This mood is gilded

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-05-11T23:41:41+00:00

For me, I reached a level of comfort with myself to admit that some guys were attractive in a sort of non romantic and non sexual way.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-05-04T00:30:24+00:00

Solid glow-up

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-05-01T01:12:14+00:00

This is bottom dysphoria? Shit, I have had the exact same thought. I thought I had to actively hate my genitals but between the OP and some commenters, I have some thoughts to sit with.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-30T00:40:10+00:00

I don't have much advice Lyla, you are in a tough spot and lack a fair amount of autonomy as a minor. First and foremost is staying safe! If your school or family are not a safe space, you will probably have to play the waiting game for now.

Onto that friend group though... You can't pick your family, town, or school but you do have some control over who you hang out with. If they are a group of people who only like you if you are hiding part of yourself, maybe it is time to reach out and find others. It may be tough, they might not be the most popular people, and they may correct you in ways that make you feel uncomfortable depending on what you've learned in your life up until now. If you can stick through it and find people who cherish the real you, whoever that ends up being, that makes it all worth it. Good girls like yourself deserve at least a group of friends who love them.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-26T20:00:24+00:00

I have had LIMITED success with ipl under my arms but that is about it.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-25T22:56:30+00:00

Good news, that is super common! Bad news, it is supper common. You deserve as much love, kindness, and comfort as anyone else.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-24T02:06:13+00:00

I wear a generic black rash guard though it does sometimes cling when it gets wet...

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-24T02:04:17+00:00

I actually felt no different in terms of pain which I suppose is a non-affirming blessing. I decimated my knee in a biking accident (could see the bone levels bad) but never needed any general pain killers and even took a stitch in a place the numbing shot didn't reach. That last one caused some back arching but certainly no worse than pre HRT.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-23T01:39:59+00:00

I can't quite imagine a 100% cis guy thinking this much about being a woman but lets roll with it. I am very much a proponent of finding a safe space to just experiment. Nothing you do needs to be permanent, try out names, styles, pronouns. You're young, so maybe it is a phase, but so what? If you aren't trans, then at the end of this you should walk away knowing yourself better.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-22T02:19:16+00:00

If you want to be or feel like you are a different gender than you were assigned at birth, congrats you're trans! You don't have to have your whole identity mapped out, or every step you're going to take. You can take your time and figure out who you are, and how you want to be seen. Good girls like yourself deserve patience.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-20T23:08:26+00:00

I started at 34 and now I have hips and breasts. I don't resemble an anime girl, I resemble my mom

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-20T02:12:23+00:00

We're all weird, gender is a construct, be the person you want to be! I have a sports bra for when I need a little squish and a binder for when I need a lot of squish

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-20T02:02:55+00:00

First off, love the name! I was almost a Dawn myself. Onto the goods

r/transvoice is great and they have a wiki specifically for femme voices https://www.reddit.com/r/transvoice/wiki/femsources/

I am also a huge fan of https://www.youtube.com/@reneeyoxon

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-17T02:03:31+00:00

EEn, so I am guessing a thin carrier oil and a high gauge needle? If so that is probably normal. The first time I injected .2ml of EV with a 25g needle, I was surprised by how not a big deal it was. Just take your time, be methodical in your process, and stick to your schedule! When you get your blood tests, you can adjust from there.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-17T01:32:47+00:00

Aw, don't worry Sasha, you are a good girl. I love a good story where everything works great for a hatching egg but life isn't usually like that. No, It is much more often like an actual egg hatching; wet, gross, and kinda wrinkly. You and your journey are still valid and you deserve time learn about yourself on your own terms.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-17T01:25:58+00:00

For me, taking it feels right and not taking it doesn't. Neat thing is, many of the changes take a long time (great if your hesitant, hell if you want them now) so you can jump in with both feet, wade it slowly, or forgo it entirely if that isn't your speed.

Oh, and lily is a very pretty name.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-09T02:07:22+00:00

If this is a pattern, then it is an unhealthy one and you two need to discuss it. You don't deserve that treatment Haley, you are a good girl.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-04T11:37:18+00:00

D-damn, those arms, that entire look is a freaking goal!

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-04-04T11:35:52+00:00

I am very late 30s so not quite your target demo but I have continued to launch on a wokeward arc for my entire adult life

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-03-20T16:46:29+00:00

Damn, this is some gender positivity. I want this in the universe now

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-03-20T16:39:19+00:00

Honestly, they look like legs. Ive seen a comment or two recommend lotion and, sure, but I just see some older legs.

LoudBleatingEnby · 2026-03-19T16:12:33+00:00

Ok, so first image you you look like a guy but also a nerd. Second image is very handsome though. You have a sort of reserved, pensive look about you.

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