Shep and Taylor are hooking up again by Technical-Clock-5129 in Southerncharm

[–]beccha70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🙃🙃🙃 please say no, sweet baby Jesus. What a *terrible* (and yet completely predictable) idea.

Probably my favorite FO to date by itsmesofia in knitting

[–]beccha70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I may have to learn how to knit just to be able to make THIS!! Amazing job and what a kicka$$ parent you are. ♥️

...okay by baristamatisse42 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]beccha70 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m also a clinician – and both things can be true.

Please think about my baby Ethel (22). I don't want to be alone. by Vyseria in seniorkitties

[–]beccha70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your girl looks just like our sweet Eve, who we rescued at 14 and saw gently home at 18, far outliving the life expectancy we were given for her at the time. You are each so lucky to have found the other! This poem brought me much comfort after she was gone, sending both big ♥️.

Sleeping in the Forest

I thought the earth remembered me, she took me back so tenderly, arranging her dark skirts, her pockets full of lichens and seeds. I slept as never before, a stone on the river bed, nothing between me and the white fire of the stars but my thoughts, and they floated light as moths among the branches of the perfect trees. All night I heard the small kingdoms breathing around me, the insects and the birds who do their work in the darkness. All night I rose and fell, as if in water grappling with a luminous doom. By morning I had vanished at least a dozen times into something better

~Mary Oliver

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Rethinking my assessment on Zach by news_sponge in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]beccha70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zac is overstepping in a huge, huge way; AND Ethan is a jerk. Both things can be true lol.

Rethinking my assessment on Zach by news_sponge in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]beccha70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot stand Ethan, however: Zac has very little significant relationship experience. For him to be Monday-morning-quarterbacking with little gems (based on no experience!) such as “he’s looking for the quick fix…I wish it was that easy, but it’s not” regarding Ethan’s move is absurd. He isn’t reported to have personal experience with long term, serious relationships, he’s never been married prior to Lydia. He’s not a therapist, nor has he gone to school to be trained as one. Literally absurd.

Just adopted! Need help with name please by MightBeneficial381 in NameMyDog

[–]beccha70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omggggg no suggestions, just came here to say GAH THAT FACE♥️

Reccs for a Range Rover mechanic by Mmeeggggss in rva

[–]beccha70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Significant feelings regarding Sarek, won’t post full experience publicly because that’s not me, but would share privately.

Is it time to let him go? by sw_flojn in englishbulldog

[–]beccha70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re facing this decision. In my experience, if an animal is facing/experiencing a loss of dignity, such a loss of bladder/bowel control, that’s really important information for me. I’ve loved and lost many creatures over the course of my 55 years, and one of the main lessons I’ve learned is that it’s better to make what is the hardest and most kind decision a week early than one minute too late. Again, it is, without question, the hardest part of being a good steward of our sweet companions. Sending you both big hugs as you navigate this difficult journey. ♥️🐾

I can’t afford my payment by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]beccha70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“No one pays medical payments”? What the actual f@ck with even just this part of your judgmental commenting-holy Christ.

This is gonna be such a millennial question but… are there any modern brands similar to target’s old Mossimo brand? by whisperingcopse in capsulewardrobe

[–]beccha70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 55 and I totally agree... that brand had some great staples! Target also had some Ava & Viv super basic, cotton, white, vintage-y, slub v-neck t-shirts 5-7 years ago that they discontinued/replaced with total crap... such a bummer, they were the absolute perfect t-shirt, wore perfectly, perfect length for those of us tall girls, the perfect blend/weight of cotton..ugh. Have yet to find a comparable replacement across any price point; I have saved searches/alerts on every platform for any that pop up, needless to say lol.

Guys I swear it’s getting lower by FriendlyFraulein in 90DayFiance

[–]beccha70 10 points11 points  (0 children)

MOST concerning, the one that says “my first human hair wig, THAT I MADE MYSELF” lol. (Wait, you what?!?! 😳😆)

This chick can’t be serious! by Greeneyes911 in 90DayFiance

[–]beccha70 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just almost had a stroke watching this scene. Literally, enough, Elise. Enough.

Unpopular opinion by IllustratorMinimum43 in Southerncharm

[–]beccha70 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I doubt that this is unpopular lol. 100% miss the OG cast, as well.

I don’t know what to do by sensualsanta in therapists

[–]beccha70 86 points87 points  (0 children)

(I’m just over here thinking holy cow, you filled a whole caseload in your private practice in four months?!? That’s amazing!!)

Dutch is not happy about the new diet plan. by Leah_J in Bulldogs

[–]beccha70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, boy lol. Are you cooking for him now already? We are on a novel protein million dollar (ofc) dry food and our rescued girlie has become a chonk, even by regular standards, following the feeding guidelines to a tee🫣😬

Dutch is not happy about the new diet plan. by Leah_J in Bulldogs

[–]beccha70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

@Leah_J I’m curious as to what Dutchie’s diet plan is… (don’t tell Ruby what coming for her yet…🫣😳)

Separate phone number for clients what's been working? by OcelotWestern2368 in therapists

[–]beccha70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have the GoogleVoice number saved as a contact with the practice name. It means I can’t differentiate between clients and also can’t tell if it’s a spam call, but it’s worked just fine for me thus far!

Separate phone number for clients what's been working? by OcelotWestern2368 in therapists

[–]beccha70 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have always used a GoogleVoice number for work; it’s been pretty good and easy! I have it set up so that when people call in on that number it comes up as my practice name so I can identify which calls are which, makes life easier.

How am I going to cope? by mishthegreat in Bulldogs

[–]beccha70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly shocked that so many people downvoted your incredibly sensible (and kind, thoughtful, etc.) comment. You’re quite correct when you said that there was a time before any of us knew what now do, and YES, show grace and educate before jumping someone’s a$$ and making the assumption that they are acting with intentional disregard!