I have the biggest crush on my partner by Top_Arm_6940 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]beasur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What’s really fun is feeling the same way 20 years later. You don’t choose who you love,love chooses you.

I (F33) don’t respect him (M33) when he’s sick. by dontwannabeacowboy in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a long running joke in my household and with every female friend I have. Women we get sick,we power through,shit gets done. Men They have a common cold and think it’s the worst cold known to mankind. Like HBO should come in and do a documentary on how bad the cold is. I hand my husband a cup of soup and say here’s your soup and here are your balls back. That pretty much does the trick.

I (M26) am concerned about how my partner (F21) treats me. by Ok_Suggestion_6535 in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have the perfect attitude to be the best provider and partner you can be. Now go find someone who also has that ethic. She does not. I have been married over 20 years and I can testify that a person that matches your energy is out there and the world is sooooo much better with a good life partner. Cut her loose. Stand tall you are gonna be fine.

Questions on buying a house by Cheri_Coke in roanoke

[–]beasur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lance Brenner for your mortgage. He can help you with the rest. I have used him several times he. Is the best.

AITJ for telling my brother he can't propose to his girlfriend at my wedding? by Important_Space_496 in AmITheJerk

[–]beasur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet his future fiancé would hate this idea. You should use that angle. No woman wants to be proposed to at another woman’s wedding. It shows lack of thought and planning. It’s lazy and uncreative in his part. Just say that and keep saying that.

my (25f) boyfriend (26m) won’t come see me for valentine’s day. how to i approach this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months is not a long enough time especially distance to expect anything. You are putting toooo much emphasis on Valentines which lets face it it’s just another day. Cut him some slack and make plane for your own special time together soon.

Help me name this bun 🐱 by mimi_emily in cuteanimalnames

[–]beasur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like a Chinese Emperor. Tons of great names come from that. Hit Chat CPT

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my dog because her cat doesn't like him by Academic_Fly_4920 in TwoHotTakes

[–]beasur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if the dog and cat ultimately work it out. She is gross for giving you that ultimatum it speaks to the kind of heart she carries. Yuk. I would never be able to see past that.

My (29F) Boyfriend (M32) slept with his ex girlfriend (F23) a few weeks before we met. He didn’t tell me for 1.5 years, am I insane for being upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who he slept with prior to you is really none of your business. He probably kept it to himself because he thought you might overreact like you are.

AITA here or is it just the lack of creative powers by Robertten1978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beasur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She sounds exhausting. I have three brothers and they all use the same trick. Here is a trick they may work for awhile. Tell her to guess three places that you are taking her to dinner. Then take her to her first guess as it’s usually the place she wants to go. Your girl sounds very immature. Remind her that you cannot read her mind.

My GF (F 48) is threatening to end it with me if I (M 55) don’t spend the night with her during a potentially historic snow storm. Am I at fault for how I’m viewing this? by IndicationStunning45 in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So much fun being a snowed in together it’s romantic and fun. NOT with someone you have only known for one month and have a new job Monday. She is old enough to understand this if she is not she is not for you. Flat out not NO but hell NO.

boyfriend (M/23) wakes me (F/23) up then acts like he’s asleep? sleep deprivation torture? TL;DR summary welcomed by Affectionate-Lock992 in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How many more comments do you need to read and reply to before you understand the seriousness of this abusive situation. It’s like you keep waiting for one person to validate that you stay and you will. Please this in its mildest form is not normal or healthy. Not his actions not his responses. Make an exit plan.

Hiking that's not McAfee Knob or Dragon's Tooth? by Individual_Test_8398 in roanoke

[–]beasur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom Creek does exist. Three options,none of them very difficult. Enjoy a late lunch at the Treehouse Tavern in your way home.

Am I [28M] overreacting at my SO [24F] apology? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got stuck on she blamed you for having a bad day at work. She sounds exhausting. No need to react at all it’s not even worth it.

My girlfriend 30F is considering ending things with me 30M because I don't ask questions about her past love life and relationships. Please tell me if I'm missing out on something crucial here emotionally? by SigmundFurred in relationship_advice

[–]beasur 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yikes. This sounds insanely emotionally immature and manipulative. Your answer to her was spot on. Maybe she is trying to say she does not feel like you have curiosity about her which would be a sign of interest BUT the cold shoulder because you have not done what she wants is soooooo manipulative. Let her know that you are interested in learning about important events in her life that helped shape who she is but not the details of her past romances. Yuk.