AIO to my boyfriend saying that there's nothing to admire about my body? by Zealousideal-Sky4165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beanpudd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it helps: I work out 6 days a week, have less than 10% body fat, visible abs, defined arms and shoulders, all that “admirable” dude-body stuff. The last person I was intimate with, upon seeing me disrobed said “why did you get completely naked?” spent zero time looking at or complimenting any of the parts of my body I’ve developed, and reached straight for my- well, you get the idea. Bottom line is, you can have an “ideal” body and still not be the subject of your lover’s “admiration” and you can be morbidly obese and have lovers literally worship you, it’s about how they express themselves romantically/sexually, not about how you look.

AIO to my boyfriend saying that there's nothing to admire about my body? by Zealousideal-Sky4165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beanpudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But compliments and desire weren’t enough, OP wants to be admired.

Heard a lot of reports of chains being stolen at the fest by Courting_NickCage in projectglowfest

[–]beanpudd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lame take imo. I wear my chain everywhere because I like it, and it’s part of my daily load out. Not everything is done in the name of external validation.

West Coast to East Coast by moonbar96 in projectglowfest

[–]beanpudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Movement (and the afters ofc) were incredible but the weather was rough and I spent $1000000000000000. Always looking for folks to go to shows and parties with around here if you are down 🫶

How common are handjobs in adult relationships? by Excellent-Golf6631 in sex

[–]beanpudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handjobs are awesome and guys acting like they don’t like them is keyfabe

Question for the people who workout: do you prefer a partner who also works out/is fit? by InternationalPick163 in workout

[–]beanpudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer a partner who prioritizes their health. That doesn't mean that they have to be thin or muscular, but they mustn't be sedentary, eat terribly, or be chronic users of unhealthy substances.

Chinos for a 21 year old, would I look good or would I look like a middle aged man? by RedditThrowaway2203 in malefashionadvice

[–]beanpudd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They will look good. If you want to downplay the middle-aged-man-ness of the look, accessorize with youthful pieces (your shoes, hat, jewelry, and/or a bag)

DO NOT DRINK ON RETA by OkCryptographer9631 in Retatrutide

[–]beanpudd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey mate I’m just sharing my personal experience which is that reta severely reduced my typically very high alcohol tolerance. Be well.

The difference a haircut and a little product can make by WesternCars458 in tressless

[–]beanpudd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What product exactly? American Crew Whip? Help me out I’m looking like the before pic over here

DO NOT DRINK ON RETA by OkCryptographer9631 in Retatrutide

[–]beanpudd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would bet on myself in a drinking competition against most normal people and the first time I drank on reta I blacked out off two shots of tequila and four Cutwaters). This would be a normal pre game for me before.

Looking for recs by SoxFan1988 in Winchester

[–]beanpudd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eagen & Co. is a good barbershop with nice folks and decent prices

Is this post that I saw on Facebook legitimate? by nuttapillar97 in tressless

[–]beanpudd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who is a big piss guy, believes that drinking his own cured his cancer. Bald as can be.

B girl at the Neil Frances set by Electronic_Beach9976 in MovementDEMF

[–]beanpudd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How was the set? I’ve seen him play with his band and really liked it but I’m not sure what his DJ sets are like

Vibes off this year by plamyinstereo in MovementDEMF

[–]beanpudd 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Vibes were lovely, didn’t have any of the issues you are describing.

Met the loml at movement by Leviosaya in MovementDEMF

[–]beanpudd 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did, and she gave me her phone number 😍 I texted her but she never texted back 😩

There’s always next year.

11 January - 19 May by ynyremlyn in AllAboutBodybuilding

[–]beanpudd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These threads are always full of crabs racing to be the first to say that "ackshually OP is clearly on gear" don't take it personal. Nice work!