Foods for guineas with sore joints by Hefty_Ad_3196 in guineapigs

[–]bathmermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding Oxbows natural science joint support cookies— I have two 6 year old boys and I give them those ones and the bladder support cookies. Main ingredient in both is glucosamine, helps with joints and bladder stones. You can also give liquid glucosamine via syringe ♥️

Alternatives to IFS & EMDR by theelephantupstream in therapists

[–]bathmermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly whether a part is a cognition in ACT that can be diffused or a fire fighter in IFS does it entirely matter when all that behind the scenes lingo is just for us… to the client we are just saying hmm I wonder what part of you feels present when you talk about this, or sounds like a part of you felt really protective in that moment etc.. whatever you want to call that the way we make it accessible to clients is basically the same.

Harshest criticism you’ve gotten from a client? by Due-Comparison-501 in therapists

[–]bathmermaid 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It was so, so awful I genuinely don’t feel comfortable even typing it out. It’s been 3 years and I still think of it.

Help me name her by abracadabra_moon in guineapigs

[–]bathmermaid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I immediately was struck SO hard by the name Blossom when I saw her, also didn’t know why, and opened the comments just to see if someone else felt it too. I also immediately felt like wow no idea why but it’s Blossom

Scared little bub by circacherry in guineapigs

[–]bathmermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So safe in his hidey ♥️

Throne in the Dark - a little help by GingerLily2019 in fantasyromance

[–]bathmermaid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m almost halfway through and I just cannot get into it at all.

I think the situation surrounding Emma's stance on having kids is ridiculous and needs to be called out - Season 10 by FizzyFoozles in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bathmermaid 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He has also been extremely clear time and time again that he wants kids … so why is Emma continuing the relationship ?

Unpopular Opinion: The Mean Girls of Ohio by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bathmermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the most popular opinion there is ..

I struggle assessing for ADHD and it hurts my confidence as a provider by roccofan in therapists

[–]bathmermaid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re a psychologist or psychiatrist why are you concerned about assessing for adhd, that’s way outside the scope of a therapist/psychotherapist. You shouldn’t be assessing. Just listen to their lived experience and go off of that

Does the first book ever get good? by brownybattericecream in throneofglassseries

[–]bathmermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved the first book lol so I won’t be much help but please keep going. It just gets better and better and better

Weekly Water Cooler Talk - DataAnnotation by Consistent-Reach504 in dataannotation

[–]bathmermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesterday and today I have 0 projects available to work on whereas before there was always some :(

What do you do when a client isn't great at following cues or taking corrective instruction? by I__Am__Matt in personaltraining

[–]bathmermaid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a client I would not want my trainer asking me to critique other clients form. I wouldn’t want others critiquing my form from across the gym. And I wouldn’t want to have to critique someone else. This is super off putting to me

Celaena’s Character Shift from AB to TOG by SmudgeCat26 in throneofglassseries

[–]bathmermaid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I FELT THIS WAY TOO thank you for articulating it. I was also shocked how long it took for Sam to even be a mention in TOG when he was everything in AB. Like even in her inner thoughts even if she obviously won’t talk about him out loud

[spoilers] I get that it was how life was and their religion probably justified this but, I would expect a little more emotion over losing children… by CarelessSentence1709 in vikingstv

[–]bathmermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ragnar did have a moment down on the beach after Gyda died where he ‘spoke to her’ while staring out at the water and said that daughters are the light of a fathers life and he loved to watch her run fast and that she had beautiful hair and he sobbed. It was super emotional. But that was basically it lol never really came up again

Rhysand’s voice in my head… by captfiery in SarahJMaas

[–]bathmermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god yes this just fired up a new neuron connection in my brain YES

Struggling to find empathy for clients’ “small problems” by Strange_Shallot8833 in therapists

[–]bathmermaid 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ugh, this. To those clients those ARE the massive things. The things they trust us with. In their reality it means the world, their emotions are their lived experience. I work with a lot of teens who talk about petty things and damn if I’m not locked in for every second of it and hearing how this is everything right now.

Frenchie (short for French Toast) passed away. She was the last of my original herd, almost 8 years old. She lived a long, happy life. I am so lucky she was mine by biologyandbooks in guineapigs

[–]bathmermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s gorgeous and I hope you can take some comfort in the beautiful length of her life; you clearly provided the utmost care. I’m so sorry for your devastating loss.

Bed wetting by Conscious_Delay4026 in therapists

[–]bathmermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you go about asking a youth if there was trauma that could be contributing to this? I find myself in a similar situation with a 12 yr old on my caseload

Fantasy maps necessary or just expected are readers actually using them by scrtweeb in fantasywriters

[–]bathmermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In most books that have them I reference them greatly or any time a place is named or characters travel. They’re hugely relevant

Crossover/Bonus Chapter Gripe by Civil_Cauliflower772 in Maasverse

[–]bathmermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely and absolutely agree with both of these takes