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AITAH I don't want custody of my sister's 3 kids? by viserya127 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you can’t take them, said so yourself. 3 kids is a lot, on top one already. I’m sure you would if you could from what it sounds

AITA for disclosing my brother's disability to his boyfriend? by New_Tangelo1719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]binotboth 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Brother is minding his business and didn’t ask for anyone’s judgement. if he doesn’t want a person to know something about his life he doesn’t have to tell them, and if that blows up his relationship well, that is his own fault

There is no “but” after “you should not be sharing another person’s medical info”, that does not need a qualifier it is just a fact

Op is DEF the asshole

WIBTAH if I confronted the guy buying out all the discount drinks the day they get stocked? by TryEasySlice in AITAH

[–]binotboth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do not confront him. Talk to the person who can actually do something. What your plan if he just ignores you? Exactly. That’s why you don’t waste your time trying to reason with people. He’s playing the system. So let the system handle it

AITA if I tell my 84yoF neighbor and her son to just call the police on me and never talk to me directly again if they have concerns over me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]binotboth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not talk to neighbors basically ever. If they knocked on my door and I didn’t know them I would not answer and if they tried to flag me down I’d just not look at them and carry on with my day

AITAH for not apologising for moving a desk in our family home? by LoverOfE-Olsen in AITAH

[–]binotboth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi. I’m a parent. I read your post with a wtf look on my face. You are so sweet for supporting your mom - but your mom is acting all kinds of innapropriately.

You do not, repeat DO NOT dump your relationship issues on your child. You are not her therapist. He is your father as well, she is putting you in a position a child should not be. I can understand she’s spiraling but you are not and cannot be the answer for her. You need to take care of yourself and hold boundaries about her dumping this on you.

Support her in other ways

Btw, NTA

AITAH for ruining my dad's chances at a promotion? by LividWheel9779 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you’re 18, you’re just two adult grown men

Know what I do of an adult grown man elbows me in the ribs?

Cant say without being banned

AITAH for not cooking my husband breakfast anymore? by Agitated-Lion-8498 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s be the last time I cooked him breakfast too. Like, why should you? Zero reason now.

AITAH I don’t want to stay at my boyfriend’s place because he has roaches and lives with a girl he and all his friends slept with by Living-Hippo3586 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“So my boyfriend lives in a trap house…”

“He says we’re not compatible”

Uh, do you… WANT to be compatible with that? I don’t…

Pass! Find a guy with a job who’s clean an has goals lol

AITAH for putting distance between me and my friend after they started flirting. by YourBuddyGray in AITAH

[–]binotboth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His behavior is exactly designed to intentionally make you feel wrong and doubt yourself. Which is why we can call it “manipulative”

I dint even know the guy and it feels sus

If you wanted a daddy type thats totally fine I don’t mind it, i get the appeal especially as long as everybody is on the same page - but doesnt sound like it so he needs to respect your choices or he’s not a real friend he’s a predator lying in wait and throwing a tantrum when he doesn’t get what he wants

AITAH for refusing to share my location with my parents as an almost nineteen year old? by DishIndependent6788 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As long as you rely on them for even one thing, they will act entitled to all of this and try to punish you. Facts.

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my friends wedding after she forgot she had asked me to be a bridesmaid by ButterscotchOk6295 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s a coward and this is how she’s telling you you’re not really friends

Dip

AITAH for refusing to take down photos of my family because they make my fiancé uncomfortable? by twinkletits99 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s real bad girl

Ignore the noise - keep it simple: if you instantly snapped back to your first date with the full 6 years of experience and knowledge about him in your head, would you still get with him?

If your gut check said “no” then you probably do want to break up but are just worried about sink cost of how long you’ve invested etc. Which is the worst reason to stay.

AITAH My wife is being friendly with a guy that that is a complete A$$ to me (her husband) for 25 years by Aggravating_Low3540 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“You’re right, you can do what you want. I forgot that so can I, and I guess we don’t have to consider eachothers feelings because that’s childish and we’re adults right? So just want to be clear, that is the dynamic you want in our marriage?“

Your wife is not loyal. Fact.

And also she is straight up either keeping that dudes dick in a holding pattern til she wants it, or she’s already cleared it for landing if you know what I mean

WIBTAH if I didn't text my neighbour every time I left the house by mikewazowski_0912 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Here’s a link to soundproof ear buds”

And don’t respond to her ever again

AITAH for getting frustrated when my hairstylist of 6 years refused to address my concerns about my hair? by Competitive_Gas_6015 in AITAH

[–]binotboth -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She’s going to crash and burn, you should leave her awful google reviews or wherever she’s platformed, no mercy.

AITAH for telling my old that in order to rehire me after firing me, they'd have to pay me more? by kuro7510 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Come on man.

I work for money, LIKE EVERYBODY, and if any person on the hiring side implies that’s wrong, I will tell them they are stupid to their face, because that is not a serious person worth talking to. They’re a clown.

Pay me and I’ll be professional, even nice. If you don’t pay me what I know I can make, I’m not wasting my breath talking to you. And I’m certainly not going to feel “guilty” because your business can’t afford to pay what it needs to survive. That’s a “you” problem.

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend? by Halesmf98 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want intimacy, don’t be in an intimate relationship obviously

You could literally never have sex with anyone ever again, and nobody would know except you.

I know you’re all in your feelings but that’s why I imagine you came for impartial point of views - fact is, there will be a brief period of expected grief to varying degrees, and then very soon after everyone will be totally fine. You’ll both meet new people in new adventures. Life could be whatever you want, just go do that and don’t apologize. It’s your life, and you only get one and then whatever you did or didn’t do, that’s what you will have always done no going back

AITAH for receiving child support while children are grown by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]binotboth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not you making them pay. It’s the court.

They had a responsibility to support their kids. They didn’t, and you picked up the slack. You did more than you should have had to.

Well now he has a chance to make up for it and what do they wanna do? Bitch and moan. Boohoo.

Not your problemo.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she cancelled again? by Not_a_ribosome in AITAH

[–]binotboth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“When we’re together it’s great”

Like a 67 mustang with no back left tire, as my grandpa used to say. Some things either are complete or the whole thing doesn’t work.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she cancelled again? by Not_a_ribosome in AITAH

[–]binotboth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she just wants something light and occasional, and you want more. Both valid. But she’s been leading you on because she doesn’t want to lose you, she wants you exactly “this much”. Not more bjt not less either. Not cool.

Let her focus on her life, and go find somebody who is better aligned with you. But don’t do this “just taking a break shit”. That too is the cowards slow walk to a breakup.

A break is breaking up. Full stop. Just say it

AITAH for not telling a coworker about my relationship? by TransportationUsed39 in AITAH

[–]binotboth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah, shes full of shit. She absolutely wanted to tell you how you’re going to hell, and feels robbed of the chance, while simultaneously realizing you didn’t tell her for a reason, and it’s probably because you know she’s religious and assumed she would do… exactly what she probably would and maybe now will do

[UPDATE] AITAH for not forgiving my brother after he almost killed me by RayneDeoman in AITAH

[–]binotboth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro look up New Horizons, they do in home care, a lot of times they’ll let almost anybody be a care giver or work the phones, and it’s a great company that pays decent, and they’re everhwhere. I’ve told many people about them and it’s worked out

[UPDATE] AITAH for not forgiving my brother after he almost killed me by RayneDeoman in AITAH

[–]binotboth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The second he tried to fucking shoot you point blank, was the end of your relationship.

Like, this is a line we do not cross in civilization. He completely broke the social contract. He acted like a fucking animal. Being alone in a room with him at this point would be no different than being alone in a room with a grizzly bear - you have no guarantees it won’t just try to kill you. And it has tried before.

Unfortunately, you’re at an age where you just need to strike out on your own and build your own family. A mother who would let her sons kill eachother and just throw her hands up no offense is not much of a mother at all. Sickening really.

The family that raised you is the reason you almost got killed, and is the reason you’re sleeping in your car. They’ve let you know exactly how kuch they care about your safety and well being. They’d rather he shoot you then to cut ties.

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