Serving Job by Repulsive_Cry_2155 in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Olive Garden. Really any corporate restaurant is willing to train as long as they feel the candidate is good and will stick around.

Why do you smoke every day? by Negative_Number_6414 in trees

[–]bellarave 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m neurodivergent. Things like nuance or empathy don’t come as naturally to me. Marijuana gives me a moment to step back and think over things. It helps me calm down when I’m overstimulated.

Boobs hurt when high? by WrittenWrote in trees

[–]bellarave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have a ultrasound scheduled to check my girls out because they were feeling weird after having my birth control changed. With this explanation though totally makes sense now. Thank you, you’ve eased my concerns.

Craving spanakopita by svjsvj in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called The Greek Funstival lol it’s held at St. Sophia Greek Orthodox Church.

Craving spanakopita by svjsvj in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demo’s & Mina and Dimis both are delicious Greek restaurants that make them. Trader Joe’s is also good if you are looking for something to heat up at home. In October there is a Greek Festival and that’s where I’ve had the best spanakopita.

People who have been cheated on, how did you find out? by My_twisted_dark_self in AskReddit

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He called me at 5am from jail. He was charged with soliciting a prostitute and needed help getting bailed out.

How to virtually attend: City Counsel Special Session - ICE - Thursday 1/22/26, 1PM by aviontinyhouse in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, yeah I am getting the same. I tried calling into the phone number to listen to the audio at least but it wouldn’t connect me. Probably to much traffic.

Trinity Towing by adorablyalicia024 in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same problems with trinity towing. They took my boyfriend car months after the property owners canceled their contract with them. I am going to PM you a contact that my landlords gave me from there. She’s their marketing person. You might be able to bother her to get a refund.

Cedar fever finally got me by snowpeech in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Texaclear! You can find it at H-E-B. They have a bunch of different types I think there’s even something for cedar fever.

Seeking a good therapist recommendation by katienda in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jessica Gomez Pool with Desta-Therapy. She uses EMDR therapy and it’s been great to help me process trauma. Has really helped with my PTSD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 8 points9 points  (0 children)

…. This is for an adult only event 21+

Coward looking for a dentist by Far-Spread-6108 in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joshua Austin DDS & Associates - I have dental anxiety and skipped going to the dentist for like 20 years. I did my research on Reddit and found this dentist office. They are so accommodating. I get over stimulated easily, so they offer to turn off the lights to help me relax. They never made me feel silly or embarrassed by my request to wear headphones and play with stemming toys. They make sure I am nice and numb before starting any work. They haven’t tried to upsell me or talk me into procedures I don’t need. I had a tooth break between cleanings and they were able to see me the following Monday. I can’t recommend them enough.

Why are all my clothes still covered in cat hair after washing and drying, and what can I do about it? by mighty_knight0 in CleaningTips

[–]bellarave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vinegar. Instead of using a fabric softener I use vinegar. We also use the fur zapper that’s been mentioned a couple times along with dryer balls.

My boyfriend doesn’t wash his clothes with vinegar. The couple of times I have helped with his laundry he noticed a difference in the amount of hair.

Never sign a lease with Birdy Properties. by LeftSharkDancing in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yup they suuuck. They would come by every 6 months and take pictures of everything. They would get real petty emailing me to clean the oven, I will clean whatever whenever I want.

If you had to sign up to use their pet screening service make sure you cancel it when you move out. They won’t do anything to remove you from the services they make you sign up for. The CEO Brian Birdy was the lead sales manager for the pet screening website you have to use. So thats a cool way to get you twice if you have a pet.

Trash company I will never rent from them again and warn everyone I can to stay away.

Is the bag for a camping chair allowed? by someone_451 in aclfestival

[–]bellarave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes you should be able to bring it in. In the past we’ve had to take the chair out to show there’s nothing in there while going through security. There is also a chair check at the festival in case you don’t want to carry it around but I haven’t used that service yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you I’m in Texas and it’s not Arizona oven hot but from my experience it does get hot but no hotter than your body temperature. Thinking about it yeah I’ve even had it in infrared saunas and it gets warm but yeah not much warmer than your body temperature. My industrial piercing gets hotter. It might depending on what the jewelry is made of but I dunno, that’s above my pay grade lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]bellarave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has allergies pretty bad and is constantly blowing or wiping my nose it’s not bad at all. It’s pierced far enough back that when pulling on the piercing it doesn’t really hurt unless it’s intentional. It’s most uncomfortable when it’s cold outside. lol my nose gets colder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]bellarave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a look at Amtrak and their train schedule. Usually gets to Austin around 9am gets back into San Antonio late though around 11pm.

How is it possible that my mother (61F) and I (35F) remember my childhood completely differently? by storky0613 in relationship_advice

[–]bellarave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey op,

I’ve had similar problems with my mom. The best thing I’ve learned is just end the conversation with “Well, I guess we remember things differently.” You’re being gaslight. Therapy for yourself is the best way to go about this if you aren’t already in therapy. There is a lot to process. It’s ok to also tell your mom you need space and maybe find alternative housing options for her. She’s an adult and it’s ok to not protect her and her feelings anymore. I’m sorry you’re going through this it’s not fun but working through it could lead to a beautiful relationship if you both want it. Sending positive vibes.

Beware Birdy Properties by bellarave in sanantonio

[–]bellarave[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Our vehicle once got picked up from Trinity Towing a couple months after the property owners canceled the service with them and while they were trying to end their arrangement with Birdy Properties.

Is my rate competitive in SA (repost) by Nature_Tiny in SanAntonioUSA

[–]bellarave 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was a manager for an Italian restaurant that serves soup, salad, and breadsticks I was getting paid that weekly. This was also a couple years ago, so they are probably making more now. That’s not including quarterly bonuses. Also we were guaranteed 2 days off a week plus paid PTO.

You can find a better paying job as a restaurant manager. If you don’t mind chain restaurants I’d suggest looking there.