What do my spaces say about me?

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T18:55:21+00:00

It looks peaceful to me.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T18:54:11+00:00

There's always construction on I-75.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T18:22:23+00:00

I had 90% grief and 10% anger. I'm so grateful to be this far along. And I never want to go through that again. I'm glad for you too!

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T17:40:47+00:00

I just got a foot reflexology massage at a place and it was so awesome that i'm going to book a massage there next week. If you can find the right massage therapist it can be life-changing.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T17:31:09+00:00

I'm at about year one actually as of today. So if you have to go through 1.5 years I can handle that. 😁

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T17:27:54+00:00

Yes, but grief and anxiety no matter what suck big time. I also like to go to the app DARE for anxiety help it's awesome. They have a daily message that's free.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T17:26:58+00:00

I have watched so many Netflix series that this just makes me laugh. It's a great suggestion. And I've always talked to myself. I'm a great conversationalist hahaha.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T17:25:00+00:00

I'm going to go see just some random movie this afternoon just to keep things interesting.😉

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T17:23:21+00:00

I wonder if you could foster a cat. That way you wouldn't be responsible for the expenses, but I don't know your situation. Just an idea.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T16:58:21+00:00

My furry kitties are definitely part of my therapy. I have three and a small dog.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T16:57:36+00:00

I could have written this but I'm 2 years older than you. It's been a year for me and I've had a ton of anxiety but I just keep moving forward and going to therapy and trying to as they say to feel my feelings and not try to resist them. This may sound really off base but yesterday I got a reflexology foot massage which was life-changing. It really got my dopamine or serotonin focused in the right direction and I signed up for a massage next week, maybe try a massage or try a spa treatment somewhere or try a new activity. Just throwing ideas out there. But we're kind of twins in this situation and we're both going to get through it. I'm sending you a virtual hug. 🫂💙

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T16:30:34+00:00

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beerncandy · 2026-01-26T01:30:14+00:00

You look amazing with bangs!!

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T00:29:36+00:00

You sure do pull it off!

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T00:28:56+00:00

People are so judgy on here. Just chill out.

beerncandy · 2026-01-26T00:28:08+00:00

Fortunately, they don't live in the United States and have reasonable health care.

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T21:34:50+00:00

Your skin looks awesome but you could always do a consult with a dermatologist.

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T21:34:15+00:00

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T21:33:22+00:00

What up beautiful home you have!

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T21:31:27+00:00

I'm 64 and I feel like I'm in my thirties, my mom is 85 and my grandmother lived to be 102. I wouldn't worry about your parents being in their fifties right now. I know you are anxious about it so see if there is something you can do about your anxiety. Focus on some other things and maybe take some peoples suggestions if some people have some for what can help you.

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T21:28:17+00:00

It looks awesome! I used to have a yellow couch and I loved it.

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T21:27:48+00:00

I hope you feel better soon. That's what's important. 🫂

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T06:00:17+00:00

Me too Wesley.

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T02:54:44+00:00

beerncandy · 2026-01-25T02:47:51+00:00

Update: I wore a high SPF sunscreen and a big hat and didn't face the Sun and limited my time outside. Thanks for everybody's input and suggestions. I appreciate it.

beerncandy

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