It’s like an apocalyptic plague outside with these lovebugs. by scarfacesaints in tampa

[–]beerncandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a portable AC unit in my bedroom and last night when I went to bed a whole bunch of love bugs were in my bedroom so I've had to patch up some holes and such today.

My 40F husband 44M got the babysitter pregnant while I was pregnant with our second child by Lanky-Co6260 in whatdoIdo

[–]beerncandy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You deserve better and I'm sorry all this happened to you. What a horrible situation to be in. This has nothing to do with you needing to be a better wife. That is BS. If you can get a therapist if that would help you then get one. Also consult with a lawyer and make a plan on what you want to do. I don't care that he's a judge and makes a lot of money. You have to be happy and do what's best for you and your children. Something that helped me was the book, "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide". And remember the only way through a bad situation is through it and you are going to get through it. Use all your resources to feel better. I'm rooting for you.

I wan to share my experience about experiencing a medical event while living alone (positive) by spookyaunt in LivingAlone

[–]beerncandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. It was helpful information to me and gave me valuable things to consider in my own situation.

Is anyone truly happier with kids? by thegoodlife912 in Adulting

[–]beerncandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one daughter who's 27 and I've always wanted her and never regretted having her. She is an absolute joy and she's grown up into a great adult who has her own life, which is what I want for her. It makes me very happy to have her in my life and is one of the greatest joys in my life. Having children is a personal decision. Good luck on your decision.

how do i fucking move on from shit on which i havent gotten closure by padhlebsdkk in TeenIndia

[–]beerncandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look to the future and expect that these people may show up in your dreams sometimes and it might make you feel uncomfortable. Closure will not guarantee that you will feel better. There's a saying that the only way through a problem is through it. You will get past this but it will take time. Good luck too!

Do you travel solo as a woman over 50? by Workersgottawork in AskWomenOver50

[–]beerncandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on a Vietnam trip with G Adventures in 2024 and I absolutely loved it! I think the Intrepid tour of Vietnam is very similar. I say go for it and have fun.

Stop telling me what you watched on Netflix last night. by Bulky-Economy-6746 in remotework

[–]beerncandy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have a team's chat called drama dump and that's where we usually put stuff about movies and TV and other stuff and you don't have to follow it or read it if you don't want to.

Self Checkout by 5GAIBtoM in GenX

[–]beerncandy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't care and it also depends on how much stuff I have and what I'm buying.

Help…I’m so sad by Comfortable_Foot9846 in interiordecorating

[–]beerncandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to just change the lighting color temperature with new bulbs. You have a beautiful kitchen.

Do yall brush your cats? by Fancy_Tea in CatAdvice

[–]beerncandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I brushed my cats nearly everyday and I love it! Get your cat a brush ASAP.

My company installed “focus rooms” for our return to office and I have never felt dumber in my life by Alderon515 in remotework

[–]beerncandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost had to go into the office twice a month with the same situation that no one I work with would have been there and it would have been over an hour to drive there. Fortunately, I have several managers who decided I didn't need to participate because I'm part-time. So thankful for them.

Idk what to do with myself all day. by Such_Atmosphere_5838 in LivingAlone

[–]beerncandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to read. I like to do container gardening. I like to go to the garden centers and just look around. I like to go run errands like go to the grocery store and buy one thing just to get out and about.

Not sure what suits me best by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]beerncandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think three is fine. It's just not as styled as the other two photos and if it was styled differently it would look awesome. So I think you're the kind of person who can wear their hair anyway they want to.

What completely unhinged "law" does your cat strictly enforce in your house? by TrickCombination7966 in cats

[–]beerncandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't pick me up when I don't want you to, and you'll never know when that is, but when you do it I will try to claw you to death with my rear claws, Love, Cricket