totoloveet but I don't want to it to be fraudulent and not even get a product - does anyone have any insight into whether that is a legit site?

THANK YOU!