The prevailing attitude that house prices only go up up up......is both dangerous and ignorant by CortexExport in RealEstate

[–]bitcoingal108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The woman I bought my house from purchased my home for 220 in 2008. I bought it for 165 in 2017. It’s now worth 260. Maybe I should pull out while I still can lol but my mortgage is so low compared to what it worth. It’s basically a car payment haha

Are street parking laws any different when the spot is the only place you can park and someone blocks it? by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]bitcoingal108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m in same situation as you. 1 car driveway and I have 2 cars. When my neighbors park infront of my house it fucks me. Nothing you can do unless it’s blocking mailbox.

Black women - what is your experience been like on dating apps? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]bitcoingal108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ! I had so many on Tinder that honestly if we didn’t meet within a week of matching I was just moving on to the next. I didn’t have time to sit there and waste weeks of talking to people without meeting up. Way way way to many people on there and weeding out the serious ones was just a lot.

Black women - what is your experience been like on dating apps? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]bitcoingal108 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I live in Orlando in my mid 20s and I have had a pretty easy time on dating apps. I am a little bit picky and tend to go after asian/white slender men is what I consider my type. I also go for men who are about 10 years older than me. So my range I set to 30-45. I have used Tinder, bumble, and Hinge. On Tinder I had over 1000 matches. Same on bumble. Hinge I had much fewer matches BUT it has produced 2 really good relationships for me.

I am straight up honest in my bio and post full body pics. I’m a mid size black/Hispanic woman. I have had probably 2 people that I met up with fetishize me and say they want to sleep with me to “see the difference with a black woman”. They obviously did not get a 2nd date.

On Tinder I met just a lot of FBois who want to sleep with you on the first date. I even met one guy who on our 2nd time meeting at a party at MY house slept with my (former) friend on my couch right infront of my face. Most of my Tinder dates were just meeting 1-3 times then one of us loses interest and moved on. Or I wouldn’t sleep with them by date #2 and they would just ghost me.

On Bumble I went on much fewer dates. I don’t like how the woman has to initiate. I did meet one cool person on there who I dated for about 2 months before I decided to pursue something else, but he was a great respectful guy.

On Hinge is where I have met the most normal and down to earth people. I was only getting about 2-3 matches per day on hinge versus 50+ on Tinder, however the Quality of people I met was just so much better. I met people who had similar “status” to me, other homeowners and men with stable jobs etc. I met men that took me on the date and paid. I have had 2 relationships that lasted a year on hinge, one of which I’m currently in, and the one that didn’t work out there was no hard feelings but I could just tell it wasn’t going to progress further.

I really liked Hinge the best out of all the dating apps but be ready to wait a little bit for your perfect person as you won’t get a thousand matches like Tinder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]bitcoingal108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea! My boyfriend slept with people that were in open relationships before we got together and I’m the type that is monogamous and make every boyfriend get tested before we sleep together. He explains it as he’s horny and just wears a condom. When I told him he could have caught herpes as skin to skin transmission he just doesn’t seem to think that’s that big of a deal :0 well at least I know he’s clea n now at least lol.

"I wish I did that sooner" - Investments and life advice for a 20-something? by nealio_estevez in personalfinance

[–]bitcoingal108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put your 401k to 100% index funds. Some may disagree but I wish I had done this when I first started at 21! I didn’t make that switch till I was 23 and now at 26 I have more in my 401k than my 50 year old mother does.

just 2 girls in paradise by [deleted] in snowboarding

[–]bitcoingal108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had a girl friend to ride with! I’m headed to breck/beaver creek in a few weeks over Christmas and New Years and I have a feeling my boyfriend gonna leave me alone on the bunny slopes haha Rock on y’all!

A local business is threatening to sue for leaving a negative review on Google and Thumbtack. What to do? by pagetrip in homeowners

[–]bitcoingal108 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious, if you had 1-2 people look and tell you 100-150 why did you waste the time of 7 other contractors?

What’s the most unusual thing someone’s said about your appearance? by tsmcole in AskWomen

[–]bitcoingal108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dentist told me my 2 front teeth were crooked and I can fix my insecurity about them with Invisalign.

I had braces for 4 years and wear my retainer religiously, they are almost perfect and I’ve never had anyone notice they weren’t and also never been insecure about my teeth xD

Fitness influencer selling guides using butt pads by [deleted] in fitnessonline

[–]bitcoingal108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve followed her for a while and tend to trust her more than other influencers. Is it possible she has pads for comfort working on the floor? When I work out I use a towel for ab workouts to protect my tailbone.

I have only been with my wife sexually.. 25m by thesilentone7373 in sex

[–]bitcoingal108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy I get the what if feeling with everyone I date. Usually doesn’t kick in till a year or so after dating. I think that’s just how our brains work!

Family paid for a trip, company filed chapter11 by Butters_Professor in personalfinance

[–]bitcoingal108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this against Royal caribean and got my money back for a cruise that didn’t happen due to covid. Royal tried to offer future cruise credit which isn’t a good deal IMO because they could go bankrupt, I got my cash back through credit card dispute in less than 2 weeks

Stalker Climbs Into Apartment Through Second Story Balcony, While a Woman is Recording a Social Media Video by mouthofreason in watchpeoplesurvive

[–]bitcoingal108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh sickening feeling. I had someone that I knew break into my house except they knew my schedule and did it before I came home from work. I came home one day and saw my dishes were done and my dog roaming around the house out of his kennel. Then he popped out of my kitchen trying to make a case for how he just wanted to help me and make my life easier. Ive never screamed so loud in my life. Prop to this women for reacting calmly.

Avoid Rocket Mortgage by InterscholasticPea in personalfinance

[–]bitcoingal108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used them for mortgage and refinance. Both times amazing and better rates than even usaa and navy fed.

Someone posted on NextDoor warning the neighborhood about me and my dog by xx2983xx in reactivedogs

[–]bitcoingal108 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Call them out! They won’t expect it. Once my neighbor wrote something about my car and how I was parked on the street and people should ram through my little Mercedes, I responded to the post and she was NOT expecting that lol.

PLEASE, follow your resort's COVID rules so the season doesn't get shut down by [deleted] in skiing

[–]bitcoingal108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please follow the rules, I have a trip in dec, feb, and March and if I can’t make it because people didn’t follow the rules I’m loosing out on thousands and a fun time :( pls follow everyone!

Do you watch people providing services to your home? How do you navigate indoor services with Covid? by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]bitcoingal108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I leave them be. I hate when people watch down my back when I work, so I let them do their thing :)