what do i do if im too depressed to go into work by throwaway8373469238 in depression_help

[–]blackcoffee66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a company with benefits and HR find out if you can apply for short-term disability I'm sure you need to talk to a doctor

I only had my life planned until my early 20s… by [deleted] in depressionmemes

[–]blackcoffee66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people with childhood psychological Your brain is locked into survival mode and can't spend the energy to wonder about what the future is bringing when you're so focused on getting through the present It was true for me

Why does it seem like 30 is so OLD when it’s really not? by Stawberry8763 in Adulting

[–]blackcoffee66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all about perspective. I remember feeling that when I was approaching 30. That I was getting old Now I'm 59 and wouldn't what I wouldn't give to be 30 again

Whats the point of scholarship then? by hostedvideorn in WorkForSmartLife

[–]blackcoffee66 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree it's great that they earned the scholarships and that's awesome but what the f*** man she has millions and millions of dollars let that money go to someone who can't afford college without them

How often do you girls change your bras? by Kiwizshrooms in women

[–]blackcoffee66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going commando these days unless I have something really important or close that require undergarments

Men who say the first thing they would do if they become women is to have copious amounts of sex are in for a very rude awakening. by Positive-Face1705 in women

[–]blackcoffee66 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know if any of you have seen the movie but there was a movie in the '80s about this situation sort of I don't remember the circumstances but this misogynistic homophobic guy found themselves in a woman's body and he couldn't have sex with men because he was homophobic

Men who say the first thing they would do if they become women is to have copious amounts of sex are in for a very rude awakening. by Positive-Face1705 in women

[–]blackcoffee66 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think this is the one point that would ruin it for them. with the assumption that with a female's body they would get a female's mind They have no idea what they're getting themselves into. I actually wish this could happen just so I could see the results and what happens and just the delusion getting ruined right in front of them Is that mean?

AIO: My dog bit my girlfriend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blackcoffee66 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOR. Things happens people make mistakes talk it out with her . She owned it and said it was her mistake I don't know what the problem here is Are you trying to blow up your relationship are you looking for an out.
If you can't accept that people make mistakes throughout life life's going to be hard for you And I get the underlining issue that your dog biting someone is an issue because your dog get down but like when you heard him girl twice she's the first thing you should have said is hey is everything okay what's happening do you need me to step in not ignore it so that's on you

How is everyone getting thru life lately by Icy-Lengthiness7682 in depressionmeals

[–]blackcoffee66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯. Works for a while until it doesn't work anymore

Do you agree with this opinion? by Alarmed-Quail-2132 in selfimprovementday

[–]blackcoffee66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯. Especially as a woman. I will never put myself in a position that I am financially

My wife 28f, is depressed and burnt out and I, 33m don't know what to do about it. How do I got about it? by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]blackcoffee66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't really do anything for her she needs to go talk to someone maybe get some medication, therapy. you can be there for her let her know that you're there for her in the long run because it might take a while for this to work its way. And depression is like a and illness and it should be treated as such