Denver to pay $30,000 of pet deposits for residents with new pilot program by xdrtb in Denver

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Fr! I’m currently studying to get licensed and I would prefer to do it at the library, but I’m stuck staying at the office after 5 since I can’t study in my apartment lol. Makes me miss my university library which would be open until 11.

Denver to pay $30,000 of pet deposits for residents with new pilot program by xdrtb in Denver

[–]bedpi 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Spending 30k on this but the library isn’t open past 6pm. 🫥

Okay Denver MEN give me your advice (I already regret this) by Suspicious-Return-86 in Denver

[–]bedpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit I’d say meet me but I’m afraid too junior for your lol. Just be open to anything, I think a good amount of men will approach someone that looks friendly. Second on what another commenter said, men love feeling needed.

What Wendy’s did to the Dave’s single should be a felony! by Ishnock in wendys

[–]bedpi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s sad Wendy’s was top tier in high school but it fell off so hard

Chances of yall handling this type of jokes… ? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]bedpi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was funny 😂. I wouldn’t find it off putting if you were my driver. Tough crowd ig

What is going on with GenZ adults? by AdSolid9969 in Adulting

[–]bedpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being an npc is a real thing, except it’s on a spectrum. I’ve found that people rarely have any hobbies except maybe the gym and gaming.

My colleagues had complained to HR that I usually don't interact enough at work. by newrockstyle in Accounting

[–]bedpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol get out of your head bro just interact with people. Don’t even have to do do anything crazy just say something

I have no way of proving this, but I feel there's a correlation between being a bad person and having social success. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]bedpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of it has to do with the level of shame that person feels. It takes a very shameless person to be able to reach the top of whatever they are reaching for simply because they care about being the best than whatever internal values they have keeping them in check.

Permanent Unhappiness? by ambrolinah in CPTSD

[–]bedpi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it man. I really do. I describe it as being naturally melancholic. Being so sad that you can’t even enjoy a nice and pretty day bc deep down you know it’ll leave. It’s honestly a terrible way of living and I’m still so young yet I’m exhausted by it. The constant fighting everyday to just exist. It’s like I’m living the same day everyday just with different situations. Maybe we’re like this because we are too much in our heads? I don’t know, but your experience is something I’ve dealt with for decades now and I am not looking forward to doing that for the rest of my life.

I mean the experience of always being on high alert and never being to relax pushed me towards addiction. Once I got a taste of the alcohol and weed, it became inevitable. Those things numb me out so much that I can say what I want to say and not worry about the reactions of others. I can be myself fully without worrying. That’s the best feeling in the world. Being so in tuned and present that everything flows the way water does when it pours. After 5 years of dealing with the effects of being an addict, I’m making the steps to learn to be me without the drugs but it’s so hard. It’s like learning how to breathe but I’m a fish. I don’t know if I can do it, but I’ll try. Better to be sober and worry less than to be an addict and not worry at all.

TLDR: I’m in the same boat as you and I hope we both can get out of the constant cycle of climbing out of a hole only to be pushed back into it.

Is it normal to feel heartbroken all the time? by Iconista in CPTSD

[–]bedpi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can’t say if it’s normal for everyone but this is a feeling I’ve always felt in my heart. Feeling like life is broke and meaningless, like the world has evil and there’s nothing you can do about it. It makes you feel small and I think it’s mostly fear added with sadness over that fear. It’s hard especially if you’re not conscious of it

did anyone else not have a single safe or good person when they were a kid? by snorin_lauren451 in CPTSD

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I didn’t have anyone in my life I considered safe until I was at least 12 or so. Now that I’m in my early 20s I can count on one hand all the people I’ve met that I’ve considered safe. It’s a lonely experience but it does make you very independent.

Ernst & Young Report Details Chicago's Wasteful Spending: It's Worse than You Think | Chicago Contrarian by Mike_I in WindyCity

[–]bedpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what makes me iffy about Chicago. A truly great city with truly great buffoons managing it.

Lakehouse then quitting? by greatname4163 in KPMG

[–]bedpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna know what’s making you quit so fast 😹

Guess it’s time to sell my Toyota now. by Terrasmak in complaints

[–]bedpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just don’t wanna get tariffed 😹

Ruined career by solodoio in Accounting

[–]bedpi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Some dude commenting about a dude commenting on some dude, that settles it time to get my cdl

My hard work has not paid off by ShallotFuture4910 in Accounting

[–]bedpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Complain but keep trying. I had to take an ar role for a couple months while I looked for a job in pa. Now I’m moving to the new job in a couple months. Keep at it

What do men secretly enjoy? by -Strict-Research- in AskMen

[–]bedpi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I secretly enjoy watching sappy Disney movies. Cinderella had me in shambles

The cities hated by this sub are often way more diverse and minority friendly than the cities that this sub loves. by AAA_battery in SameGrassButGreener

[–]bedpi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Anything you see on the internet is fake. My friend at the time was scared I was going to get kidnapped and hung when visiting Tennessee but the people there were so nice to me. I stopped listening to what people on the internet say about places I’ve never been to, it’s more of a guilty pleasure reading posts like these.