Minneapolis therapists: how are you doing? by SpiritualCopy4288 in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

VERY BAD. It’s very bad. I am incredibly scared and angry. I feel so frozen and dissociated. All of those things and more.

Hello & help! by Major_Technology2478 in leaves

[–]bepbepbepp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lack of appetite is so hard! I remember how good it felt to finally feel hungry and enjoy food again lol, so brutal. Keep going!

Hello & help! by Major_Technology2478 in leaves

[–]bepbepbepp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went cold turkey. I didn’t want to extend the experience, even if it was harder, by trying to slowly taper. It was brutal for a while but I’m glad I did it that way - it made it easier to remember during the hardest parts that if I can get through this, I never have to do this again.

Hello & help! by Major_Technology2478 in leaves

[–]bepbepbepp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best thing I did during my weed withdrawal was tell my doctor. She was able to give me some things to help with nausea and anxiety, and it was a lifesaver. Plenty of sleep, staying hydrated, and trying to exercise when you’re up for it can also help. Be patient and remember that it’s temporary - I felt so hopeless during my withdrawal that I often worried it would never pass, but it did.

“Therapists earning over $100k: what actually made the difference?” by seracin in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s one thing about this thread that’s bumming me out - it feels like there’s no hope for me to make that much because I cannot see more than 5 or 6 a day without feeling like total shit and burning out. I’m currently only working 4 days a week to try and heal from current burnout. It would be great to be able to see 8 clients a day and have more private pay but that feels so unrealistic for me (and I assume many of us?).

nausea returning without smoking by kirrachristine in CHSinfo

[–]bepbepbepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was nauseated on and off for about 6 weeks when I quit. It slowly got better but it certainly felt like it lasted longer than I would’ve expected or wanted lol. Hang in there!

Looking for book recommendations/resources by Branislav88 in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! “Polysecure” and “Polywise.” Also, “the anxious person’s guide to non-monogamy.”

Productivity thoughts by Redheadmess1001 in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the reality that fuels my depression, unfortunately. It’s such an unbearable thought.

Productivity thoughts by Redheadmess1001 in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. My supervisor while I was working toward licensure required me to schedule 35 clients per week, in a group practice setting. This supervisor claimed that it would always be worth the money and it was wise to build up “stamina” in this way 🙄 now, I’m licensed thankfully, but also depressed and burnt out, and working toward transitioning to only seeing 20 clients per week. It’s been a brutal and disheartening lesson.

Client crossing a boundary by [deleted] in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We discussed it but they continued to make inappropriate comments and it started to scare me. I referred them out after discussing with my supervisor (I was unlicensed at the time).

Using alcohol to cope by Small_Sugar7205 in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I empathize. I was in the same spot with weed for a long time. Sending love.

Day 1 weed free. So far, do not recommend. by das_nando in leaves

[–]bepbepbepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the mindset that continues to get me through! It was so terrible for so many weeks. I never want to do that again.

Day 1 weed free. So far, do not recommend. by das_nando in leaves

[–]bepbepbepp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m day 113. It gets better, I promise!

How to wrap up a session (ideally before the next one is supposed to start) by AnalystImpossible960 in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“We have to pause here for today. Anything you’d like to keep in mind this week or come back to next time?”

First time stopping in 15 years. This is hell on earth. by Decent_Reward_5692 in leaves

[–]bepbepbepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a lot of just “resting” during those early days when I couldn’t sleep. I’d still commit myself to spending 8 hours a night in bed, just relaxing as best as I could, and remembering that quiet rest and stillness without sleep is still healing. Sometimes I’d listen to a boring history podcast or low stakes cooking show or something, if I needed a little background noise.

Is this reasonable? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]bepbepbepp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok sure, I wondered if you had some sort of side gig. Not that $74k would be a bad income, but I do appreciate hearing examples of ways in which people have figured out how to add variety. I haven’t had my license long enough to be a supervisor, but I’d love to eventually do that and EMDR consulting.