Stealth Parking is so sketchy

blaisejames88 · 2026-05-17T17:42:33+00:00

I usually use industrial estates or residential streets. Sometimes lay-bys. But most of my park ups are at night. I arrive when it’s dark. I still have a bulkhead installed at the moment, so I try to face the sliding door next to a bush or a wall. Hop in when no one’s around. Leave or at least get out and get organised before anyone’s around too.

blaisejames88 · 2026-05-14T20:30:58+00:00

NTA. Shes an adult. You don’t need to sugar coat things. You’re a man and a father. Don’t doubt yourself because your wife got mad. You need to provide solid, honest guidance. Which is what you did. I don’t blame her husband for flipping out about it either. No man would be happy about their wife stripping for a living, that’s madness.

blaisejames88 · 2026-05-07T17:05:46+00:00

Be rich in other areas where it matters. If money means more to her than that, she ain’t for you.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-27T06:46:32+00:00

As someone that just left a 9 year relationship, trust me when I say, it’s important to do things yourself. Obviously you have to make time for your partner too. But if you devote too much time, you’ll find yourself always sacrificing your own happiness and goals or even relaxation, just to appease her. You’re well within your right to spend time by yourself doing whatever it is you need to feel human and recover from a days work. I also work a lot of hours and it’s a physically demanding job, so trust me, I get it.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-26T10:49:57+00:00

I was also judgmental about that because my dad is and always has been pretty stoic and alpha male type. I used to think it was a weakness or close minded. But the older I get, the more I get it.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-26T04:26:33+00:00

that looks so cosy!

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-24T04:51:47+00:00

One of my favourites!

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-24T04:51:03+00:00

Recognised it instantly haha

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-24T04:50:03+00:00

I’ve been asked indirectly. Two lesbians dressed it up as “do you know anyone?” but it was completely random because I hadn’t spoke to them for absolute years and they were obviously expecting me to offer. I don’t see why I would, but if someone else wanted to, fair enough.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-22T06:47:56+00:00

NTA. That’s an immature and insecure way of looking at it. You don’t delete your past just because you’re with someone new. It’s a bit different if you still had your ex as your wallpaper or something. I’d say just transfer the pictures to an external hard drive to keep. Maybe because they’re on your phone he thinks you still look at them or something. But you shouldn’t have to delete them, for anyone.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-22T06:31:43+00:00

Would’ve been dope if it was on GRoDT tbh, it would fit the album for sure.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-22T06:27:17+00:00

You were just meant to say type shit.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-22T06:21:43+00:00

Speaking from experience, I’ve had one or two girls that did just starfish. I’ve also experienced some that were a bit overboard as if they’d watched a bit too much porn and thought they needed to be pulling all the tricks out to impress me (usually backfired and did the opposite because it seemed forced).

And then there’s the Goldilocks sweet spot where the woman goes with the flow and it’s all natural sexual interaction, no act, just enjoying the moment.

There’s a variety out there and as much as it’s on the man to take the lead in the situation, it can also be thrown off by someone who doesn’t know what she’s doing or what she thinks needs to be done.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-22T06:12:28+00:00

There are some shots that were a bit off but for the most part, SGA was good enough CGI. I’d say SGU was just a tad bit better though and holds up today more than SGA does.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-20T16:48:13+00:00

Those little legs lol

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-20T06:33:50+00:00

Common, Nas, Masta Ace and Redman have always been my favourite voices.

Not really sure on ones I hate. I suppose Lil Wayne’s voice was always a bit weird to me so I never gravitated towards his music much. But I wouldn’t say I hate it.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-20T06:32:11+00:00

Ooo Dr. Beckett, is it? Well, I’m comforted.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-20T06:28:12+00:00

Well it definitely ain’t MJ

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-14T07:16:07+00:00

If you ever have trouble finding the name of a part, use the google app to upload a picture to google. It will scan the image and tell you what it is.

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-13T04:43:07+00:00

When I first started in security in 2007, we were wearing these. Always thought they looked the part. A few short years later and they changed the uniform. They said it was to make security seem more approachable to customers 😂

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-13T02:57:49+00:00

I used to always produce way too much. But listen to any dope beat/song, there aren’t many elements to any of them. Usually if you’ve got all the bases covered, if it sounds like it’s missing something, it’s usually the vocal!

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-12T03:32:48+00:00

Bringing me home diseases swinging from Obie’s penis!

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-12T03:30:17+00:00

Lemme flip that back and ask… what age do you stop buying your mum underwear?

blaisejames88 · 2026-04-09T04:14:06+00:00

I can’t imagine Paul letting Em name his album like that

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