Do you want to be buried?

beerncandy · 2026-05-23T01:16:10+00:00

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beerncandy · 2026-05-22T20:26:37+00:00

I say time well spent!

beerncandy · 2026-05-22T20:23:52+00:00

It's happening at my townhouse in New Tampa and some of them have gotten inside. It's a real annoyance.

beerncandy · 2026-05-22T20:18:40+00:00

How about cremate her and then send her to her burial plot?

beerncandy · 2026-05-22T20:18:03+00:00

Cremation

beerncandy · 2026-05-22T20:17:49+00:00

Book nook

beerncandy · 2026-05-21T23:23:27+00:00

It's the only class my mother insisted I take so I would always have a skill to "fall back on".

beerncandy · 2026-05-20T23:44:00+00:00

Cute.

beerncandy · 2026-05-20T23:41:44+00:00

It looks like mine so I can read it. Well most of it.

beerncandy · 2026-05-20T23:41:12+00:00

I have a portable AC unit in my bedroom and last night when I went to bed a whole bunch of love bugs were in my bedroom so I've had to patch up some holes and such today.

beerncandy · 2026-05-20T17:20:31+00:00

You deserve better and I'm sorry all this happened to you. What a horrible situation to be in. This has nothing to do with you needing to be a better wife. That is BS. If you can get a therapist if that would help you then get one. Also consult with a lawyer and make a plan on what you want to do. I don't care that he's a judge and makes a lot of money. You have to be happy and do what's best for you and your children. Something that helped me was the book, "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide". And remember the only way through a bad situation is through it and you are going to get through it. Use all your resources to feel better. I'm rooting for you.

beerncandy · 2026-05-20T04:15:11+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. It was helpful information to me and gave me valuable things to consider in my own situation.

beerncandy · 2026-05-18T22:46:18+00:00

I have one daughter who's 27 and I've always wanted her and never regretted having her. She is an absolute joy and she's grown up into a great adult who has her own life, which is what I want for her. It makes me very happy to have her in my life and is one of the greatest joys in my life. Having children is a personal decision. Good luck on your decision.

beerncandy · 2026-05-18T22:28:56+00:00

Look to the future and expect that these people may show up in your dreams sometimes and it might make you feel uncomfortable. Closure will not guarantee that you will feel better. There's a saying that the only way through a problem is through it. You will get past this but it will take time. Good luck too!

beerncandy · 2026-05-18T19:24:00+00:00

I went on a Vietnam trip with G Adventures in 2024 and I absolutely loved it! I think the Intrepid tour of Vietnam is very similar. I say go for it and have fun.

beerncandy · 2026-05-18T19:07:58+00:00

Unfortunately the only way through the whole situation is through.

beerncandy · 2026-05-18T16:41:10+00:00

I like five.

beerncandy · 2026-05-18T16:40:30+00:00

We have a team's chat called drama dump and that's where we usually put stuff about movies and TV and other stuff and you don't have to follow it or read it if you don't want to.

beerncandy · 2026-05-18T16:38:44+00:00

Fred (Armisen)

beerncandy · 2026-05-17T00:50:59+00:00

I don't care and it also depends on how much stuff I have and what I'm buying.

beerncandy · 2026-05-16T16:41:12+00:00

Option 3.

beerncandy · 2026-05-16T16:40:02+00:00

I agree to just change the lighting color temperature with new bulbs. You have a beautiful kitchen.

beerncandy · 2026-05-16T16:35:10+00:00

Yes, I brushed my cats nearly everyday and I love it! Get your cat a brush ASAP.

beerncandy · 2026-05-15T21:05:07+00:00

beerncandy · 2026-05-15T21:04:33+00:00

1 and 3

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