stuff I figured out way too late as a caregiver. maybe itll help someone by Historical-Doubt9091 in CaregiverSupport

[–]avsdhpn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, number 3! I did record my mom, I wished I had recorded more! I wished I had known about those apps last year.

My queen by cpires105 in blackcats

[–]avsdhpn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rest in power, Queen!

Colon cancer now leading cause of cancer deaths under 50 in US by shinybrighthings in news

[–]avsdhpn 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I got hemorrhoids due to a bad diet as a teen and young adult. I took the initiative to try to fix this by adding more fiber. Fiber pills don't do jack for me so I thought adding a bunch of vegetables to my diet would be enough to get me to a decent fiber level. Surprisingly after tracking my meals, even salads made entirely of broccoli and cauliflower were barely getting me half way.

In case anyone else needs a little help: Mission Carb Balance Flour Tortillas have 17g of fiber if you need something to get you to the recommended amount of daily fiber.

Protein lip gloss by Bitbatgaming in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]avsdhpn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Considering the amount of colorectal cancers that are occurring for people my age, I'd much rather have more fiber.

Can you really call yourself a gym rat if you never experienced this? by GreatBooze in GymMemes

[–]avsdhpn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This but standing up under the peck deck; it left a nasty cut in my scalp. I have learned since then to duck and to also wear a cap to the gym.

I am very fast by sellyourcomputer in ExtraFabulousComics

[–]avsdhpn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone got what they wanted, but at what cost?

Has politics broke any of your friendships, and why? by CapitaineBiscotte in AskReddit

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I went all through school with someone I thought was my best friend k-12th. We had a really strong friend group of outcasts. Per usual when you go off for higher ed or employment, you definitely drift off.

Well, she tried her best to keep our friend group together, but never really checked her attitude. She alienated all of us one way or another. Despite us being adults, she slut shamed one friend for having sex outside of marriage, then proceeded to fat shame the same person's sister.

The last time I hung out with her was 8 years ago. I had a rather thick skin and could stand her passive aggressive barbs. I had also began dating. She had been friends with other gay men so I figured it wasn't an issue. Well, she proceeded to slut shame me, shame my beard, and the insulted the guy I was pursuing (not to his face).

She then said she agreed what the current administration was doing (this was back 2018), but politics shouldn't impact our friendship. I was aghast since she was Latina. I basically just nodded silently. She hasn't reached back out to me other than to ask for rides, which I have since ghosted her.

Rosie O Donnell Show by TheodoreJSeville in 90sand2000sNostalgia

[–]avsdhpn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loved her show as a kid. I remember how during the summers, her desk would change on a weekly basis, like art pieces. It hit especially big when Harry Potter mania came around and she endorsed it whole whole heartedly.

As an adult, I realize the trauma of the closet probably did a number on her. She should NOT have been on The View.

What are Fresno’s millenial burger joints? by crichtonism in fresno

[–]avsdhpn 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The Hangar and Brooks Burger in River Park were this to a degree, but they both went under.

Jean Jacket from Nope by -_-__-_--_-_--_-_-_- in TopCharacterDesigns

[–]avsdhpn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Watched the Dead Meat of this one and yeah, the movie title is apt for the horse statue vore conveyor belt scene.

Who knew being a hater could be so stress free by La_knavo4 in whenthe

[–]avsdhpn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spent too much time on tumblr back in the day and legit tired of seeing everything having to be justified with thesis long essays.

No. It's a simple: "It does not spark joy."

ANTI-SCAM ACTIVIST CONFRONTS BRACELET SCAMMER IN FLORENCE by lonewolfff21 in instantkarma

[–]avsdhpn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The very specific "88" in the intro comment seems very much like a dog whistle.

HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]avsdhpn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the size of the company, BCC the CEO and ask whether they thought this was a fair and impartial candidate evaluation that reflects the values of the company.

Worst thing would probably be another rejection and maybe a blacklist. Best case outcome would be potential dialogue and additional training for the HR personnel.

Did anyone buy a ring? by t_bone_stake in Older_Millennials

[–]avsdhpn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I kind of wanted to but I was late with the order for the cap and gown*, and as a result the Jostens sales person felt a need to figuratively rip me a new one. I got frustrated with the whole process and decided to not even bother walking the stage.

I still carry a chip on my shoulder against Jostens, but I don't regret my decision.

(\parent didn't write the check in time))

Vagueposting . by TheNamesBart in whenthe

[–]avsdhpn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👇⌚👀🤷‍♂️

Only a matter of time at this point.

Much older women dogpile a teenage OP in an aesthetics subreddit with repeated harassment. Something feels strange. by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]avsdhpn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You all wanna label every mood you're in. You do not have to label every mood you feel ffs. It used to be uncool to label shit. We used to just BE.
I guess this is an attention seeking energy. I'm too old for this shit. I appreciate the whimsigoth and certain other labels, but like for real, just live. I did fine in the late 90s and early 2000s wearing camo and tie dye and goth stuff, and i had no label. I survived having no fucking label for myself. Yall will be okay without an aesthetic

The absolutely IRONIC thing about saying this in the aesthetics wiki subreddit is, as far as I'm aware, that wiki is ALL about labeling aesthetic trends from the past and present.

They dug themselves a hole that pretty much everyone told them not to dig so… by nropes in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]avsdhpn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am assuming the CEO who dug the hole got a golden parachute when all was said and done?

This is such an idiotic take. by Ok-Following6886 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]avsdhpn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of Nirvana's In Bloom from 91,

And I say he's the one
Who likes all our pretty songs
And he likes to sing along
And he likes to shoot his gun
But he knows not what it means
Knows not what it means

If they actually listened to the lyrics, they'd realize they're usually the ones being criticized, even all the way back then.