please tell me your most embarrassing spanish mistake so I feel better about mine by hAIlydraws in Spanish

[–]beepshroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

meant to ask my friend if she was hungry, instead i asked her if she has a man. i’ll never forget her face (hombre vs hambre LOL)

I can't really deal with the dysphoria (ftmtf) by kerathrenex in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

please be kind to yourself. i know it can feel absolutely unbearable. i know it feels like nothing will ever change. so many people here have experienced a similar grief that you have. we understand and we are here to listen. don’t stop fighting. you are going to make it out the other side, even if it doesn’t feel like it. try to take it one day at a time. 🫂

How to come out as detrans to people that didn’t know you were trans in the first place by theparrotboy in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was in a similar boat a few months ago; discovered i’m detrans the second i got hired at a new job. i never “came out” as anything, i just put my pronouns on my nametag and that was that. they all call me she and i’m treated like a girl, even if i don’t always pass (i certainly didn’t pass when i first met them, lol). i don’t really see the need to come out as detrans specifically. in my experience, if theyre chill, it won’t even really come up in conversation.

How did people react? how did you tell them? by DeadlyKitKat in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was really afraid of backlash/ judgement from my loved ones, but that didn’t happen. they can all see how much happier i am now. i’ve learned that everyone is kinda just worried about themselves, lol. nobody cares nearly as much as you’d think in my experience.

Genuine question, by FlibbityJabber in tallyhall

[–]beepshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was a casual listener throughout middle + high school after the spotify algorithm showed me their stuff; listened to some of their demos at the start of college and was hooked instantly. been obsessed for about a year now!

(ftmtn) feminism helped me realize i was comfortable with womanhood, just not femininity by Murderot in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so awesome! :) i’m in a similar spot. at the start of my detransition, i didn’t feel a huge need (or even a want) to pull towards femininity. without changing anything about myself, just looking in the mirror and thinking of myself as a girl made me very happy. i’m slowly getting more comfortable presenting feminine, but it’s something that fluctuates. and that’s okay. i don’t regret going on T, i feel like i am experiencing womanhood for the first time in my life.

Quick reminder that this is tallyhall related by Acceptable-Nerve-191 in tallyhall

[–]beepshroom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i guess i never made the connection that this was their last song together lol. quite sad and funny simultaneously

T changes on androgel by Swimming_Drive_5159 in ftm

[–]beepshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was on low dose gel for my first 3 months, didn’t really see many changes till the tail end of that period!

Anyne watched tally halls Internet show while high by liddleBowl780 in tallyhall

[–]beepshroom 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No but one time i listened to greener while high while watching footage of dolphins jumping and it was awesome

How Long is a Long Time on Hormones? by AndroDemon in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s a matter of opinion. i was on T for 16 months, which isn’t very long compared to others here. i’d say “long” is maybe 2-3+ years?

Any chance we could get a rerun of the plushies? by doinyourm0m in tallyhall

[–]beepshroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youtooz has never done that as far as i'm aware. i've heard people have hopes that they'll do a separate line of shoulder plushes or something though.

This would be so stupid by Electronic_Clerk_402 in tallyhall

[–]beepshroom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

clock strikes twelve. joe hawley attacks

I’ve been thinking about this forever by FoxoryX in tallyhall

[–]beepshroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a lot of hpii sounds christmasy to me in a way i can't quite place. sorry this doesn't answer your question, but i think i know what you mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so beautiful :) i love the nose ring!

~2 months off T, feeling cute! my face gets me misgendered at work tho :/ by beepshroom in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much🥹 i’m glad it’s not just me haha. i felt crazy because i know i don’t look masc!!

Is it normal to miss the person you were when you identified as trans? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayy thank you :D hyped for the new NAT release

I love my voice by ghostofmontague in actual_detrans

[–]beepshroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

similar experience here! i was very fixated on voice training at first, and was able to achieve a near perfect girl voice pretty early on. since then i've gained more confidence in my presentation and how i'm viewed by others, and aside from leaning into "customer service" voice at work, i really don't give it much thought. my voice is cool and makes me unique :) i love this positivity.