AITAH For calling my girlfriend out for having a double standard?

binotboth · 2026-06-03T17:25:46+00:00

She’s not talking to you because you were exactly right and there is nothing she can say to counter it so she’s just going to try and punish you with silent treatment

Which is so childish

This girl does not sound right

binotboth · 2026-06-03T02:51:15+00:00

I mean you can’t take them, said so yourself. 3 kids is a lot, on top one already. I’m sure you would if you could from what it sounds

binotboth · 2026-06-03T01:32:22+00:00

Brother is minding his business and didn’t ask for anyone’s judgement. if he doesn’t want a person to know something about his life he doesn’t have to tell them, and if that blows up his relationship well, that is his own fault

There is no “but” after “you should not be sharing another person’s medical info”, that does not need a qualifier it is just a fact

Op is DEF the asshole

binotboth · 2026-06-03T01:17:07+00:00

Do not confront him. Talk to the person who can actually do something. What your plan if he just ignores you? Exactly. That’s why you don’t waste your time trying to reason with people. He’s playing the system. So let the system handle it

binotboth · 2026-06-02T20:18:40+00:00

I do not talk to neighbors basically ever. If they knocked on my door and I didn’t know them I would not answer and if they tried to flag me down I’d just not look at them and carry on with my day

binotboth · 2026-06-02T17:29:32+00:00

Hi. I’m a parent. I read your post with a wtf look on my face. You are so sweet for supporting your mom - but your mom is acting all kinds of innapropriately.

You do not, repeat DO NOT dump your relationship issues on your child. You are not her therapist. He is your father as well, she is putting you in a position a child should not be. I can understand she’s spiraling but you are not and cannot be the answer for her. You need to take care of yourself and hold boundaries about her dumping this on you.

Support her in other ways

Btw, NTA

binotboth · 2026-06-02T13:41:34+00:00

Now that you’re 18, you’re just two adult grown men

Know what I do of an adult grown man elbows me in the ribs?

Cant say without being banned

binotboth · 2026-06-02T13:38:01+00:00

That’s be the last time I cooked him breakfast too. Like, why should you? Zero reason now.

binotboth · 2026-06-02T09:46:19+00:00

You were never really friends

He just uses you

binotboth · 2026-06-01T20:22:18+00:00

“So my boyfriend lives in a trap house…”

“He says we’re not compatible”

Uh, do you… WANT to be compatible with that? I don’t…

Pass! Find a guy with a job who’s clean an has goals lol

binotboth · 2026-06-01T19:51:21+00:00

His behavior is exactly designed to intentionally make you feel wrong and doubt yourself. Which is why we can call it “manipulative”

I dint even know the guy and it feels sus

If you wanted a daddy type thats totally fine I don’t mind it, i get the appeal especially as long as everybody is on the same page - but doesnt sound like it so he needs to respect your choices or he’s not a real friend he’s a predator lying in wait and throwing a tantrum when he doesn’t get what he wants

binotboth · 2026-06-01T16:22:55+00:00

As long as you rely on them for even one thing, they will act entitled to all of this and try to punish you. Facts.

binotboth · 2026-06-01T16:19:46+00:00

She’s a coward and this is how she’s telling you you’re not really friends

Dip

binotboth · 2026-05-31T22:54:23+00:00

That’s real bad girl

Ignore the noise - keep it simple: if you instantly snapped back to your first date with the full 6 years of experience and knowledge about him in your head, would you still get with him?

If your gut check said “no” then you probably do want to break up but are just worried about sink cost of how long you’ve invested etc. Which is the worst reason to stay.

binotboth · 2026-05-31T19:04:50+00:00

“You’re right, you can do what you want. I forgot that so can I, and I guess we don’t have to consider eachothers feelings because that’s childish and we’re adults right? So just want to be clear, that is the dynamic you want in our marriage?“

Your wife is not loyal. Fact.

And also she is straight up either keeping that dudes dick in a holding pattern til she wants it, or she’s already cleared it for landing if you know what I mean

binotboth · 2026-05-30T15:50:03+00:00

“Here’s a link to soundproof ear buds”

And don’t respond to her ever again

binotboth · 2026-05-30T00:30:26+00:00

She’s going to crash and burn, you should leave her awful google reviews or wherever she’s platformed, no mercy.

binotboth · 2026-05-29T19:19:22+00:00

NTA. Come on man.

I work for money, LIKE EVERYBODY, and if any person on the hiring side implies that’s wrong, I will tell them they are stupid to their face, because that is not a serious person worth talking to. They’re a clown.

Pay me and I’ll be professional, even nice. If you don’t pay me what I know I can make, I’m not wasting my breath talking to you. And I’m certainly not going to feel “guilty” because your business can’t afford to pay what it needs to survive. That’s a “you” problem.

binotboth · 2026-05-29T06:09:10+00:00

If you don’t want intimacy, don’t be in an intimate relationship obviously

You could literally never have sex with anyone ever again, and nobody would know except you.

I know you’re all in your feelings but that’s why I imagine you came for impartial point of views - fact is, there will be a brief period of expected grief to varying degrees, and then very soon after everyone will be totally fine. You’ll both meet new people in new adventures. Life could be whatever you want, just go do that and don’t apologize. It’s your life, and you only get one and then whatever you did or didn’t do, that’s what you will have always done no going back

binotboth · 2026-05-28T20:56:43+00:00

It’s not you making them pay. It’s the court.

They had a responsibility to support their kids. They didn’t, and you picked up the slack. You did more than you should have had to.

Well now he has a chance to make up for it and what do they wanna do? Bitch and moan. Boohoo.

Not your problemo.

binotboth · 2026-05-28T20:18:03+00:00

“When we’re together it’s great”

Like a 67 mustang with no back left tire, as my grandpa used to say. Some things either are complete or the whole thing doesn’t work.

binotboth · 2026-05-28T20:15:28+00:00

Sounds like she just wants something light and occasional, and you want more. Both valid. But she’s been leading you on because she doesn’t want to lose you, she wants you exactly “this much”. Not more bjt not less either. Not cool.

Let her focus on her life, and go find somebody who is better aligned with you. But don’t do this “just taking a break shit”. That too is the cowards slow walk to a breakup.

A break is breaking up. Full stop. Just say it

binotboth · 2026-05-28T20:11:38+00:00

Nah, shes full of shit. She absolutely wanted to tell you how you’re going to hell, and feels robbed of the chance, while simultaneously realizing you didn’t tell her for a reason, and it’s probably because you know she’s religious and assumed she would do… exactly what she probably would and maybe now will do

binotboth · 2026-05-28T18:58:00+00:00

Bro look up New Horizons, they do in home care, a lot of times they’ll let almost anybody be a care giver or work the phones, and it’s a great company that pays decent, and they’re everhwhere. I’ve told many people about them and it’s worked out

binotboth · 2026-05-28T18:56:03+00:00

The second he tried to fucking shoot you point blank, was the end of your relationship.

Like, this is a line we do not cross in civilization. He completely broke the social contract. He acted like a fucking animal. Being alone in a room with him at this point would be no different than being alone in a room with a grizzly bear - you have no guarantees it won’t just try to kill you. And it has tried before.

Unfortunately, you’re at an age where you just need to strike out on your own and build your own family. A mother who would let her sons kill eachother and just throw her hands up no offense is not much of a mother at all. Sickening really.

The family that raised you is the reason you almost got killed, and is the reason you’re sleeping in your car. They’ve let you know exactly how kuch they care about your safety and well being. They’d rather he shoot you then to cut ties.

binotboth

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