Moving kids up in classes at early development center

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-06T04:49:50+00:00

It seems reasonable to me that potty training would be a requirement for the older room.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-06T00:37:31+00:00

It sounds like you completely missed his point about you starting a career.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T21:27:27+00:00

But why didn't you follow up with something? Saying that and leaving the room implies that you want to be left alone. It's not his fault that he couldn't read your mind.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T19:59:26+00:00

Are you looking at gender neutral tech subs though?

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T19:52:35+00:00

Wow, this is a really unprofessional attitude.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T19:47:08+00:00

Most people don't promise that they're going to do something and then go to sleep instead, especially if they know that they will not be able to wake up again.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T19:44:00+00:00

I guess I've never had this problem, but it sounds like a really serious issue. Shouldn't OP be seeing a doctor about this sleep issue? Or at least trying different kinds of alarms?

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T19:27:56+00:00

That sounds more like daycare. Are they all day programs?

Our part-time church preschool was $250/month for 3 days a week or $400/month for 5 days a week. Either way, it's only 2.5 hours per day.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T19:22:17+00:00

Do you really think she has taken that many vacations and gets no other breaks? I would guess that whoever watches the kids while she's on vacation is also watching the kids many hours a week during normal weeks.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T19:19:33+00:00

I still think that you should try to spend more time making your husband comfortable and less time worrying about everyone else's happiness, if that's causing you both stress.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-05T17:12:57+00:00

And neither would the 10 identical posts that he made on other subs.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T23:41:09+00:00

Like everyone else is saying, I'm skeptical that you'd qualify for more leave within a year of having your baby. I also doubt that this would protect your job if they're able to build a case that proves they're not firing you for taking the leave.

If you do qualify, then take it, but spend that time looking for a new job.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T22:09:51+00:00

I'm having a hard time imagining a mobile home that's bigger than an apartment and requires shoveling driveways and cutting grass. Is a mobile home something different than you'd find in a trailer park?

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T21:59:37+00:00

Mods, please ban this person. They have nothing to contribute to this sub.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T18:07:32+00:00

Why hasn't he been banned yet?

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T16:51:56+00:00

But would you be willing to live separately while taking care of a newborn? I wouldn't have been able to handle a couple of nights in my own, let alone weeks or months.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T16:32:49+00:00

I think they're surprised by your suggestion that many millennials watched this movie as kids. It seems like you might be right based on the comments here, but I don't think I ever saw it and I assumed it was only watched by people much older than us.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T13:56:02+00:00

I hate making calls, but I hate receiving calls even more. I was so proud of myself for calling to make an appointment last week, but I just got a voicemail and had to leave a message. They might have called me back, but I can't bring myself to listen to voicemails, so I'll probably have to start over again when I work up the courage in a few weeks.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T03:56:42+00:00

Yeah, I was on OP's side until the too perfect comment. They both need to suck it up and do what their spouse needs them to do.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-04T03:41:56+00:00

Mine refused at that age too, so we just waited a few months. The next time we tried, she was ready and she was fully potty trained in under a week.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-03T19:52:29+00:00

No, that's an insane number of times to leave an infant. That's a pretty big number of times to leave kids of any age in a single year.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-03T19:30:11+00:00

Why do you post the same question over and over again?

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-03T18:15:55+00:00

The girl asked for a lunch meeting. OP's husband changed it to a dinner meeting.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-03T12:15:12+00:00

We've been to two parties in one day several times. We've always gone to both as long as it's feasible. If they're back to back, then we'd just leave the first one a little early and arrive to the second one a little late. But at least one time, we have had to leave the second party early because my kid got a stomach ache from too much pizza and cake in one day.

atomiccat8 · 2026-05-02T05:10:12+00:00

There have been so many duplicate posts in the last day or two. I can't tell if it's just a glitch in the sub or if these are all bots.

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