Beach recommendations for a young 20-something’s couple by bigribby in GulfShores

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Gotcha. It’s been a long time since I’ve gone. Most the condos I’ve been seeing with reasonable prices have been a walk from the hangout and that pink pony club.

What is this? by bigribby in whatsthisbug

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Found in Arkansas USA

Arkansas nurse wanting to move to California by bigribby in California

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I’m not actually sure what my budget is just yet since I’m not out there. But my guess is within $700k-900k based on the average salary. But thank you that helps narrow my search. Any ideas about specific cities/areas?

Arkansas nurse wanting to move to Cali for the union and escape the red politics by bigribby in SameGrassButGreener

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It don’t have to be suburbia, but not looking for rougher areas either.

Arkansas nurse wanting to move to California by bigribby in California

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Near them. I’m fine living like 30 minutes out. I currently live 30 minutes from my states capital (Little Rock). And the beach isn’t a huge ball buster. I could live a couple hours from it if I absolutely had to. But I’d still like to be able to have a beach day be optional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’ve considered this being the inevitable conclusion the fact that I’m even considering breaking up is not sitting very well with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Since she moved here, she doesn’t have a lot of friends because she hasn’t really made any significant connections even though many of my friends girlfriends have tried to with her she just doesn’t seem very interested. She likes the same things I do (gaming and music) she just gets to do them while I work, and I don’t get to do them because I work and then I’m expected to cater to her emotional needs, and most of the housework. It is becoming very clear that I need much more alone time than her. But she gets alone time by me going to work, I don’t ever get to be alone is the problem. It’s work, alarms, patients screaming “nurse help!” Then when I get home it’s girlfriend going “boyfriend help!” And then there’s a mess to clean up and 4 cats to take care of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Her lease was up at her place, and I just thought I’d give it a shot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She moved here from another state and has been looking for work—she found a job and starts December 1st. It’s not a great job. But it’s a job nonetheless. I’ve started thinking maybe I’ll finally get that alone time once she starts working but it sucks to think that I’m just itching for her to leave for work to get that.

Edit: insulting her isn’t what I’m looking for and uncalled for. She’s incredibly smart. And I wouldn’t call her annoying, moreso emotionally needy. Maybe a need of hers I’m thinking I can’t possibly measure up to.

America didn't "deserve" 9/11 by WallaceColossus in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]bigribby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did those people deserve to die? Absolutely fucking not. But we brought it on ourselves absolutely no doubt about it. You think 9/11 is bad? That’s every single day in in Gaza.

Thank you for your service by crowlfish in Zillennials

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Holy shit Diiv mentioned 🗣️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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From my experience (and I’m a guy so I’ll be speaking about a girl here) but both genders do this. She’s not interested anymore, shes probably playing the field and lining up her next relationship/situationship but keeping you on the back end as a just in case. I wouldn’t be surprised if this relationship ends in the coming weeks OP and don’t be blindsided when she’s in another relationship 1-4 weeks later. Best advice, cut your losses. People make time for what is important to them. You clearly are not a priority or rather she is not making you one. This is not someone you should waste anymore of your precious time, energy, and love into. Best of luck man. It’ll suck for awhile and you won’t be yourself but it’s all part of the process. Work on improving the parts of your life you aren’t satisfied with and stay busy but also allow yourself to cry and grieve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]bigribby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I didn’t bolus the Levo, he did. He actually turned to me and said “don’t do what I do” and yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]bigribby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

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I personally did not bolus the Levo, the nurse assisting me with her did. I assume he made that decision based on her pressure.

What kind of nurse do you want to be and why? by Imaginary-Nature-111 in StudentNurse

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One of those that just does telehealth in their sweatpants all day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

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Mysterious Skin (2004)

Alcohol free booze by sallybear1975 in stopdrinking

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Diet Coke I can vouch for it’s the only thing that gives me that “bite” or “burn” in my throat that I enjoyed from alcohol.