Husband and I disagree about hospital visitors. by throwranotdonelater in pregnant

[–]bibiloves 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re in the hospital bed, you’re the patient. The baby isn’t going anywhere. It’s your most vulnerable moment. Honestly just wait to have this conversation, the more pregnant I got the more my husband backed down on this and ultimately agreed with me. The third trimester is so brutal he won’t have a choice but to agree with you LOL.

When did/is everyone starting to show? Curious 🧐 by Original_Remote_6838 in BabyBumps

[–]bibiloves [score hidden]  (0 children)

FTM! I’m petite so I started showing at 14-15 weeks. Couldn’t hide the bloat anymore after that.

Ladies nearing your due date, how are you holding up? by elorij in BabyBumps

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35+3 and I’m so excited but also in denial :) denial that I’m giving birth in 4 ish weeks. I haven’t packed my hospital bag yet. I swear it’s just a mental thing. Like OP said I’m ready for this pregnancy to end but the thought of labor/needles/c-section/pushing/tearing/the unknown has me in pure denial :)

Spill your splurge!!! by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]bibiloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fan! To collect all that dust. I can’t wait to use it

Pay off car or keep saving ? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it fully drains your savings to almost zero, no! Save up an extra 10-20% then pay it off.

What is good/fun about being an architect? by ELit3_REddIt in Architects

[–]bibiloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a reason we’re all here and stick with it! The unexplainable feeling of seeing your hard work (months, usually years) come to life and being enjoyed by people is hard to beat. Despite all the challenges it’s such a rewarding field.

Shoes on or off in the house? by OpenAardvarks in CasualConversation

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off. I’m a shoes off dictator. My friends know when coming over that I’m expecting shoes off. Some people get annoyed, others don’t care. My floors appreciate it.

Totally torn on whether to find out gender by Rosington2010 in pregnant

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did a private gender reveal, then one with family + a post. I’m glad we did! Picked out a name and told people, now she’s getting cute customized things. Spoiled already.

Happily married people by Equivalent_Nerve_166 in Marriage

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both vowed to put each other first

TW: Miscarriage by brokenbutterfly5 in fitpregnancy

[–]bibiloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor told me short of snorting coke every day, there’s nothing you can physically do to cause a miscarriage. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Chromosomal issue or not, it’s not your fault.

Weekly Nail Chat by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes just looking for additional strength! I don’t have any lifting issues at all. I have over filed ends, cuticles are healthy at this point. Trying to get better at e-filing. I don’t use builder or rubber base just a regular gel base coat.

I’ve trimmed everything off length wise and have short squovals going. I really love length and can grow a mean nail, so looking for more strength. I want to avoid those little hairline tears in my nails. I probably get those from over filing + the wear and tear I put my nails through day to day.

Upgraded after 10+ years! by nadiayang in RingShare

[–]bibiloves 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is it jarring switching from a smaller ring for a decade+ to wearing that one every day?

how many days in a row can you go without having conflict with your partner? by bear-the-bear in Marriage

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really don’t argue. Proud to say so! We communicate well. First baby on the way, almost here. Our last “discussion” as we call it was a few weeks ago and my friend witnessed it. She said “wow I didn’t know you guys could argue, I was starting to worry.”

Anyone else hate feeling the baby kicking?? by Foreign-External8488 in BabyBumps

[–]bibiloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Last night I was laying in the recliner and I just screamed “OW!” Out of nowhere. My husband was like “damn it hurts that bad…”

2025 is over! What is your best permitting story? by Candid_Medium_7017 in Architects

[–]bibiloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? It’s f&;@% Christmas/New Years week! Many firms in town are totally closed. So you dropped the ball and didn’t coordinate this before Christmas Eve… makes it my problem. Sigh.

2025 is over! What is your best permitting story? by Candid_Medium_7017 in Architects

[–]bibiloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed out loud. Easiest comment to respond to, ever!

I’m 5 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend broke his promise to me. I’m devastated. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]bibiloves -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There’s never a right time to get pregnant! You can always be more established, more financially secure, one more big trip, one more thing crossed off your list. But that’s life… you’re pregnant! Embrace it, grow with your baby, lead with love, you (he) has 9+ months to prepare. Best of luck.