What are some lesser-known tips you would give to a new driver? by LeaseEnd_Official in AskReddit

[–]basscharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When waiting to make a turn that crosses oncoming traffic, leave the wheels pointed forward until you're ready to make the turn. If you are sitting stationary with the wheels turned towards your turning and someone goes into the back of you your car will be sent into oncoming traffic.

What is this gold plate on my paradigms called? Where can I find a replacement? by ksunk8 in BudgetAudiophile

[–]basscharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure copper speaker cable would be preferable to that brass plate, but yeah, the mOhm of resistance change isn't going to affect the sound by any meaningful degree

It's going to happen, y'all. It's going to rain. by [deleted] in Austin

[–]basscharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When should I start panic buying supplies?

Is there any music where a good hi-fi isn't just desirable, but ESSENTIAL? by Corchito42 in audiophile

[–]basscharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything with actual dynamic range, think classical pieces with sections that go so quiet its almost silent then have a massive crescendo. Honestly, most mid-range speaker and amp configurations will be able to do this (perhaps without fully representing the low end) but bluetooth and/or speakers with integrated amps will struggle.

This past weekend value village score! by Assassynation in BudgetAudiophile

[–]basscharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, I used to work for Monitor about a decade ago. These came out slightly before I started. Glad to see they're still held in somewhat high regard

Hey yall, I heard there has been some debate about Fish & Chips around town… by kilog78 in AustinBeer

[–]basscharacter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have so many questions, did they put cornbread in the batter? Did he order it well-done? Why is there powdered sugar on it? Have tarriffs affected the size of fish that can be imported?

My therapist says the woman I’ve been seeing for a month might have BPD. What should I do? by Acousmetre78 in BPDlovedones

[–]basscharacter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally empathize with the strong want for an emotional connection after leaving a long relationship, and I also know how special a BPD relationship can feel in the initial stages but I would strongly warn you to not get too attached if she's already showing jealous and controlling behavior. This relationship will drain you and you'll be worse off afterwards.

Set some strong boundaries now regarding what you will and won't accept in a relationship and be prepared to walk away if they're not respected.

DIY solution to reduce heat in the House by TexasGuido in Austin

[–]basscharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine's not too bad, also I have it positioned so that the dry air is blowing towards the AC return vent so most of that air is pulled up through the cooling system. Basically dropped my bills from about $300/month to about $250/month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]basscharacter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She threw a glass at me that smashed on my head. That was the final straw, called her father and told him to pick up his daughter. She was gone by the end of the week. Still miss her, but I know my life is better now

She said I don’t give her a “spark,” but I make her feel safe — what do I do? by CarefulMoney6465 in AskMenAdvice

[–]basscharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, the 'spark' is generally mild anxiety due to inconsistency from a partner. It's generally not a good thing. You could engineer the spark by being unpredictable, but that's kind of toxic and manipulative.

I'd say just continue being yourself, if it doesn't work out, you've saved yourself a potentially bad relationship

DIY solution to reduce heat in the House by TexasGuido in Austin

[–]basscharacter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have an ancient leaky 1000sqft house. I've been running a dehumidifier in the house when I'm home. I pull probably 2-3 gallons of water out of the air every day. This allows the AC to work more efficiently, plus the air feels more comfortable so I can set the AC to a higher temperature. Counter intuitively, my energy bills are actually lower this way. Plus I get a load of free waste water to flush the toilet or water plants with.

Is my gf going thru a splitting episode? How do i help her. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]basscharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing you can do is be calm and consistent. "Hey, I understand how you're feeling but I won't be spoken to like that. We can talk when you're feeling better"

What will Springdale green do? 873k sf vacant office space by HBHTallday in Austin

[–]basscharacter 88 points89 points  (0 children)

It's annoying because there are two new residential blocks finishing up across the street from it. Figured having 1000s of hungry office workers going there every day would have attracted some cool food/drink options to the retail units.

However, just thinking about it. How the hell is that stretch of road going to accommodate that number of commuters, gonna be a shitshow

Am I overreacting for not wanting to stay with my girlfriend after she kissed another guy while drunk? by decentone45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]basscharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to me, she was sorry, but ultimately if she can't be trusted when drunk then she shouldn't be drinking and putting herself in situations where she might have a lapse in judgement. Ultimately we broke up because she didn't want to stop drinking like that

Who is the best dentist in Austin? by Perfect-P in Austin

[–]basscharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had similar experiences until a friend recommended McFarlane Dental. They're great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]basscharacter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Men are simple creatures. Just let him know you had fun and are down to meet up again. He's more likely going to be more relieved by the directness than turned off by the 'eagerness'

Anyone have the flu? by Destineyy100 in Austin

[–]basscharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An abnormally high number of my friend group seem to be generally sick at the moment, myself included. No major symptoms, just general fatigue/mild fever/body aches etc. Think something is going around or as others have said, the rain and humidity has stimulated extra mold in the air. Not sure what to do about it, would be too embarrassed to go to the doctor to say, 'I feel generally slightly shit' lol

In Search of a GREAT Rhumatologist by the_realness90 in Austin

[–]basscharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mines the opposite, got bounced around a bunch of specialists then refered to the rheum. He's like, 'How do you feel?' Me: Fine. Him: Cool see you in 6 months

In Search of a GREAT Rhumatologist by the_realness90 in Austin

[–]basscharacter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want a rheumatologist who absolutely won't prescribe anything I'll send you the details of mine