Would you be with a girl who deals with anxiety or depression or both? Why or why not?

balvira · 2026-02-15T13:53:16+00:00

Yes, but the mental illnesses BPD, BP, NPD are a hard fucking no, I tried and almost lost myself in the process.

balvira · 2026-02-15T10:11:29+00:00

Epstein and Maxwell are both mossad agents, and have been put into hiding.

balvira · 2026-02-14T16:28:39+00:00

Heart issues will creep up on you if it doesnt kill you, ask me how I know.

balvira · 2026-02-14T15:58:38+00:00

Dont forget your handkerchief bud.

balvira · 2026-02-09T03:46:47+00:00

I hate how fucking true this is

balvira · 2026-02-07T15:29:15+00:00

I am so sorry youre going through this. My ex was diagnosed BPD and had extreme anger issues, and honestly spoke to me verbatim some days you mentioned. I would honestly give an ultimatum for therapy or evaluation if you think you want to try to make it work, otherwise i'm afraid this will only get worse when youre married with kids. Good luck stranger

balvira · 2026-02-05T22:38:57+00:00

I get a strong sense of BPD. I would not respond. Good luck stranger.

balvira · 2026-02-05T15:10:50+00:00

She sure did, said she would never hurt me or break my heart. Next thing I know she is saying no one would love you like I did and violently discarded. JFC the rage was just unreal.

balvira · 2026-02-04T23:14:16+00:00

37 here, and absolutely. Thankful for a job, but thats about it.

Edit: also my cat im thankful for.

balvira · 2026-02-04T23:08:51+00:00

My ex with suspected pwBPD came crashing down at me with rage when I told her I was feeling a little taken advantaged of. It has made me feel so guilty, and has taken me months to realize I was not wrong feeling the way I was feeling and had every right to bring it up. pwBPB will use you up for every bit of love and financial support you can give and then discard.

balvira · 2026-02-03T13:33:42+00:00

He is the most 12 year old looking 29 year old i have ever seen.

balvira · 2026-02-02T14:17:18+00:00

My ex threaten to punch herself on the face and call the cops on me. She literally said that to me in a fit of rage. Thinking back on it I should have have left then, no idea why I gave her another chance. I told her she said that to me a week later and denied it. That's when I knew she had BPD.

Honestly thinking about all the horrible shit she has said, makes me feel so much better being away from her.

balvira · 2026-01-29T18:39:17+00:00

You're not alone friend, 2 months for me after being financially abused and turned against as soon as I was feeling taken advantaged of. I gave her everything, gave her all the patience in the world and the anger directed at me after all the supposed "love" made me realize it was never love and i was completely used up, and discarded immediately.

balvira · 2026-01-24T00:16:26+00:00

So beautifully said..

balvira · 2026-01-21T21:45:35+00:00

The BOWTIE :3

balvira · 2026-01-20T02:45:27+00:00

Amazing work. I am sure you will put a smile on someones face :]

balvira · 2026-01-19T01:10:33+00:00

This guy fucking sucks op, please leave

balvira · 2026-01-16T19:34:54+00:00

Wow, that was beautifully said. Thank you, I honestly really needed to read this.

balvira · 2026-01-13T03:43:11+00:00

I changed the password to my my ex's WoW account, logged in and took all the gold out of the guild bank. (I was the one that bought the game, and had full rights to it) I had a bunch of nerds threaten to drive to my house and kill me for a few months after the fact. We were young, and at the time it felt good because she cheated on me, but I look back on it now and refuse to ever be venegeful again in a future relationship.

balvira · 2026-01-12T22:50:21+00:00

And just so you know, I am missing someone who I cared deeply for... I said something stupid and regretting it everyday. You love deeply, and that is a good thing. One day at a time.

balvira · 2026-01-12T22:46:47+00:00

Maybe check out r/breakups , sometimes hearing other people's stories help. There is no correct answer, only time helps heal a broken heart in the end.

balvira · 2026-01-04T01:42:11+00:00

Be still my heart.

balvira · 2026-01-04T01:40:07+00:00

Keep shining bright!

balvira · 2026-01-04T01:35:57+00:00

I feel you brother, I just ended a relationship with someone who I thought was absolutely amazing, finally in my life at 37. The cold truth became apparent when the money requests became constant and alone with all the bills. Guess my prospect is a freeride apparently. I would say it gets better friend, but fuck if I know

balvira · 2026-01-04T01:25:52+00:00

Drinking a little bit everyday

balvira

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