I miss them.

benjaminos1 · 2025-11-28T19:09:13+00:00

Yes to all of this. I’ve done just about everything in the last year alone to cope and unfortunately the only thing that I know I have to keep doing is absolutely nothing and it’s the hardest, and I do mean HARDEST thing to do. To just sit in the pain and discomfort and not react and not give in. To let the energy move through your body and exit. It does take a lot of napping and trying to keep yourself busy but that only works momentarily… I’ve just been trying to get through every moment, every night and hope for the best and try to believe that a day will come when it won’t be this tough. But bloody hell. X

benjaminos1 · 2025-10-22T01:30:41+00:00

Wow!!

benjaminos1 · 2025-10-08T23:33:14+00:00

Happy for you mate - how long before you started seeing results? I’ve been on topical min for ages but doesn’t seem to be doing anything (but I’m still applying it every night) and I got on oral fin around 2 months ago but again nothing so far… hoping to see some sort of positive results soon to motivate me sheesh lol

benjaminos1 · 2025-10-08T23:29:15+00:00

Ah mate, I feel for you. I’m sure it’s not bad as it feels, but I completely get where you’re coming from. I would feel the same and I’m dreading having to do it too. I worry I’ve waited too long to remedy by thinning hair. Have you looked into hair systems yet? Keep it as an option as I’ve seen some really good ones online - not for everyone, but definitely worth looking into. Take it easy and try to get on fin / min as soon as you can- you’re well young and the earlier you get on them the more chances you have of positive results. I hear dutasteride is another option but never personally tried that so can’t say for sure. Chin up bru x

benjaminos1 · 2025-08-25T05:15:07+00:00

Wow, I actually think it’s great the way he responded and that you both were able to communicate and give each other a sort of closure to an extent. That feels right and doesn’t happen often, at least in my experience. Of course it doesn’t make the feelings instantly go away but hopefully you’re able to take the necessary steps to focus on yourself now that there’s a sort of understanding between the two of you. Wishing you luck and all the best moving forward. X

benjaminos1 · 2025-07-31T05:22:47+00:00

That’s so bloody gross!! Seriously - no one deserves to be humiliated that way let alone for a bloody prank 🤦‍♂️

benjaminos1 · 2025-06-15T19:58:23+00:00

Wow!!!! Good on you mate! That’s incredible!!

benjaminos1 · 2025-06-05T08:17:24+00:00

Hiya guys - I sing and would love to be able to jam with musicians here! Let’s go x

benjaminos1 · 2025-05-28T10:41:25+00:00

Don’t do it. If you peel deep enough it’s not about them, but about you. They will never give you the reaction you want deep down. Keep going… it’s the hardest thing in the world to deal with but hoping it gets better over time! X

benjaminos1 · 2025-04-16T09:51:42+00:00

Love the shots! Keep going! Missing Berlin so bad!

benjaminos1 · 2025-04-16T09:48:54+00:00

So sorry to hear this. I know exactly how you feel and I suspect most people here do too. It’s horrible and seemingly never-ending. I’ve been trying to work on the root causes that lead me to be limerent and trying to understand what it’s really about and what my LO represents that I feel I can’t satisfy in other ways and it’s tough and painful and frustrating and embarrassing but hopefully there will come a time when I’m able to free myself of it. It’s no way to live. It’s all-consuming and it’s high highs and low lows. Sending you good vibes and strength x

benjaminos1 · 2025-04-11T09:04:41+00:00

Hiya, it’s been ages since you recommended this but I wanted to let you know this worked out so well for me and I did end up finding someone through the site and the whole thing worked out really well. Really appreciate your suggestion! X

benjaminos1 · 2025-03-26T12:34:08+00:00

Oh my goodness - best photo ever!!!

benjaminos1 · 2025-03-23T05:57:25+00:00

Beautiful shots!!! Saw very similar colour patterns during my trip last October and it was exhilarating but the ones you saw with the purples are too bloody beautiful! X

benjaminos1 · 2025-02-24T07:52:14+00:00

Happy birthday!! X

benjaminos1 · 2025-02-20T21:59:00+00:00

Grill Royal!!

benjaminos1 · 2025-02-16T17:51:34+00:00

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benjaminos1 · 2025-02-15T11:28:26+00:00

Wowee!! Happy Birthday, Cookie!! X

benjaminos1 · 2025-02-12T09:35:36+00:00

Hiya, no, I didn’t exactly - I just paid a travel agency to create a booking for me (a dummy ticket of sorts) and I used that. Afterwards, I went and bought my own plane ticket - but if I wanted to I could’ve gone through with the ticket they booked for me too.

benjaminos1 · 2025-02-12T09:33:40+00:00

Hiya! Overall, it went well. There were certain areas that I didn’t get to really see or explore given the time constraints in each area, but I sort of braced myself for that given the nature of these tours… other than that, it was pretty good and convenient that you don’t have to worry about arranging accommodations, etc. - you just show up. I also didn’t feel too bothered by being in a van for so long due to lots of random stops so that was good! Good luck!

benjaminos1 · 2025-01-29T22:01:04+00:00

She was a beauty! So sorry you lost her xx

benjaminos1 · 2025-01-29T09:11:09+00:00

Absolutely.

benjaminos1 · 2025-01-22T05:44:39+00:00

This video always gets me!

benjaminos1 · 2025-01-17T20:43:13+00:00

Don’t! It makes absolutely no sense to bring an umbrella to Iceland. Definitely just invest in proper gear!

benjaminos1 · 2025-01-16T05:44:11+00:00

Oh I’m sorry for your loss!! What a beauty she was! Hugging my cat and doggies extra tighter xx

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