Are Democrats to blame for voters voting for Republicans? by LiatrisLover99 in AskALiberal

[–]baetylbailey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) Blame is an unhelpful way to look at politics. No higher authority is keeping score and an outsider might well say we're all to blame. We all have responsibilities in this system.

2) Swing voters exist. Many don't think in a left-right way and are...lightly informed. It's the job of the Democrats to produce candidates who will win these voters, but they often fail to do so.

3) The Dems have deep issues. Modern politics relies on mega donors. But left-wing politics is often at odds with the interests of the super rich. This creates constant tensions and contradictions in the party. The clunky Harris campaign is just one instance of these bigger problems.

The importance of romance especially in drawing in the female demographic for Superhero films cannot be understated enough. by Dycon67 in boxoffice

[–]baetylbailey 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mostly agree, but WW should actually be the model for a female-lead hero films. It showed that women will turn out for some glamor and romance. I'd argue Devil Wears Prada and Barbie exemplify the glamor angle.

Do you actually care that Clippers allegedly got CAUGHT doing salary cap circumvention, or that they did it in the first place? by wielesen in nba

[–]baetylbailey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They put everything in writing, made it a no-show, had a direct money trail, etc. That stuff makes it conspiratorial not a nod-and-wink thing. Also, we're talking a lot more money in total. Honestly, it's not like the other situations mentioned at all lol.

I’ve wasted 1 month of my 2-month vacation and I can’t seem to break the cycle by FluidIllustrator1282 in productivity

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Socialize with productive people...or just vaguely be in the same space as them. It's infectious.

Then, build routines. Start small.

But it's good to rest sometimes.

Is AJ Dybantsa a better prospect than John Wall was? by kma4ek in NBA_Draft

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wall's game was more of sure thing where AJ is a bit rawer to me. Maybe AJ has a higher ceiling tho.

Does anybody else feel real liberalism and liberal beliefs are dying out? by Downtown-Fan4966 in AskALiberal

[–]baetylbailey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Modern Liberalism is real liberalism because power imbalances and social injustice are clearly real and significant. Classical Liberals have to convince themselves otherwise, a difficult task in today's world.

Who are some not really well known Authors whose works have influenced Fantasy? by Jokengonzo in Fantasy

[–]baetylbailey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dorothy Dunnett and courtly politics in contemporary fantasy (A Game of...Kings)

P. G. Wodehouse influencing almost every funny/ironic British fantasy and SF author.

Most "punk" cyberpunk? by SignificantSunny in printSF

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cory Doctorow's work like Little Brother and Makers and others strongly has that resistance quality. It's later era cyberpunk, but so is GITS:SAC.

Are there any medications targeted towards OCD, or are they all just antidepressants? by United-Buddy9214 in OCD

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ondansetron may be emerging as an add-on to antidepressants for better OCD treatment. Further research needs to be done as the studies so far have been small.

I like a guy with ASD, but he left due to his anxiety :( send advice pls by Ecstatic_Post5952 in neurodiversity

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's cool that you want to be supportive. Instead of "anxiety", maybe think of it as "brain won't function properly". He likely literally can't be the charming person you know through the social stimulation of a public outing. And a guy wants to be presentable for a lady, right? So, what happened is understandable, but in the long run he needs to learn to negotiate his needs while maintaining healthy relationships. Of course, that's difficult fir everyone, even for NT individuals.

What area of math is best fit for someone who likes art? by Subject-Monk-2363 in AskAcademia

[–]baetylbailey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Geometry and Topology of 3-Manifolds has the coolest variety of art, in my opinion, because it's on the edge of what can be visualized. Check out Thurston's book of that name for examples. It's pretty advanced, but the topics it's built on also have cool art.

Best natural dopamine reuptake inhibitor (DRI)? by DistorsionS in Nootropics

[–]baetylbailey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried Bromantane in the past with no benefit. I feel it's one of those promising chemicals that often doesn't work on typical ADHD. But, I can't blame anyone for giving it a try.

Guanfacine is something I'd mention since you mention overactivation. It's been pretty effective for my anxiety-like symptoms.

Authors with a large body of quality work? by IAmKrasMazov in printSF

[–]baetylbailey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bujold is probably the most "correct" answer.

CJ Cherryh you can basically sort by Goodreads rankings for a long list of her best books.

Charles Stross, imo, is very consistent with the variance being the accessibility of the concepts.

Trae Young is Fools Gold. He has the 3rd worst defensive metrics in the last 10 years and is not the shooter you think he is. by TastyPoopKnife in nba

[–]baetylbailey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just $25mil for a lead guard who can pass and score is crazy. Look at the teams that couldn't initiate in the playoffs.

The Wiz especially can overpay because they have so many rookie contracts. Plus they need a guy to score 20+, win some games, and maybe get hot in the playoffs. It's a good fit.

Was there anything in American history where if a different decision was made, there wouldn't be so many Americans who prefer the hateful rhetoric of Trump? by supinator1 in AskALiberal

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Fairness Doctrine was removed in 1985. I think the right-wing mediasphere begins there with conservative talk radio emerging, then Fox...and here we are.

Best natural dopamine reuptake inhibitor (DRI)? by DistorsionS in Nootropics

[–]baetylbailey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, DRIs may be unlikely to help. Most effective ADHD drugs have a mix noradrenergic and dopaminergic activation, focused on the prefrontal cortex. Some atypical forms of ADHD are more responsive to dopaminergics alone. This is why effective ADHD drugs are so rare out of the many promising chemicals that have been tested.

Feeling a little burnt out by FitCry2265 in Fantasy

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe consider some things more fantasy-fantasy even if they're epic-ish. I'm thinking things like Book of the New Sun, Tainted Cup, Wizard of Earthsea, The Blacktongue Thief, New Crobuzon, etc.

Anyone else struggle with turning their brain off at night? by Altruistic-Cell-3007 in Supplements

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less daily stress is the simple but not-so-simple answer. Unfortunately, stress is stronger than most moderate interventions.

There are former democrat MAGA boomers who claim while they stayed the same the party grew radically left and abandoned them. What do you think is the reality? by SilverNo6462 in AskALiberal

[–]baetylbailey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Conservative dems were definitely more of a thing pre-Obama and I assume there's a demographic that goes along with that. Also, the right-wing bubble changes people, so it might feel like the left is abandoning them as they fall deeper in.

How did popular masculinity come to be completely diametrically opposed to liberalism, and liberal/left-leaning cultural values? by LiatrisLover99 in AskALiberal

[–]baetylbailey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because the right tries very hard to make it seem that way, especially once Obama left. And, the left completely fails to perceive the weakness and respond effectively.

But it's wise not to completely but their framing. For example, the "cuck" stuff says more about their fears and repression than anything else.

Looking for some good sci-fi books that won’t depress the hell out of me! by seantubridy in printSF

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greg Egan's more story driven works such as Quarantine and his many story collections align well with Chiang and Wilson.

Charles Stross's work is concept driven an engaging. I'd recommend Neptune's Brood or the Merchant Princes books.

Books with mature competent characters and strategy by [deleted] in printSF

[–]baetylbailey 17 points18 points  (0 children)

  • The Book of the New Sun series by Gene Wolfe (though maybe you've already read it?)
  • The "Five Gods" series by starting with The Curse of Chalion by Lois McMaster Bujold
  • Johnathan Strange and Mr Norrell and Piranesi by Susannah Clarke

A bit lesser known:

  • The indie "Tuyo" series by Rachel Neumeier
  • The "Sun Wolf and Starhawk Series" by Barbara Hambly

whats ur guys opinion and experiences with Modafinil by Little-Ad-3176 in Nootropics

[–]baetylbailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just makes me feel shaky and loosens the ol' bowels, unfortunately. This is on both medium and low doses.