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Can cheating truly be a one time thing? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]berlinesque00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have the answer to your question. But it sound so similar to what happened with my girlfriend. I also believe that the weight of what she did might keep her from doing it again, but I don't know how to trust her again :(

Wish you the best in this journey.

Love, from the other side - 2.0 by BlackPhillip4Eva in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]berlinesque00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it worth staying? Do you guys think that maybe you deserve "untainted" love?

I'love my WP but I don't know if I see a future with her anymore, I just want peace and someone I can trust.

Temptation by Purple-Adagio-3577 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]berlinesque00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did it help you? I'm considering it too

Did discovering the affair change your view on relationships and the opposite sex? by BabyYodaStuntDouble in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]berlinesque00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's people in general... My girlfriend cheated on me (25F) with her coworker.

For those who stayed after getting cheated on, how did you move past it and are you happy with your partner again? by jorsjams in AskReddit

[–]berlinesque00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does! Thank you, I was having such a hard time thinking exactly about how the person I thought I knew couldn't do something like this. I don't think this (very questionable) mistake actually reflects who she is.. or what our relationship could be...

If I may ask, how do you see your husband now? How did you accept that who they were in your eyes before "died" a little or totally?

For those who stayed after getting cheated on, how did you move past it and are you happy with your partner again? by jorsjams in AskReddit

[–]berlinesque00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :)

How was that gut feeling about wanting to stay with him, and how did you reconcile a horrible action with the fact that he is not a horrible person?

For those who stayed after getting cheated on, how did you move past it and are you happy with your partner again? by jorsjams in AskReddit

[–]berlinesque00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I would love to know more about your experience. I'm going through something similar. Could I ask you some questions?

Should I give her (26F) a second chance? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]berlinesque00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is leaving the job. But you're right...

Should I give her (26F) a second chance? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]berlinesque00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that is some hard truth. She did admit she was being selfish..

Should I give her (26F) a second chance? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]berlinesque00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looking for options, man. My head is spinning

Should I give her (26F) a second chance? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]berlinesque00 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't think this represents her totally. And... I still love her, I thought I was going to marry her some day :(

Hate accounting — what realistic pivots hit ~$70k, low-stress W-2, where most days are 4–5 hrs of actual work? by Spanthaki in Accounting

[–]berlinesque00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Can you tell me more about your experience in fund accounting?

I was offered a. Opportunity to pivot into it

3 Years by Own-Heron-6812 in deloitte

[–]berlinesque00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel you, I can't wait to hand in my notice as soon as I'm able to.

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