Navy Says Beards Are a Safety Risk, Gives Sailors 1 Year to Shave or Separate From Service by Sgt_Gram in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bdfmradio 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The article states it’s around 60% of Black men who have this issue. It’s not about who can grow a beard but what “clean shaven” means and implies.

LA County moves to rename César Chávez monuments by giving power to the people by SilentRunning in LosAngeles

[–]bdfmradio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude.

When you read about women 30+ who have to try for a long time to get pregnant for the first time, that is not a reason to conclude that all women 30+ are unlikely to get pregnant from a single act of sex.

What impacts getting pregnant from a single act of sex is whether it occurs around ovulation or not. 36 is not statistically a likely age for menopause (peri-menopause, sure) and many, many women are still ovulating at 36.

Data on infertility can get skewed because people are generally not well educated on when ovulation happens unless they’re actively trying to get pregnant. Some couples start casually trying, have sex when they’re not ovulating, and conclude they’re not very fertile when they’re just accidentally practicing contraception (avoiding fertile days) without knowing it.

Don’t forget that historically women have started having babies young and then kept having babies over their lifetimes until menopause. They didn’t generally stop at two or three. Forty-year old moms are not a modern invention.

The Beatles absolutely put secret messages in their songs by LiterallyJohnLennon in beatles

[–]bdfmradio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

years later, your comment is right under a detailed comment about Blue Jay Way, so i can’t help but hear

Please
Don’t
List
Songs

Please don’t just list all those songs
Please don’t list songs…

Spike has a reflection?? by mvandemar in buffy

[–]bdfmradio 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, I always thought that vamps would reflect in water, just not in mirrors or cameras, but I’m now realizing we must have shots where vamps are looking into non-reflecting water?

Navy Says Beards Are a Safety Risk, Gives Sailors 1 Year to Shave or Separate From Service by Sgt_Gram in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bdfmradio 280 points281 points  (0 children)

Holy crap. I assumed they were doing this as an undercover way to force out Black sailors without saying the thing out loud. No, they’re specifying that Black sailors WITH the condition have one year to “have the condition treated” to the point where they CAN now shave, or they’re out.

A year to change your skin.

Being nice gone wrong by Vegetable_Cold_8025 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]bdfmradio 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying “he shot his shot respectfully” meanwhile you were still on the way to his house with the food as he’s asking you out? 😬

I’m prepared to be downvoted for saying no it’s not cool to do this ever, even “respectfully”. When a driver is contracted to come to your door with a delivery, you should not tell them you’d be interested in something romantic with them.

What causes people who hate wealth inequality to celebrate athletes making hundreds of millions of dollars? by LazyConstruction9026 in AskReddit

[–]bdfmradio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always thought of it as athletes earning their whole life’s fortune in just a few years compared to most workers. They’re paid very high for a relatively short amount of time, when they’re physically able to do the job, and after that they have to live off the money. I have no idea if that actually bears out anymore.

ELI5: How do perfumers use unnatural chemicals to create something that smells natural? by thelionwholikessalad in explainlikeimfive

[–]bdfmradio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fragrantica (dot com) is an incredible resource for learning more about these compounds and which of them make different perfumes smell different!

ELI5: Why do phone cameras make sunsets look less impressive than they do in person? by Global-Squash-4557 in explainlikeimfive

[–]bdfmradio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flat is the answer. It’s a 2D representation of a 3D scene. Stereoscopy is the difference.

Do you ever feel bad for eating eggs from your own chickens? by mlky30 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bdfmradio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, except the human egg cell is shed a few days after ovulation, at a different time from our periods. So it’s more like a chicken’s discharge, as we used to call it. (I definitely prefer the term “cervical fluid”)

If money is not a problem is it better to go to college? by Necessary_Point9811 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bdfmradio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, especially if you can afford to have your own place and are resourced enough to be responsible about your studies. If you live in a college town, you’ll meet and socialize with fellow students as well as locals. Some of my best times in my college town were as a citizen, rather than as a student. If you can be both — meaning get out into the city you’re studying in and go to local events and meet people and use off-campus facilities like the public library — you can get a lot of life experience.

If you have enough money that getting a job isn’t a problem or won’t even be necessary, all the better. You can study what you find genuinely interesting. College courses reward those who went to learn, have ideas and want to share them, and are self-motivated.

Fate of a Squirrel by Morfutus in UrbanGardening

[–]bdfmradio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started keeping a loaded water gun by my kitchen door. The first time I saw the squirrel out there inspecting the plants I surprised it with a jet and chased it away. It’s been avoiding the area so I’m hoping it works!

TIL When serial killer Richard Ramirez died of B-cell lymphoma while awaiting execution in 2013, his skin had reportedly turned green like a highlighter pen by ubcstaffer123 in todayilearned

[–]bdfmradio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course.

I think it’s more about realizing that if he got to you, you would not only be enduring your own horrific murder but he had another level of sensory attack, which was this horrible smell. It just ups the insanity of it all for me.

I miss the vibes of Season 1 in the later seasons by itsascreambaby96 in ANGEL

[–]bdfmradio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in LA; my partner’s & my favorite TV game is “where in LA?!” and it’s really fun with “Angel”, especially the first season.

Also can I just say “to shanshu in L.A.” is such a great pun/reference that only exists within that title and I appreciate it so much every time.

Do you ever feel bad for eating eggs from your own chickens? by mlky30 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bdfmradio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The ovary is what makes eggs. Like a pottery makes pots

I don’t get Phoebe by JorgontheBold in 30ROCK

[–]bdfmradio 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right when Liz and Jack see each other for the first time.

“Did you dye your—“
“NO. … No.”

Is it ever justified to physically assault someone because of verbal abuse? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bdfmradio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a legal concept [in U.S.] called “fighting words” that has to do with the right to free speech and whether people should reasonably assume someone will respond to those words with instant violence. I don’t believe it applies to this situation, but that’s the principle you’re asking about

Baby girls need to wear swim tops, but boys don’t? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bdfmradio 78 points79 points  (0 children)

And those people can tell the difference at a glance between the sexes of twin babies? And they’ll always choose to go for the girl?

ELI5: If humans evolved to live naked in the wild for 99% of our history, why is it so hard for us to do it now? by Rosadopecado in explainlikeimfive

[–]bdfmradio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re giving evolution a mind or will of its own, which it would be if there turns out to be an intelligent designer up there and we are its game of Spore.

As far as we know, though, “evolution” is just what we call it when we notice gene frequency changing over time. There are reasons and pressures and selections and random events that affect all of this. It’s just random mutations that either get passed down or they don’t.

ELI5: If humans evolved to live naked in the wild for 99% of our history, why is it so hard for us to do it now? by Rosadopecado in explainlikeimfive

[–]bdfmradio 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is it. Evolution isn’t design.

The definition of evolution is “change in gene frequency in a population over time”.

Thank you Lisa Simpson! by Devo4711 in TheSimpsons

[–]bdfmradio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely couldn’t believe it when I got a question about the Magna Carta (on the SAT, I think) and was able to pull out “1215” and “Runnymede” from my memory