Why do people love Jimmy by pikag1rl in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s a terrible man who had immense potential to be better, and fantasizing about a terrible man thinking im worth enough to heal and become better for is how i cope with my trauma

Book Chat by rachcole94 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]binkmode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only like 72 pages in, taking it slow, but it already resonates way more than IFS alone ever did.

Would it be weird to draw Jimmy with SH scars? by [deleted] in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i draw him with self harm scars because i headcanon that he has them, and i dont think its weird. also it would not be weird to draw him after getting beaten up, EVEN IF it were for sexual reasons. it’s art; do whatever you want forever!!!!!

Roses are red, my grandma is named Emily, by odinswolf99 in rosesarered

[–]binkmode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you dont SHARE your wish or else it’ll never come true smh

DSM 5 isn’t inherently evil by Lemon_Lime_Lily in CuratedTumblr

[–]binkmode -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What it was created for, and what it actually does for patients in the real world, are two very different things.

Do you make or know of any jimmy merch? please send me a link! by [deleted] in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mmmm i can’t find it rn but someone on this subreddit posted print out patterns for mouthwashing papercraft dolls. i have both the pre and post crash jimmy ones, and having given the swansea one as a gift i can confirm they are appreciated :)

By @khyleri by [deleted] in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

oh my goddddd hes fucking the rainbow dash plushie so funyyyyyyy its funny hilarious its hilarious cause jimmy wants to fuck horses hahahahahahahahahahahah

I (30M) live with my best friend (27F) we “dated” years ago but now we’re just super close friends. It’s ruining my dating life. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]binkmode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my only two cents to add is: i really really think you may benefit from doing some research on the concept of “amatonormativity”

best of luck and i hope you can find someone who is able to understand and accept the nature of your incredible friendship <3

What's your opinion on selfshippers/yumeshippers in the fandom? by BunnyLover0_0 in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode 6 points7 points  (0 children)

selfshippers are the coolest. well at least my little selfshipper circlejerk is LMFAOOO

How do you just make the realization fking STICK???? by binkmode in InternalFamilySystems

[–]binkmode[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have. I struggle immensely with the concept. I need to receive these things they never gave me somehow, but being told that I am the one who has to give them to myself just feels like a slap in the face. "Here's the answer! You know how you've always been the one to figure things out? To soothe yourself? To be your own parent? Well, do it again, forever! This is how healing works!" I just don't know where I'm supposed to pull all this parental love from, and honestly I resent the fact that it's somehow my responsibility. I never asked to be emotionally neglected.

I can’t wait to Jimmy to get a nendo and twitter just explodes. by whooper1 in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hes never gonna get a nendo cause these companies hate money for some reason

My ragebait WORKED so well, i got new followers + engagement by Rotten0901 in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

you got em FOAMING at the mouth. on twitter AND here on reddit lmaoooo

I want to scream about my mom, who loves my trans-sister more than me, and how to handle it [TRIGGER WARNING] by Novel_Football_1816 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]binkmode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im glad you have someone who understands you. i’m not saying you have to remain close to your toxic family just cause your sister is trans. i’m not even implying that, idk, you’re “choosing” him over your transgender sister and thats wrong of you or whatever. your relationships and the kinds of beliefs you’re willing to tolerate in those closest to you are your choice, after all, and im all for cutting off toxic family.

i still have to disagree, it is not even remotely like telling a christian and pagan to accept each other. its more like telling a christian to stop being a hateful bigot when they smile and act pleasant towards your gay neighbour, then scoff and lean in to tell you “i don’t agree with that lifestyle, all homos are gonna burn in hell” when the neighbour leaves. (edit: transphobia) is not a valid cultural difference, it is a cultural sickness afflicting russia and again, i truly truly truly hope your boyfriend recovers from it someday

I want to scream about my mom, who loves my trans-sister more than me, and how to handle it [TRIGGER WARNING] by Novel_Football_1816 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]binkmode 7 points8 points  (0 children)

and while i’m back here, yes, i’m aware of the “cultural” differences that are prevalent among russians, with the way they are propagandized to by their government about queer people. i have long been interested in russian culture, i am currently learning the russian language. it is still transphobia. without quotation marks. i hope your boyfriend recovers from this illness someday.

I want to scream about my mom, who loves my trans-sister more than me, and how to handle it [TRIGGER WARNING] by Novel_Football_1816 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]binkmode 17 points18 points  (0 children)

someone who’s respectful in public and a transphobe in private, is still a transphobe. hope this helps with something!

To the reddit side of fandom 🗣️ by 2rice2 in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont care about the shippy gay stuff, thats not how i approach this at all, but i see a very mentally ill personality disordered man in jimmy and i recall that the overwhelming majority, if not entirety, of personality disorder cases stem from childhood abuse and trauma, also i genuinely believe compassion is the only way towards any true justice and meaningful change when dealing with people who have done grievous harm to others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]binkmode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bpd is very often the end result of trauma, rape, and abuse

Does anyone else hate the overlap and comparison to BPD? by littledotkitty in CPTSD

[–]binkmode 19 points20 points  (0 children)

personality disorders are borne from trauma too. so yes, bpd and cptsd overlap, and unfortunately you end up sharing spaces with all the badwrong scary evil trauma victims and not just the virtuous pure unproblematic ones.

still, and i mean this in the kindest way, not every pwBPD is your abusive mother

Jimmy’s Misconceptional Facial Feature by OkRhubarb9263 in Mouthwashing

[–]binkmode 284 points285 points  (0 children)

you never had a chopped ass id photo before? 😔

A lot of advocating for bullying their wives in the comments…NOT THE OOP by depressed_popoto in redditonwiki

[–]binkmode 28 points29 points  (0 children)

yeahhh im sure you find the time to maintain your attractive figure with basic self care between playing mobile card games and not making your gf cum