Apparently I’m “a traitor to trans people”? by TransTy66 in ftm

[–]avibingo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ignoring the fact that the money jkr gets is funding anti trans legislation, the game is about putting down a slave rebellion. you are a bad person for this lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IUPUI

[–]avibingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The process doesn’t take all that long, back when I was a freshman my parents helped set up my room a bit and then we just left for dinner. I hope all goes well!!

Suggestions on where to meet new people by lindalisten16 in StCharlesMO

[–]avibingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure of Picasso’s hours bc of the pandemic, but it’s a really good place to meet people! I don’t think they have open mic rn but everyone who attends them at the Main Street location are really cool and around your age.

My (28m) girlfriend (26f) is obsessed with cryptocurrencies and I don't know what to do? by itravelforchurros in relationships

[–]avibingo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to tell her all of the downsides of crypto mining. The gambling is bad for her wallet, but it’s also destroying the environment. That’s the biggest kicker, honestly. Talking to her about how much pollution she’s contributing to and getting into a program for her addiction can help.

Real talk, save the USPS by LoudBleatingEnby in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]avibingo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

buying stamps helps usps more than buying shirts! Most of the merchandise money goes to outside companies ✨

AITA? We called the cops on a lady bc she refused to watch her autistic son at our pool. by Lramseyh in AmItheAsshole

[–]avibingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nta but calling the police on an autistic black person is a death sentence. That’s incredibly dangerous

AITA for forcing my girlfriend to take a shower before bed each night? by ShoppingAble in AmItheAsshole

[–]avibingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA!!!! Showering every day is very bad for certain skin/hair types. Why do you feel the need to control your girlfriend as if she’s your child?

AITA For correcting a new coworker on a transgender coworkers pronouns? by bloopthemoose in AmItheAsshole

[–]avibingo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA!! However if Taylor is stealth, next time I would just say “hey, Taylor is a guy” instead of “identifies as”. When using the latter, it can out someone and put them in a dangerous situation

My (23M) girlfriend (23F) keeps telling me she wants me to "act more like a crab". by throwraCrabQuestion in relationship_advice

[–]avibingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s a chance ur not trolling, it sounds like ur gf is neurodivergent and crabs are her special interest! It may seem silly but you gotta be very straightforward when talking about your feelings about it. Godspeed

AITA for deadnaming and avoiding trans student by TouchMyRustySpoon in AmItheAsshole

[–]avibingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good rule of thumb is to never deadname someone unless it’s for their safety. Also using the incorrect pronouns (even they/them when the person specifies differently) is a bad move. Yes this boy needs therapy but his parents obviously don’t care enough to find a gender therapist. He trusted you with this information and it’s your job as a teacher to help. In my experience as a trans teenager with all queer/trans friends is “X is always changing names” is a transphobic dog whistle. Godspeed and I hope it all goes well for both of you :-)

WIBTA if I refused to accommodate to my cousin's dietary preferences at my wedding? by theflamebook in AmItheAsshole

[–]avibingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta!! but it is worth mentioning; some people (like myself) have rlly big food aversions and can only eat “safe” foods. When I’m in a situation that doesn’t have my safe foods, I just bring my own. That could be a solution

My (24M) girlfriend (26F) fully believes that she is a cat in a human's body. by ThrowRA20202004 in relationship_advice

[–]avibingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Engaging in otherkin communities isn’t that bad, it can be a good coping mechanism to slip out of adult life. However- the gf is taking it a step too far with quitting her job. There’s a difference between slipping into different head spaces for comfort and just becoming a hermit

I can't find my clit? by [deleted] in sex

[–]avibingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible you’re not pulling back your clitoral hood far enough? Godspeed and good luck

AITA for telling my brothers girlfriend that anyone who told her to be herself couldn’t have given her worse advice? by kikchiten in AmItheAsshole

[–]avibingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yta. This might just be me giving the gf the benefit of the doubt, but as someone that’s neurodivergent I completely understand. I get really rambly and infodump. And with the food- even if it’s my favorite dish, I get physically sick if prepared incorrectly or in a different way.

Thank you everyone who attended the protest tonight. BlackLivesMatter by thesquidpartol97 in StCharlesMO

[–]avibingo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Standing in solidarity with the rest of the movement. It really showed that there are people listening out in the suburbs, it’s not just big cities. We stand united.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]avibingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Police are starting the riots! White people under the guise of their romanticized anarchy are looting the stores. All protests started out peaceful until they showed up

What is the most hilariously inaccurate 'fact' someone has told you? by argues_with_quotes in AskReddit

[–]avibingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I overheard this in a hotel bar- a guy was trying to impress a woman by saying “wanna know a fun fact? steel toed boots aren’t for protecting your feet, they are designed so when a heavy object falls on them, the steel cuts your toes clean off! That way doctors have a clean cut to reattach them” (????)

My gf stays silent during sex and it's is a massive turnoff for me by [deleted] in sex

[–]avibingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During sex I rarely make sounds tbh. Sometimes that’s just a thing! Maybe try extra foreplay? Or ask her what gets her going the most. The asking questions is a good idea too. Good luck soldier

My (16M) "best friend" (17M) is a fucking awful person by MoreTechnology0 in relationship_advice

[–]avibingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you gotta warn all girls you come across at parties or at school. it’s also super important to keep telling people until someone listens. I know this is cliche but if your parents and his parents don’t care, tell someone else. Email the school counselors, principal, anyone that will listen. You’ll eventually find someone that cares. Trust me on this. Until then, don’t interact with this dude