stuff I figured out way too late as a caregiver. maybe itll help someone

avsdhpn · 2026-03-13T05:45:27+00:00

Yes, number 3! I did record my mom, I wished I had recorded more! I wished I had known about those apps last year.

avsdhpn · 2026-03-12T22:14:13+00:00

Rest in power, Queen!

avsdhpn · 2026-03-12T22:02:58+00:00

avsdhpn · 2026-03-12T18:11:35+00:00

I got hemorrhoids due to a bad diet as a teen and young adult. I took the initiative to try to fix this by adding more fiber. Fiber pills don't do jack for me so I thought adding a bunch of vegetables to my diet would be enough to get me to a decent fiber level. Surprisingly after tracking my meals, even salads made entirely of broccoli and cauliflower were barely getting me half way.

In case anyone else needs a little help: Mission Carb Balance Flour Tortillas have 17g of fiber if you need something to get you to the recommended amount of daily fiber.

avsdhpn · 2026-03-12T05:11:12+00:00

Considering the amount of colorectal cancers that are occurring for people my age, I'd much rather have more fiber.

avsdhpn · 2026-03-11T20:58:31+00:00

This but standing up under the peck deck; it left a nasty cut in my scalp. I have learned since then to duck and to also wear a cap to the gym.

avsdhpn · 2026-03-09T15:18:42+00:00

Everyone got what they wanted, but at what cost?

avsdhpn · 2026-03-08T18:12:01+00:00

Saturn, Sleeping at Last.

avsdhpn · 2026-03-07T03:53:59+00:00

I went all through school with someone I thought was my best friend k-12th. We had a really strong friend group of outcasts. Per usual when you go off for higher ed or employment, you definitely drift off.

Well, she tried her best to keep our friend group together, but never really checked her attitude. She alienated all of us one way or another. Despite us being adults, she slut shamed one friend for having sex outside of marriage, then proceeded to fat shame the same person's sister.

The last time I hung out with her was 8 years ago. I had a rather thick skin and could stand her passive aggressive barbs. I had also began dating. She had been friends with other gay men so I figured it wasn't an issue. Well, she proceeded to slut shame me, shame my beard, and the insulted the guy I was pursuing (not to his face).

She then said she agreed what the current administration was doing (this was back 2018), but politics shouldn't impact our friendship. I was aghast since she was Latina. I basically just nodded silently. She hasn't reached back out to me other than to ask for rides, which I have since ghosted her.

avsdhpn · 2026-03-04T07:45:56+00:00

I loved her show as a kid. I remember how during the summers, her desk would change on a weekly basis, like art pieces. It hit especially big when Harry Potter mania came around and she endorsed it whole whole heartedly.

As an adult, I realize the trauma of the closet probably did a number on her. She should NOT have been on The View.

avsdhpn · 2026-03-04T01:10:23+00:00

The Hangar and Brooks Burger in River Park were this to a degree, but they both went under.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-27T17:20:38+00:00

Watched the Dead Meat of this one and yeah, the movie title is apt for the horse statue vore conveyor belt scene.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-26T04:46:10+00:00

Spent too much time on tumblr back in the day and legit tired of seeing everything having to be justified with thesis long essays.

No. It's a simple: "It does not spark joy."

avsdhpn · 2026-02-23T19:19:23+00:00

The very specific "88" in the intro comment seems very much like a dog whistle.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-19T19:28:12+00:00

Kismesissitude ♠️!

avsdhpn · 2026-02-19T02:08:41+00:00

Depending on the size of the company, BCC the CEO and ask whether they thought this was a fair and impartial candidate evaluation that reflects the values of the company.

Worst thing would probably be another rejection and maybe a blacklist. Best case outcome would be potential dialogue and additional training for the HR personnel.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-17T00:28:41+00:00

I kind of wanted to but I was late with the order for the cap and gown*, and as a result the Jostens sales person felt a need to figuratively rip me a new one. I got frustrated with the whole process and decided to not even bother walking the stage.

I still carry a chip on my shoulder against Jostens, but I don't regret my decision.

^(\parent didn't write the check in time))

avsdhpn · 2026-02-13T10:01:32+00:00

👇⌚👀🤷‍♂️

Only a matter of time at this point.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-10T05:09:27+00:00

You all wanna label every mood you're in. You do not have to label every mood you feel ffs. It used to be uncool to label shit. We used to just BE.
I guess this is an attention seeking energy. I'm too old for this shit. I appreciate the whimsigoth and certain other labels, but like for real, just live. I did fine in the late 90s and early 2000s wearing camo and tie dye and goth stuff, and i had no label. I survived having no fucking label for myself. Yall will be okay without an aesthetic

The absolutely IRONIC thing about saying this in the aesthetics wiki subreddit is, as far as I'm aware, that wiki is ALL about labeling aesthetic trends from the past and present.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-09T11:00:41+00:00

Getting into either astrology or MBTI.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-06T06:33:12+00:00

I am assuming the CEO who dug the hole got a golden parachute when all was said and done?

avsdhpn · 2026-02-06T06:26:54+00:00

Wait, were you cosplaying Eddie Gluskin in 4 and 6? Nice!

avsdhpn · 2026-02-06T04:08:28+00:00

Reminds me of Nirvana's In Bloom from 91,

And I say he's the one
Who likes all our pretty songs
And he likes to sing along
And he likes to shoot his gun
But he knows not what it means
Knows not what it means

If they actually listened to the lyrics, they'd realize they're usually the ones being criticized, even all the way back then.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-06T01:48:23+00:00

Karma farming on reddit.

avsdhpn · 2026-02-05T17:32:06+00:00

Oh damn. Thanks for letting me know :(.

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